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I never had to go slowly bit by bit. I thought that would ease her fears. Truth is…
TheGreatMeow 67 reads
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I never had to go slowly bit by bit.  I thought that would ease her fears.   Regardless of who the woman is, I never just “slam it in there.”  I’ve been doing this for 20 years and not one woman has ever said I was too big.  I asked a provider friend if I was really big and she said “you’re average with a little bit more.”  

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I had a date with a very well reviewed provider. Everything was great.  Good bbbj and dfk. But things went bad when I wanted to actually fuck her .  She said I was too big. I’m definitely not that big.  As one provider told me, “your average with a little bit extra.“ I said to the woman “you can give birth and push a baby through there and you’re saying you can’t take my cock?

 Several of her reviews say how she got on top for cowgirl, I would grind furiously. They also mentioned that she had strong vaginal muscles and could clamp down on the reviewers cock. I told her with some lube, and if I went slowly, bit by bit, there shouldn’t be a problem. fucked well over 100 girls and not once have I ever had a provider say I’m too big to fuck.  

So I asked her to adjust the donation because all I was getting was a blow job and no sex. She became infuriated and refused to give me any of my donation back. What should I have done in the situation?  

I don’t think any woman should do anything that she’s not comfortable with. If she doesn’t want to fuck that’s her decision. But should I have been given back some of my donation?

I’m curious to hear from providers and other hobbyists  what you think.

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-- Modified on 3/4/2023 9:55:17 PM

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inicky4689 reads

so no connection to any reviews or posting history and expect us to take everything you claim at face value.
Not buying it.

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TheGreatMeow112 reads

Do you think I’m lying? Why would I lie about something like this? I’m using an alias because I don’t want the provider in question to know that I’m asking about it and I’m not posting review about her either because I do not want recriminations from her or for other providers to think that I would ever ask for a partial refund. In fact, this did not even happen in New York. I’m asking for an objective response from the community based on the facts without involving the name of the provider in question. I don’t want to start a war with her or anyone else which is why I left the details out of my post. I can’t imagine why you would think I would fabricate the story. What do I have to gain from posting a story that is false such as this?  You seem like just a cynical and hateful person for blasting out at me.

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inicky4675 reads

I didn't call you a liar, I simply expressed skepticism based lack of information. And if you'll read my OP more carefully, I also didn't ask for the girl's name. I simply pointed out you are a complete unknown.
Which you are.
Calm down.

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Model_mature82 reads

Still kicking I see and acting as the board police as usual lol.  

Did ya miss me? ;)  

Just say yes & appease me.
Oh...eom.

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inicky4676 reads

I miss you. :)

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Model_mature84 reads

That made my day💗

I always knew we could be civil and you still owe me a glass of wine.

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BigPapasan103 reads

I can assure you that he's been on TER for 15 years and has quite a few reviews as well as whitelists.  He's also used his alias since 2017 so he's not a complete unknown nor a rolling stone.

Related Link: NINE very acceptable reasons to use an alias

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Model_mature80 reads

time, not what happens on the date. Time is money, end of story. I'd tell you to go pound sand after that reaction too.

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Model_mature86 reads

I love it when I'm not surprised lol😏🤪😬

Bought it. Hook. Line. Sinker.

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devindavette85 reads

If you have to put your cock in slowly "bit by bit" you most likely have a big cock btw.

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TheGreatMeow68 reads

I never had to go slowly bit by bit.  I thought that would ease her fears.   Regardless of who the woman is, I never just “slam it in there.”  I’ve been doing this for 20 years and not one woman has ever said I was too big.  I asked a provider friend if I was really big and she said “you’re average with a little bit more.”  

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hollywoodviper176 reads

EOM

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Model_mature87 reads

you'd short her if you didn't get what you wanted?  

Duly noted.  

This mentality is everything that is wrong with this world. SMH

This world is "supposed" to be a collective effort of 2 people (or more) agreeing to have a safe and great time together. Going in with a chip on one's shoulder like a lot of guys here and an "I better get what I pay for" attitude only sets you up for failed date to boot. I have a feeling she can sense that going in, only to be confirmed by you only living up to your end of the deal at the very end.  

You get what you pay for (or not). Holding the donation "hostage" is not a good look. Just sayin'

I hope ladies you reach out to book with in the future read this before agreeing to meet with you.

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TheGreatMeow87 reads

You’re a jackass.  If I pay a provider’s full rate and she advertises that she fucks, her profile says she fucks, and other reviews say she fucks, then I expect to get fucked.  I was freshly showered and respectful but she decided my cock was too big. BULLSHIT! I’m average with “a little bit more.”  A provider with any sense of morality and fairness would’ve said, “I’m giving you back part of your donation because I’m not providing the services I advertise and for which you paid. You’re obviously one of these dickwads who is always sucks up to the providers hoping to get favorable treatment.  If she says she’s going to fuck me for $600, and I pay her $600, I expect her to fuck me or adjust the donation since all I got was a bbbj. If you go to a restaurant and pay for a prix fixe menu that includes an entree and an appetizer, and they only serve you an appetizer, would you still expect to pay the full price?  Then she had the nerve to send me a Cash App request for an additional $100.  An extra fee when she didn’t even provide what was agreed to.  Nothing more than a dishonest opportunist.

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James_Stance102 reads

Yes, you should have gotten some of your money back. What you described happens from time to time. Or the provider just wants you to fuck them and not kiss and touch them anywhere else. It just creates problems when a provider is extremely rigid. You have every right to ask for some or all of your money back. I have a couple of reviews dealing with this issue. The elephant in the room is what do you do if she doesn't give it to you. If the provider is not "independent" then you can plead your case to her "boss." Most "Bosses" want to keep the clients happy and want them to return. The thing is most times we don't know if they are independent or not. If the provider is independent then continue to plead your case. If she doesn't give you your money back then use these message boards because no provider wants to have a bad reputation. Honestly, you should out her because if she did that to you, she could be doing it to other guys. Other than the message boards and pleading your case, we as clients can't really do anything if the provider decides to stiff us. You don't want to end up in jail over a couple of dollars and pussy that can and will be easily replaced.

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Mstrchf11796 reads

It may not be that you were "too big" it may have been you were the 10th client that day and she was sore. Or that time of the month. Or 100 different things. Honestly just don't see her again, post a review if you want, but I wouldn't asked for money back. Not worth the trouble.

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