Putting this out there for the Ladies and Gents.  

Receiving a BJ is not high on my list. In fact, if I had the choice of only receiving a BJ, or enjoying DATY, for the rest of my life, I would go with DATY.  

I am curious to hear from the givers and receivers if there is a timeframe (7 minutes? Less? More?) that you feel, when reached, is time to move to something else?

To switch to DATY, I haven't actually hit a timeframe where I am looking to move on. I pretty much will continue, using whatever technique she is enjoying, until she is ready to switch up. Sometimes this has resulted in dates that were 75% DATY, with a bit of 69 thrown in occasionally, until we finished in Mish. (DATY time was over 45 minutes. Anyone going to do an extended DATY time should put a towel underneath her first, or avoid the large wet spot that ensues.)  

So, what is your average timeframe for giving, receiving BJ's/DATY

... I love DATY as much as you do Prof. I've gone at it for 25 to 35 minutes at a shot. I love the different reactions I get from the ladies. Real or fake (but if they squirt for me I know I've hit the right spot)

On the other hand, getting a blow job is a beautiful thing. It's not so much a thing where I am dominating and the gal is submissive to me. Getting a blow job just feels great. If she enjoys giving me that pleasure, all the better. If she wants me to act dominant in that situation, I'll do it. That being said, my cock is very sensitive (there, I admitted it, ha) so I can't usually go a long time with getting a blow job, because if I do, I'll just bust my nut because you lovely ladies know how to turn me on so much. So I might get to the edge and pull out so I can keep on enjoying some sweet tasting DATY. Yum! And when I'm good and ready (feeling like I'm not going to explode - then an there, I'll go into doggie or greek for a real work out. Then back to the giving and receiving. OMG the taste of it. And as I've mentioned in other posts... I do my best (days before game time) to switch up my diet to only healthy food to ensure I taste good too (No dairy,  lots of fruits and water)  

nycad

RECEIVE, and its all NATURAL ! daty ? Wtf is that !!!! Its all about meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee !  

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Involved someone who spent over 30 minutes giving me the best, slowest and most sensual bbbj of my life.  She was awesome, and my only regret was that I didn't do the exact same thing for round 2.

For me, a BJ is both giving and receiving - a win-win situation!  

I love a good hands-in-the-hair face f*ck, but give me your toy to play with for 30 minutes, and I'm in heaven.  Touching and tasting your arousal, exploring how to heighten and prolong your pleasure, all the while eagerly anticipating your sweet cream... it's the ultimate turn on.  

- MiMi.

The obvious conclusion is that 5 mins. of BBBJ is a really cool thing.  But, then's it's time to intensify things...which, at the end of the night, should send you home with a little smile on your face...unless you're spending the night WITH her...  :

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thank you for posting!

I just really like having my cock sucked. There are a couple of providers that I've been with that are so good at sucking cock that that's all I do with them is oral, them on me and me on them. I don't see providers unless their reviews indicate that they are superior cock suckers, and I prefer to see ladies that the reviewers say that she seems to enjoy it. My ex barely sucked my cock, mostly just as foreplay, and I enjoy it too much to be with a woman that won't do it or does it just to get things started.

Can you PM me or give me a link to your reviews?