There's a recent review of an upscale escort who offered BBFS for extra money.  I had the same experience with this escort and it obviously threw up red flags everywhere.  The thought of BBFS has never even crossed my mind and when this was offered I was told I was the only one.  Even though I obviously didn't engage in BBFS, I'm still getting tested regularly just because I came in contact with this girl.  

My question is why on earth would anyone offer, or want this servive?  Unless you have a death wish or maybe they have already contracted an STD and just don't care anymore.  

Providers, if you have any insight to this it would be greatly appreciated.

       Having been in the sex industry for many years and like many girls I know I was shocked when guys wanted to do daty [when you first start you are uncomfertable with strangers, know your doing something dirty and wrong]. But hey it's a great way to take a break, knock yourself out.  I'm always shocked and  disgusted inside [like in any bad situtaion is to always be taken with humor, never break the moment] when a customer wants bbfs. "oooh just for one moment" I promise I won't cum, yea right, I barely trust where my boyfriend is. Yuck.  I know good condoms get to be expensive [semi-busy, 2 times 4 customers a day, times 4 days a week, it adds up] and if your in this industry your way to tired to go to any clinic and pickup free ones.  So it only seems  like cheap greedy girls do this with men who think doing the whole alphabet is "the better deal", they can deal with hiv, gential warts and std's later.  A real smart girl would be happy to do everything coverd and only see customers that do.

Yikes!!
This is pretty risky behavior and I believe your gut instinct is correct.
Not to insinuate the young lady is passing any along but she may honestly not be aware of the risk that she is putting herself in.  Maybe she feels because she is dealing with an UPSCALE clientele (which has absolutely no bearing on ones health status) that there is less likely hood she will contact anything.  Is she from planet earth?  Really someone should pull her aside and discuss the matter with her.

It is a known fact that women age 18-32 make up 70% (and rising) of all HIV infected individuals in the U. S

Older women who have gone thru menopause are THE NEW FACE of HIV infections, in America, because they cannot get pregnant they were less likely to use condoms which in their time was only consider a form of birth control and STD infections.

My clients are upscale professionals such as doctors, lawyers, CEO's,etc--guys who are educated and should know better--yet from time to time they ask for BBFS.

One offered me twice my normal fee to leave the condom off. (Of course I said no).

I presume these guys have asked other girls the same thing--and who knows if other girls caved in for a high enough price?

Not being a guy, I have to assume that in the heat of passion, some guys throw common sense out the window and want maximum pleasure.

I breifly read some of your reviews Sheer Utopia,
and you offer DATY.

don't you consider this risky? Also, how
often do your test yourself?

To be honest this sort of thing goes on quite a bit. I can tell you that of the providers I have seen roughly about 65% of them after I have seen them a few times have offered me BBFS at an extra cost. I have declined everytime. This includes women from well known incall places and independants. Just recently I had an appointment with an independant who I was seeing for the very first time and she greeted me at the door and once inside she said that for an extra 200 we could go BB. I said no thank you and walked right out the door. I cant believe that for any amount she would take such a risk.

It happened. Wasn't planning on it. Didn't walk in the door with that in mind. Don't know why . Don't remember exactly the sequence of events. It felt incredible and instinct was in control. Made up my mind not to have body fluid exchanges with anybody until the full tests were run. PCR test for HIV, regular and ultra sensitivity tests, bacterials, and all those good things. Thank the good Lord it returned negative across the board. I was sort of discussing this with an escort friend. She had a customer come in with a raging case of anal warts. Her description was that it looked like a cauliflower growing out of his anus. Process that thought. For the price of a good date or two he could have had that treated but he's spend his money on sex and live with the infection ? Was that man dropped on his head as a child ? Freakin'insane ? I'm sharing women with creeps that think on that level ? Sheeeeeeezzz.

but seriously, I can't imagine why this person didn't have
his problem treated.  Regardless of how he got it, that's
just insane.

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