Quality will stop coming here with PR like this!!! See link below.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=227077&boardID=12&page=1

I am only allowed 1 message per week per board and as I posted on the NY board this week already, I am not allowed to post on here again until next week but I am allowed to reply to other posts though.

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Philly has a bad rep for cheap bastards, and NCNS. Let's hope NY doesn't get tagged a No show city. God knows we pay more than any U.S. City for pussy.

I thought it was one post per week per board. I heard the same about Philly actually but can't comment as I only went to KOP once.

on the national board,I fail to see why she is thanking you.
Her tour was not a success, but she rants on about all New York guys, and personally attacks one of us for his performance?? She sounds like a loose cannon to me. Heaven forbid if you give her a bad review.
You may have been better off not posting for her at all. I remained silent until she belittled one of us.
Be nice, and tour another day.

-- Modified on 10/5/2007 4:50:41 PM

and one that I have personally heard from several other indy providers.

What's going on here?  Are local guys too busy to give a courtesy call; "hey an emergency came up and I can't make it?"  That takes about 30 seconds and it's not too much to ask.

In my hobbying experience, I have never had to cancel.  Perhaps that makes me an exception - we are not all bad guys.

Cancellations happen on both sides, but there's no execuse for no shows.  

Still I didn't appreciate the general attack on NY on the national board, but even more troubling was when this Amandita made the hearsay comment about the guy's bedroom skills.  Criticizing his post is fine, but that particular comment was out of line.

Sorry that Amandita didn't have a successful trip but I'm not sure how all these post have helped.

People should be more respectful towards eachother.  That means 1) calling to cancel an appointment if necessary and 2) not insulting someone's "bedroom skills" on a public forum.  Lest we forget, it's the PROVIDERS who have to demonstrate decent bedroom skills.  We just have to demonstrate cash.  We pay for it.  They play for it.  Period.

I would post a message thanking NY effusively for being such great hosts and how I had so much fun with all my new friends. It would be likely to create the kind of hype that would cause guys to remember how sweet, fun and popular I am. That way wen they see me ad again they are likely to call me just on the strength of that hype. But then again, I actively employ common marketing strategies in my profession.

And I don't care how bad you are in bed. That's just more fun for us to have while I show you what no one else has taken the time to...

It appears that you all forget Pajada was insulting me BEFORE I mentioned his poor bedroom skills. So it is OK for you guys to insult us but we can't insult you? Something isn't right here sorry.

I didn't forget.  As I mentioned, it would have been fine if you had criticized him based on his post.  But what does his alleged bedroom skills have to do with anything? And for me, one of the things that's included in the fee is privacy.  Your friend should not have told you what she did, yet the fact is that friends talk.  But you certainly should not have used what your friend allegedly said in this way.

And let not forget that this whole thing began with a bashing of the men of NY.  It sounds like a handful of men deserved it, but not all of us.

Ny guys are unpredictable they either call and make appt say they are coming and dont show or they call and continuosly play on the phone, they are rude, and expect to see you within minutes of calling you. I feel we should get more respect for what we do especially us who do our job well and are not flakes. We choose to be indy for your convenience and ours because agencies can be a pain sometimes. Ny is ok when you have regulars. But it takes a few visits to build good regulars. Sometimes you meet a guy who is so disrespectful and you refuse to see him again. So I am asking you guys to please be gentlemen the name-calling and racial slurs are ridiculous escorting is not the same as walking the streets some of us actually have clients who are friends. I can speak for some if us girls when I say we dont talk to you any kind of way unless you ask us so do the same here. I am a nice respectable youn lady and I am in this line of work to make going to school and maintaining bills easier so I refuse to be treated like trash. There are nice guys here and those are the ones I love to see. I prefer interracial so it hurts to hear racial slurs when that same person could have not even contacted me at all. But Amanda keep your head up be positive and keep visiting and soon these guys will trust you but ny guys love good reviews so make sure you ask your clients to leave reviews. They probably didnt see too because they may not trust you yet.

This is pretty much a 24 hour city. Tho I love strolling along upper east side streets, admiring pre-war architecture, and wrought iron gates, late at night, when it "seems" the city is asleep, what really is happening is men are in their comfy apartments, still working on stuff from their jobs. Men in NY work, and work, and work, until finally, they MUST have a break and some relaxation. Thats when they call us. And its not alot of notice usually, since their scheduals are so hectic, and they have meetings all day, but not in one office, they actually have to run all over the city, meeting in different offices, taking many taxis...  They are busy, busy, busy! I dont know if men from other US cities live as busy a life, or as long as a work week, as a New York man. This is why I understand when they call me and request an appointment in 30 minutes or less. Yes, i would love to have them book a few hours in advance, to be able to plan out my day a bit, but most of them cant do it in advance, and alot of times, even on short notice, a meeting will pop up when they didnt expect it, and they have to cancel. If they have a little time available, and they cant get me on the phone, then they call someone else. True, if you have a good reputation, and if they miss you on a day, they will most likely try you another day. But it's not because they dont respect us that they book late, or have to cancel... its almost always job related. The only appointments i get that are booked in advance, are men travelling in from another state. They will often book one week in advance, and call once or twice to confirm it before we meet. I think that is wonderful! But I also dont hold anything against the man who's tight work schedual only allows little time-slot windows to open up for him. In a way, its actually flattering that they call spur of moment, because alot of NY men only have a little time for a lunch break, yet they are willing to give up their lunch meal, and see me instead.
I think that everywhere else in the states, it works differently then NY, so you have to understand and respect this difference , and its not because the men are rude and disrespectful, but rather they are just super-hero hard workers. Also, this is a very expensive city to live in. If you want to pay bills, plus have left-over money for saving, you have to bust your ass in this city. Men need to work alot here, but thank god for us girls, to be there for them when they need a little break from all the hard work. To be in new york, you just have to accept how it goes here.
Amanda knows i like her alot. I think she is intelligent and sweet, and she always offers me complimentry and supportive pms. She just hates disrespect. And her temper was set off when she felt disrespected. But then again, the men who said things to her, were also feeling that she disrespected them, which is why their tempers went off too. I think it would've been best if she had pm'd me or other helpful providers, before she made her public post. I would've told her exactly the same thing Im writing here- that ny men are just super busy. I agree, its bad for rep when a provider gets angry. (altho with her temper, being so bad for the rep, she still has over 1000 reads, which is alot of publicity! Certainly everyone knows of her now, good or bad, she is now well known..). True, Guys hate to see a provider flame up, they like us sweet on the inside, plus a candy coating on the outside. And yes, it's best for us to be sweet thru and thru to our men.
I offer my hand of advice to anything amanda needs to ask. I have not lost respect for her, since i know she has a good heart. And the men of new york have good hearts too. Noone is bad here. I care for everyone's emotions and well-being. It kinda is an ego thing that made the post get wicked, and im sure ego will also keep anyone from apologizing, but i do hope my explanation of the goodness of ny men, and also my knowledge of the goodness of amanda, will maybe just let everyone calm down, and focus on just being happy and peaceful.

Make Love Not War xxoxoxoxxo Flora



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Flora I agree & while I have no real interest in the he said/she said of this discussion, I was thinking that with her this pissed off it might be a good time to go over and get the spanking I so richly deserve.

-- Modified on 10/7/2007 3:10:26 AM

All that frustration and fire she must express. Im sure she would like to release it thru orgasm! and certainly not mind someone who would like her to slap them around a bit. lol

if you need a reference, ill be happy to give you a great one. Ill make sure she takes great care of you. x flora

Flora,

Could you visit the UN and have a sit down with them? You may be the Earth's best chance for world peace.

JJ

This is your career progression

1. From a Provider

2. To a bedtime story Poet

3. Then to a Hollywood actress

You may not know how to act florafaun but at least you will be good in those love scenes.

shaka700