I had a client who cancelled at the last minute today and was very cavalier about. when i text-ed him that i wish he could have given me a little notice or at least said he was sorry that something came up. I have had other cancellations it is the nature of our business so i realize that things do come up. But he was just rude. He responded that is the golden rule those who have the gold make the rules. He then threatened to post a bad review if i black listed him.  Which i do not know how to do.  

..we all know who the "Golden Rule" guy is and he has no credibility. None. Move on and have no fear.

Who is that guy????

Save your emails and texts so you can provide to TER if the guy posts a review.  Sorry you had a last min cancellation and the guy was a dick about it.  Try not to lose sleep over it.

Just like ladies shouldn't blacklist clients for bullshit, guys shouldn't threaten to write bad reviews for silly stuff. Provide his TER handle, phone number, and email address. I can't stand guys like this. I would take screen shots of your text convo with him and contact TER ASAP so they can be alerted.

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Some people can be such jerks. I totally get your frustration since I've had a bad week as well with 5 NCNS to the point where I was fully expecting nobody to show up this week! It really can be upsetting. I hope you can rise above this incident. I think he is just threatening you because there's no way he would know he was blacklisted anyways. I wish you the best and keep your chin up!

SEXEGENARIAN should know better. The guy is such a disgusting shill anyways I wouldn't even worry about him. Definitely forward his text to TER though. 300 women can't be your ATF and the best, blah.

Pay him no mind. He can not post a review if he has not seen you.If he does you can appeal to have it removed.

He can't write a review if a session did not take place. Period. You should email TER and provide the texts and emails and they will flag it so that he can't submit a review for you.

You actually wanted to see this dude?? GROSS!!

Couldn't be me. I can't stand weirdos like that he probly would have went ahead and wrote a fake review about me because of how I let him have it over the email I sent him. I am a nice person and very sweet but do not talk crazy or threaten me especially when I have done nothing wrong.  

I was canceled by the same provider the last minutes twice with no apology.

Agreed that BL only goes so far, but not to do it at all when it's necessary makes it that much more difficult for the next lady : (

Is this the same guy? I have a name, I refused to see him and he was offended. Posted a fake insulting me. Even when I showed ter the emails they still were a pain about it because they were waiting on his response which he never gave. Continued to email me though, got him there.  
This guy was relentless and created a brand new fake acct saying the same thing as soon as they took the old one off. He didn't even leave a deposit, I just turned him away b/c he was rude.
Girls, where can I out this guy? Provider only board? He was real immature for a grown man. Had some real repressed hate to go through all that trouble, or a lot of free time.

it isn't about cancellation - that just happens in this biz on both sides and is irritating to whomever it happens to.

He who has the gold, gets to see the one who makes the rules because she has the pussy.   What a twerp!    The sad thing is that a few guys make the rest of us look like assholes simply because we share the same chromosomes.

Getting on the Provider Only board is easier said than done, my dear.

...and it took me 4-6 months of "actively trying" to finally gain access.

If something happens like this again I would ignore it and not post about it unless there actually was a bad review. I know that it sucks getting threatened. But if someone is like that you're better off not having met. And although words hurt, unless some actually posts something then no one else knows. And as others have pointed out the rules are strict about not posting about someone you didn't see. Especially since you didn't intend on blacklisting him.