New York
GFE is all about connecting with someone else
To me, it means being genuine and warm and giving. Being someone that makes the other person (or people) feel comfortable and relaxed. What about you? To be clear, I don't think there's a right answer. I'm just curious and interested in starting a conversation. 
I think you are spot on. As a matter of fact, I know you are! 
JackDunphy
posted
7 / 21
The term GFE is so overused and in my personal opinion I would say 1 out of ever 15 women has the potential to be a GFE type of provider. 2 out of the 30 girls I have met are GFE providers more so than everyone else. They touch the clients they see. They don't look at you as a slot machine they see the entire puzzle. The type of provider that you would trust with your life and she would trust you with hers. Again this takes time doesn't happen on the first or second date. You don't love them but you have there backs and they have yours. They dig into you and leave an impression well after you are done spending time with them. That is what I would call a GFE provider. Someone who you don't speak to often who checks up on you to you to see if you are still breathing. Someone who just understands you. The air is electric and the sessions are magical. Again these are my thoughts. A provider becomes GFE when I or you the client open up to her. The way she reacts to what you have to say. A provider that is willing to listen without it being for the betterment of her wallet. Someone who wants to be in your presence someone who sees something in you which only she can see. She has gem written all over here. Someone who doesn't fit in with the crowd but stands on her own merits. These are the truly great providers who offer what I would call GFE Sessions. Like I said these take time to develop but they give you what other providers won't or can't. You either have it or you don't. Those are my thoughts.
I open up with the provider and give her a real piece of who I am and why I am here. I might share a life experience ask for a piece of advise on something that is haunting me. etc In my mind to truly get to a GFE level with a provider I need to be very comfortable with the person. It might happen on a 2nd date 5th date or later. I'm not pouring out my soul to anyone on the first date. First dates should be fun and just flow.
I open up with the provider and give her a real piece of who I am and why I am here. I might share a life experience ask for a piece of advise on something that is haunting me. etc In my mind to truly get to a GFE level with a provider I need to be very comfortable with the person. It might happen on a 2nd date 5th date or later. I'm not pouring out my soul to anyone on the first date. First dates should be fun and just flow.
I know what the initials stand for obviously, but what it means to be an ideal "girlfriend" - even if only for a short time - is so personal. I see "ISO GFE," and "____ provides the ultimate GFE," a lot so I'm curious to know what "GFE" means to other providers and patrons. Is it more atmospheric or mechanical?
To me, it means being genuine and warm and giving. Being someone that makes the other person (or people) feel comfortable and relaxed. What about you?
To be clear, I don't think there's a right answer. I'm just curious and interested in starting a conversation.
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To me, it means being genuine and warm and giving. Being someone that makes the other person (or people) feel comfortable and relaxed. What about you?
To be clear, I don't think there's a right answer. I'm just curious and interested in starting a conversation.
The "non-GFE" refers to the standard AMP menu which is, well, non-GFE (CBJ, FS). The "GFE" refers to how I felt when I was with her. An indescribable feeling of comfort, security, pleasure ... Somehow, she could read my mind. I do miss her. FWIW, there is also a K-girl I've seen several (but fewer than 10) times that is my favorite GFE non-GFE. Her menu is GFE (BBBJNQNS, MSOG, etc.) and it is always a fun time, but it is not a well-connected GFE time. non-GFE GFE and GFE non-GFE. Confused? Not me!
I know what the initials stand for obviously, but what it means to be an ideal "girlfriend" - even if only for a short time - is so personal. I see "ISO GFE," and "____ provides the ultimate GFE," a lot so I'm curious to know what "GFE" means to other providers and patrons. Is it more atmospheric or mechanical?
To me, it means being genuine and warm and giving. Being someone that makes the other person (or people) feel comfortable and relaxed. What about you?
To be clear, I don't think there's a right answer. I'm just curious and interested in starting a conversation.
To me, it means being genuine and warm and giving. Being someone that makes the other person (or people) feel comfortable and relaxed. What about you?
To be clear, I don't think there's a right answer. I'm just curious and interested in starting a conversation.
Those who feel that way and want to have fun with a woman (and not a pro sex worker which counts her time on every hour ) - those nobel and earth down gentlemen do have enough self respect to seek a girl friend and appreciate her time Not to pay for abbreviated services.. but have intimacy and be able to relax
to laugh, feel compassion, feel happiness, and share , share by giving and receiving
Feel her readiness to accept him as he is with all his imperfections and insecurities.
.with all his weird ( at times) feel of humor and so special interests he has - yet be loved, be satisfied and intimately connected NOT for money- but because we like each other and have soon deep intimate and human connection..
it is ultimate girl friend ...
That is dream of men, and meet such woman is very hard and in real life,( with all those special skills of and openness behind close doors )
Such woman is one a life time
So basically - he does not pays for money for that at all.
He just appreciates her time
As well - for my date style- there be not any Verify him and safe offices johns data base where I be looking his information and he would know - I never will enter any of info I learning about him in those internet date johns database.
That I do deliver as ultimate GF and BF
Thank you for reading
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Not to pay for abbreviated services.. but have intimacy and be able to relax to laugh, feel compassion, feel happiness, and share , share by giving and receiving
Feel her readiness to accept him as he is with all his imperfections and insecurities.
.with all his weird ( at times) feel of humor and so special interests he has - yet be loved, be satisfied and intimately connected NOT for money- but because we like each other and have soon deep intimate and human connection..
it is ultimate girl friend ...
That is dream of men, and meet such woman is very hard and in real life,( with all those special skills of and openness behind close doors )
Such woman is one a life time
So basically - he does not pays for money for that at all.
He just appreciates her time
As well - for my date style- there be not any Verify him and safe offices johns data base where I be looking his information and he would know - I never will enter any of info I learning about him in those internet date johns database.
That I do deliver as ultimate GF and BF
Thank you for reading
-- Modified on 4/10/2016 7:15:34 PM
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This for me, is what its about. Simples. Nice words Impposter
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-- Modified on 4/10/2016 9:14:27 PM
honestdave
posted
16 / 21
If someone says "provides the ultimate GFE" they could be saying the woman provides BBFS. If a girl says it in an ad it means the same thing that "ultra fresh" means on toothpaste. Personally, I always defined it as "she makes me feel like she'd do me for free if we met under different circumstances." But I wouldn't use it to describe anyone, because they would see the letters and have their own meaning. As far as I know, there is only 1 universality to it. If a guy says a girl was GFE it means he enjoyed the date. You can't read any more into it than that.