This may sound like a touchy question.  The word "smitten" may not be the correct one.

Was wondering if anyone has ever "become smitten" with a lady they have seen?  I'm not talking about falling in love with them or becoming a stalker or anything of the sort.  What I mean is someone that you have seen that you really connect with and find them attractive on both a physical and intellectual level.  You  enjoy spending time with them and consider her a friend.  You look forward to seeing them again very soon.  Some people may equate this to an ATF (I don't think that is exactly the description I am going for).

This has happened to me 3 times (and the ladies know who they are).

Any thoughts?  Please PM me if you would like to know who they are.

Perhaps because of TER reviews.discussion boards and other hobbyiest referals...
I've been "gaga" over the majority of the ladies I've seen.
...smitten but never bitten...and always better the second time around.

Cheers!

VonRyan, I am gaga over you

Red (The Future Mrs. VonRyan)

I have already gotten several PMs...

Here is a hint...read my reviews for the last few months.

Just a few years now?  Well, whatever.  
Not long enough.  
Dude, you and your posting buddies have lost some important perspective.

Never forget, it is the lady’s JOB to make a connection with you and to make you smitten.  Like BDJ4ME said, ‘That’s the way its supposed to be.’

But don't delude yourself.  These ladies are in BUSINESS to make you feel special and the ladies you see do it well, very well.  So well that they have you posting on these boards with a question like this.  Go read their ads on Eros again.  You’ll see the words where they promise to thrill you as they go about getting to know you.  That’s what they do for every client.  So don’t kid yourself that you’re the one making a connection.

You know the lady that you pay $1500 for that 6 hour dinner date?  Really, try to get by sometime on that good ol ‘connection’ stuff.   Go ahead – schedule that 6 hour session and a couple rounds of sex without coughing up the 1.5k.  You won’t get far.  That’s because it’s a business to them – nothing more.  And you are a source of revenue and the ‘connection’ keeps you coming back with an open wallet.  Sure, they’re people, and they too want to have a good time during their encounter with you.  But, the business angle comes first and always does.

At least one of the three ladies you are smitten with, and perhaps the others, are already in long term, committed relationships.  Their SOs know it’s a business and its good money so they tolerate what they do.  But it’s a certainty that the lady has no interest in anything outside the ongoing and potential business relationship.  Their romantic interests and genuine feelings lie elsewhere.  So, what's the value of the connection beyond having some fun while in session?

That’s the way it is.  Some of you guys need to spend more time away from these boards and this hobby.  Get a real relationship.  The ‘smitten’ relationships you have with your fav escorts aren’t real as your imagination is making them and have no future for you.  And damn Huey, you’re even backchanneling the names to interested parties.  What’s the point of that?  Get a life bro.

Red...

Just make sure your wearing white lingerie...


Googoo gaga and Cheers!

And I so love having several 'boyfriends' to see when they're in town, or meeting them elsewhere on a biz trip, ot someplace else just for fun.....  I make it clear that we still have limits, etc, and even after months and months and numerous dates together, things must always retain a bit of the professional side with a fee, albeit eventually reduced for longer evenings/ getaways....

I was really torn up.  It felt just like teenage love.  She told me she only gave HJs to other hobbyists, but we both knew it wasn't true.  Eventually, we drifted apart.  But this was full on, irrational, senseless love.

could't form and keep a "normal" relationship if their lives depended on it. I know many of you will protest about this statement (go ahead, knock yourself out) but most of these girls and I emphasize Most, have deep rooted psychological problems that got them into this business in the first place. They have problems with their self image and in the way they view men based upon their childhood and their past. They are deluding themselves and YOU about what they do and the "friendships" being formed. It is all about the money and nothing else. Stop wasting your time and energy chasing after a ghost. When your money disappears so do they.
It is with respect and concern that I say that the lion in you has courage, the tin man in you has a heart, now have the scarecrow in you get a brain !!

So, if he wants to get "smittin" for his money, no harm done,  he seems to know in the back of his mind it's not real.

Dreams are what this country is made of.....

If Boston fans want to deram about winning the World Series. Huey, can dream about being smittin, it's his money and his dream...............

Go Yankees...............
Go Huey..................

was smitten, gobsmacked, went absolutely head over heels for a girl in the biz.... she wasn't just any girl either...to my utter amazement the relationship worked out, has been a good friendship for years now

OTOH.... she positively has great difficulty with normal intimacy, I don't believe she has an internal idea of what a normal man-woman relationship is... she has HER ideas about what it is, sometimes that can be very cool in its own way, other times frustrating and comical...(we're talking about real people issues here, so what do you expect ?)... she has a higher raw IQ than almost anyone I've ever known, estimate she clocks in at about IQ 145 and makes me look dumb sometimes, then she'll do things so ass backwards I think she has some hidden mental defect, and she has myriad eating-body image problems...

In the final analysis it wasnt abou't the money once we moved off the clock....it wasn't about sex either, in her private life she didn't want or need more sex, she wanted AFFECTION, somebody to focus attention on her... she was sooo exhausted having to focus all of her attention on needy, demanding (terms we normally associate with women.... ironic) men

and, she could go through a box of Godiva chocolate in a sitting then have one piece of lettuce the following day... drank prodigious quantities of coffee, and could say something so insightful and comprehending right out of the blue with her dry sense of humor which might have pissed me off it it had come from anyone else but from her it was so perfectly timed and with such a light touch I would laugh instead...

You can't buy a friendship like that....

I don't find that comment although clarified with "MOST" to be a very kind statement.

I have a friendship with a women in this business:

1. Who doesn't care about $$$- mine or hers
2. Is very confident in who she is
3. Has become more of a real friend than most of my long time  
  friends.
4. And based upon how intelligent, beautiful and sexy she is  
  certainly far from a ghost.

Lastly if Huey or anyone else wants to establish a friendship like this I say it is up to him to not have it be based on $$$!

Von,

Who is that Blonde godness in the photo?????

then you realize to them it is still a job. i mean some do it better than others so you forget it is a job. it has happened to me about 2 times.

Wouldn't big Jake like to know...lol

She's one hot luscious,curvy civy.

Cheers!