who is not really in the business but is willing to see me on the side. There is a potential sugar daddy/sugar baby scenario here. She can't work on the books as it will conflict with her student visa, so she works as a bartendar off the books.

I met her at a hotel with her other Brazilian girlfriend who IS in the business. She really does not want to be in the business. Her stay with her friend seemed very temporary.

I fell for her and have been communicationg with her after I got her private number. She's a sweet girl who takes care of her sponsor family's kids while trying to make ends meet. I'm not sure where this is going to end up but I'd like to see her again. She supposed to see me at my apartment tomorrow but I'm not confident she will make the trip. What do I do? Should I pursue this relationship? I certainly couldn't talk about with a friend or family member. I'd give her money just to spend time with me. Is this wrong?

Looking for advice.

i think u should ask ur priest.

How can that be wrong to give her some $. You do know you are on a website that encourges men to give women money for sex.  I have been in this situation many times, I have dated many Brazilian girls from the strip clubs I go to...If you get along with her then why not.  Start off slow by that i mean don't give a huge amount of money but see what she wants in terms of finances-if you can swing it then go for it....I have a professional realtionship with some Brazilian strippers that after a while just really become nice friends and others that just want to bleed your bank account...My rules are find out which category they fall into then go from there.  One rule I have is never send money to anyone's mother/child/uncle/whatever oversees - you are just asking for trouble.  No matter how sad the story you will regret it in the long run. I have never done this but know some guys that have and they pratically bought someone they did not know a house in Colombia or Brazil or somewhere else.  Give it a try man-Brazilian girls are the best...

Your advice to him is if she offers greek to continue, if not bail. Right? Why even offer any, if its not going to be constructive. Honestly

no interest in you emotionally.

If you getting sexual trips to Greek Isles then continue it if you desire.

If she never calls you just forget about it.  I have found that to much chasing can lead to a bad situation....maybe just forget her and move on, if she calls then have fun

He said "if she offers trips to the isles".  I believe daveberts  might have been suggesting she was a trannie (common in Brazil) and that he would recommend he go for it only if she were a tranny and offered trips to the isle. He being the isle.

Desperation isn't a very good foundation for a relationship of any kind.

Get a dog.

Enough with the trip to the Isles boys. I'm not the Isle and no she is not into the greek isles. She did return my call today and saw me after work. She was as hot as I remember her when I saw her the first time. We had a nice time and I will be seeing her again. It doesn't alays have to be about sex.  I really like this girl and I can tell she likes taking to me. I believe this will work out. I'm tired of seeing escorts and taking the unnecesary risk that comes along with the whole game.

Hey,

 I think your on tricky ground, but you should go for it.  But take it slow and try to be upfront.  I am curious about the other brazilian girls people have seen professionally and at clubs.  I haven't seen a brazilian girl in NYC for years and am very curious about meeting more.

Please PM for info and keep us or updated on your dating.  

Thanks!

she's already been to my apartment and we discussed meeting once a week. I'm willing to see where this goes. I really enjoy her company and look forward to our nexy encounter.

whats the big deal about brazilian girls? i feel like im missing something?

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