It has been bothering me of late how some of the threads and comments on many of the boards , not just NY  , are very negative in nature.  

As usual, you hit it on the head KLD!  Community being the key. Was going to add to this but you nailed it!  Listen to her people!

The message from the blogs, discussion boards, Facebook, and especially Twitter is "Let no opinion go unexpressed." No one takes the time to cool off before firing off their comment. Everybody seems to think their opinion has to be heard, and heard immediately without evaluating the repercussions. You saw in on any awards show night, you'll see it after tonight's State of the Union. It is what it is. Technology has made it too easy for mean spirits to rear their heads.

Very well articulated and thought out. This has been on my mind for some time as well. This place could be extraordinary in it's scope and tolerance, and in it's ability for people to have a great deal of fun. We are often left disappointed in at the levels of malevolence here. You're a lovely woman. Thank you.

As a society, well beyond TER, we can all strive for greater emotional intelligence and civility.

BK I am positive you are correct . In fact , a dear friend who i absolutely adore has a filter issue . I asked her recently " have you ever had a thought you have not verbally expressed ? "
I was seriously wondering lol .  
Maybe you are right but i am hopeful that it will improve as the way we now communicate is less new and possibly becomes more natural to people  . Thinking that their online persona is an entirely different entity than the girl or guy that hopped out of their bed this morning is a little weird . I act online as i do in the flesh . I feel like regardless of where the communication happens i need to own it . Have a great day , kendall lynn .  

And I wish you the best in spreading your message of love!  But given the nature of this (and other boards) I remain a skeptic, though I will try to play nice here.
Did I mention I love your hot ass?

When it's said as well as you expressed there's little to add! (Eom)

Thank You Nicky My ass loves you as well lol too funny teehee  
OK shut up and F#%& me already .
Priceless  Love it    Kendall lynn

I absolutely agree in general on being kind to people everyday.  
And particularly on those things you highlighted (i.e., acts, fetishes, personal tastes).
It is all consistent with the good person I take you to be from your public persona.

but head out again on Saturday for a month in Cost Rica.  See you when I get back for sure.  I will have tales.

The question is whether the invective vocabulary is necessary. As we found out through most of the recent comments about bait/switch, those that stuck to the issue, got it right. It was very effective, and very useful for everyone here. However, when that or any subject get personally abusive, it throws off the debate and often becomes a clusterfuck.

And blast someone for this post, newbie!

My thoughts exactly (well, the non-dirty ones at least).

When people bring out the negative, it's just so lame. this site is supposed to be about having fun and having smart dialog with fellow hobbyist and providers. Hopefully, you raising your voice in this thread will quash some of the negativity and we'll move towards the light.  

So you searched me out. Aren't you the noble troll. This exactly what I am talking about. And of course, you took the bait from Kendall's salient points.

Own it man, make it your calling card.  

Perhaps the most easily recognizable Serial Bully traits are:

Thx- i found your net traits on the flaming warrior website.

a bully who will move from one target to another, and whose depravity is only constrained by the realization that they have to appear normal to fit in among civilized people. One consequence is that they rarely use physical violence on their targets, resorting instead to activities that are harder for onlookers to notice, such as emotional blackmail and underhand tactics to get their way.

You flamed nycad

He won't let me post about Bbfs and cream pies.

This is great!

This is going to take at least a year to straighten out. Especially since you've been at this for at least 14 years. Or maybe since you were beaten up in 5th grade.

Couldn't make sense of the last post...

Did I miss my ballot in the mail or was this by acclamation?

Problem is you lack credibility, insofar as a f-ckboard.  

Dull tool-meet shed. Lol.

Garden leave is the greatest thing in the world.

When so many, so easily, rip for the red meat.

And you admit that you are a narcissist. We are making progress. Frankly from reading your activities here, I would say that your analyst missed some stuff. Probably because you didn't tell him the entirety of your story.

Megalomania drove Adolf Hilter to destroy anything and anyone that was not in his control and is
one of the most well known examples of megalomania in modern history.
His megalomania drove him to aspire to conquer the entire world.  Being born into a "superior race" also wasn't enough for the mentally ill Hitler. Instead, he wanted to wipe out all other races. This need to destroy everything outside of what he perceived as an extension of himself is a classic though horrifically illustrated example of megalomania. Paradoxically, a person who exhibits such tremendous ego and self-confidence in reality has such low self-esteem and such a fragile ego that he cannot abide any expression other than his own, for fear of annihilation of the self. Therefore everything that is not under his control is perceived as a threat.

Both you and shilltard over there kinda following the textbook for losers who get their asses handed to them in debate, aren't ya? LOL.

Guessing that's what you keep calling an analyst? Or your psychiatrist does anal? Not sure. Lol

and this post of Kendall is prove to that  
 Amazing post ,amazing woman  
 I wish have high pilotage of  writing on English )
 But I am assure I feel every her word with every inch of my skin  
 AMAZING  
LOVE  to you and  millions red roses .

... I find it best to ignore him when ho goes into hate mode, after all, he enjoys this. Your stoking the fire turns him on. IF he couldn't start a fight he would go home. Anyway, it's is truly hilarious how this guy has hung his psyche out to dry...

Is this all you can say in your first public appearance since the outing?

I'm a couple of thousand miles away, but the sentiment is the same all over the country with the "Silent Majority".  
Too bad the majority of our little community will never see this, due to the actions of a vociferous, sychophantic minority of troll-boys pushing them away from what should be an open, accepting community of like-minded individuals.  
I keep telling myself to just walk away, but I have found some some fantastic pearls among the swine.

you are, instead of just pretending & acting out a persona that the others want, only speaking the words they want to hear, feeding into their negativity, letting them think they are superior. Again thanks for standing strong & staying true to yourself....