New York

Exhausting thread. Res Ipsa Loquitur!
kendalllynn See my TER Reviews 1523 reads
posted
1 / 48

It has been bothering me of late how some of the threads and comments on many of the boards , not just NY  , are very negative in nature.  

At times the posts have become down right rude and insulting not only to the person they are intended but clearly to me and us as a community .  

The mode is extremely inelegant in general and typically it appears to me to be very manipulative in nature.

Imagine that someone or some number of people are trying to sway our/ your opinion of others or of things , acts , fetishes etc. to suit their own egos , needs  , and fill their own dance cards .  

Quite frankly I feel it insults our intelligence as a community .

I had hoped that we as a race might evolve in a way that was less angry , mean and insulting to something more diversified , kind , warm and thoughtful.  

I don't know how many of you browse all the boards and who stays here at home but i do and i can tell you this is not exclusive to NY at this time .  
I find it disheartening and concerning .
 
 We here in NY have a community of bright , educated people who are very fortunate to have the experiences and opportunities that are available to us .  

In terms of providers , education , culture and any other thing we might decide we have interest in an abundance of choices are available.  

In ny there are zero boundaries or limitations on what you can do .  

I say we are fortunate because all of the many things we have at the tips of our fingers are not available in other locations around the states or the world.  
Yet somehow we seem to be stuck in a mode of mean spirited abuse of others.  
Maybe it emotionally uplifts the less fortunate .  
Maybe even it does something for them that i am unfamiliar with personally .

I do wish we would all ,including myself , take the time to think before we speak , to cool off when angry , and speak after we are able to think clearly .  
To consider that there is another person on the receiving end of what we say and do .

Reception IS perception based but it is hard to argue with what becomes obvious to all and their is power in numbers .  

I have become disinterested in the angry mode and attacks on others age , race , fetishes , personality , shape , size  , and background . It is a HUGE turn off .

If i turn off the lights you all look the same . All of you as well as me , the same .
If i do not connect with something someone says it doesn't mean it is not of importance to them it means i did not connect with it which btw is on me entirely .

 It takes all kinds of people , please try and be kind even if they are not exactly on the same page as you are .  
For those incapable i really do feel sorry for you and hope one day you may stretch yourself  . As it turns out sometimes when we stretch , we grow . I would love to see us grow as a community and become more closely knit as we seemed to be previously just a few short years ago . I wish you all Happiness and kindness of heart , love , and health , positive experiences and vibes in your lives .
                                                                                                 All the best , Kendall Lynn

gtrman 108 Reviews 610 reads
posted
3 / 48

As usual, you hit it on the head KLD!  Community being the key. Was going to add to this but you nailed it!  Listen to her people!

Posted By: kendalllynn
It has been bothering me of late how some of the threads and comments on many of the boards , not just NY  , are very negative in nature.  
   
 At times the posts have become down right rude and insulting not only to the person they are intended but clearly to me and us as a community .  
   
 The mode is extremely inelegant in general and typically it appears to me to be very manipulative in nature.  
   
 Imagine that someone or some number of people are trying to sway our/ your opinion of others or of things , acts , fetishes etc. to suit their own egos , needs  , and fill their own dance cards .  
   
 Quite frankly I feel it insults our intelligence as a community .  
   
 I had hoped that we as a race might evolve in a way that was less angry , mean and insulting to something more diversified , kind , warm and thoughtful.  
   
 I don't know how many of you browse all the boards and who stays here at home but i do and i can tell you this is not exclusive to NY at this time .  
 I find it disheartening and concerning .  
   
  We here in NY have a community of bright , educated people who are very fortunate to have the experiences and opportunities that are available to us .  
   
 In terms of providers , education , culture and any other thing we might decide we have interest in an abundance of choices are available.  
   
 In ny there are zero boundaries or limitations on what you can do .  
   
 I say we are fortunate because all of the many things we have at the tips of our fingers are not available in other locations around the states or the world.  
 Yet somehow we seem to be stuck in a mode of mean spirited abuse of others.  
 Maybe it emotionally uplifts the less fortunate .  
 Maybe even it does something for them that i am unfamiliar with personally .  
   
 I do wish we would all ,including myself , take the time to think before we speak , to cool off when angry , and speak after we are able to think clearly .  
 To consider that there is another person on the receiving end of what we say and do .  
   
 Reception IS perception based but it is hard to argue with what becomes obvious to all and their is power in numbers .  
   
 I have become disinterested in the angry mode and attacks on others age , race , fetishes , personality , shape , size  , and background . It is a HUGE turn off .  
   
 If i turn off the lights you all look the same . All of you as well as me , the same .  
 If i do not connect with something someone says it doesn't mean it is not of importance to them it means i did not connect with it which btw is on me entirely .  
   
  It takes all kinds of people , please try and be kind even if they are not exactly on the same page as you are .  
 For those incapable i really do feel sorry for you and hope one day you may stretch yourself  . As it turns out sometimes when we stretch , we grow . I would love to see us grow as a community and become more closely knit as we seemed to be previously just a few short years ago . I wish you all Happiness and kindness of heart , love , and health , positive experiences and vibes in your lives .  
                                                                                                  All the best , Kendall Lynn

BK57 46 Reviews 802 reads
posted
4 / 48

The message from the blogs, discussion boards, Facebook, and especially Twitter is "Let no opinion go unexpressed." No one takes the time to cool off before firing off their comment. Everybody seems to think their opinion has to be heard, and heard immediately without evaluating the repercussions. You saw in on any awards show night, you'll see it after tonight's State of the Union. It is what it is. Technology has made it too easy for mean spirits to rear their heads.

JakesChinatown 15 Reviews 924 reads
posted
5 / 48

Very well articulated and thought out. This has been on my mind for some time as well. This place could be extraordinary in it's scope and tolerance, and in it's ability for people to have a great deal of fun. We are often left disappointed in at the levels of malevolence here. You're a lovely woman. Thank you.

Jake

1820590 37 Reviews 549 reads
posted
6 / 48
KL69069 51 Reviews 829 reads
posted
7 / 48

As a society, well beyond TER, we can all strive for greater emotional intelligence and civility.

What seems to sell on TV is loud, rude, nasty, dishonest, disrespectful.   And I deplore it.

kendalllynn See my TER Reviews 711 reads
posted
8 / 48

BK I am positive you are correct . In fact , a dear friend who i absolutely adore has a filter issue . I asked her recently " have you ever had a thought you have not verbally expressed ? "
I was seriously wondering lol .  
Maybe you are right but i am hopeful that it will improve as the way we now communicate is less new and possibly becomes more natural to people  . Thinking that their online persona is an entirely different entity than the girl or guy that hopped out of their bed this morning is a little weird . I act online as i do in the flesh . I feel like regardless of where the communication happens i need to own it . Have a great day , kendall lynn .  

Posted By: BK57
The message from the blogs, discussion boards, Facebook, and especially Twitter is "Let no opinion go unexpressed." No one takes the time to cool off before firing off their comment. Everybody seems to think their opinion has to be heard, and heard immediately without evaluating the repercussions. You saw in on any awards show night, you'll see it after tonight's State of the Union. It is what it is. Technology has made it too easy for mean spirits to rear their heads.

inicky46 61 Reviews 816 reads
posted
9 / 48

And I wish you the best in spreading your message of love!  But given the nature of this (and other boards) I remain a skeptic, though I will try to play nice here.
Did I mention I love your hot ass?

Urbanburgher 4 Reviews 805 reads
posted
10 / 48

When it's said as well as you expressed there's little to add! (Eom)

kendalllynn See my TER Reviews 1030 reads
posted
11 / 48

Thank You Nicky :) My ass loves you as well :) lol too funny teehee  
OK shut up and F#%& me already .
Priceless :)  Love it  :)  Kendall lynn

Posted By: inicky46
And I wish you the best in spreading your message of love!  But given the nature of this (and other boards) I remain a skeptic, though I will try to play nice here.  
 Did I mention I love your hot ass?

AnotherDonJohn 947 reads
posted
12 / 48

I absolutely agree in general on being kind to people everyday.  
And particularly on those things you highlighted (i.e., acts, fetishes, personal tastes).
It is all consistent with the good person I take you to be from your public persona.

At the risk of sounding negative and a "hater," I want to point out that not all criticism is manipulation for self-interest. Specifically, because this is a free country and NY, I feel we should be critical of those who are not playing fair- even cheating the system, specifically talking about this business and TER.  

At the very extreme, I don't believe an umbrella of kindness should extend to terrible business such as sex trafficking and unsafe (BBFS/drug) networking. But, more commonly, I also believe one should be critical of more subtle "misdemeanor" scams such as B&S artists, "top" 10/100 scams, fake double 10/ whitelist networks (who work on discounts and "extras"), and others I haven't mentioned like shameless shilling. Hence, expect to see posts here and across the TER board, including behind the reviewers wall, from me and others. There are already several in the queue, so to speak.  

My rules are that: 1) there should be real discourse to hear both sides of the story, 2) no more than an entertaining level of invective, 3) I will not shill- so I stay away from pushing providers I've seen, but 4) I will defend/ counterattack for anyone who is wronged, even if I am typically at odds with him/her. In other words, I see myself as an equalizer.

Will I be "mean" to certain people in the process? Very likely. And people will question, as they did on the GD board 2 days, why I will always post as an alias, rather than as my established handle. I think the reasons are obvious to anyone who wants to be freely, even justifiably, critical in this world. The public is there to judge the rightness, or care, or not care.  

But no one, not one person, has been successfully able to question the rightness of being critical.

my $.03,  
ADJ
Posted By: kendalllynn
It has been bothering me of late how some of the threads and comments on many of the boards , not just NY  , are very negative in nature.  
   
 At times the posts have become down right rude and insulting not only to the person they are intended but clearly to me and us as a community .  
   
 The mode is extremely inelegant in general and typically it appears to me to be very manipulative in nature.  
   
 Imagine that someone or some number of people are trying to sway our/ your opinion of others or of things , acts , fetishes etc. to suit their own egos , needs  , and fill their own dance cards .  
   
 Quite frankly I feel it insults our intelligence as a community .  
   
 I had hoped that we as a race might evolve in a way that was less angry , mean and insulting to something more diversified , kind , warm and thoughtful.  
   
 I don't know how many of you browse all the boards and who stays here at home but i do and i can tell you this is not exclusive to NY at this time .  
 I find it disheartening and concerning .  
   
  We here in NY have a community of bright , educated people who are very fortunate to have the experiences and opportunities that are available to us .  
   
 In terms of providers , education , culture and any other thing we might decide we have interest in an abundance of choices are available.  
   
 In ny there are zero boundaries or limitations on what you can do .  
   
 I say we are fortunate because all of the many things we have at the tips of our fingers are not available in other locations around the states or the world.  
 Yet somehow we seem to be stuck in a mode of mean spirited abuse of others.  
 Maybe it emotionally uplifts the less fortunate .  
 Maybe even it does something for them that i am unfamiliar with personally .  
   
 I do wish we would all ,including myself , take the time to think before we speak , to cool off when angry , and speak after we are able to think clearly .  
 To consider that there is another person on the receiving end of what we say and do .  
   
 Reception IS perception based but it is hard to argue with what becomes obvious to all and their is power in numbers .  
   
 I have become disinterested in the angry mode and attacks on others age , race , fetishes , personality , shape , size  , and background . It is a HUGE turn off .  
   
 If i turn off the lights you all look the same . All of you as well as me , the same .  
 If i do not connect with something someone says it doesn't mean it is not of importance to them it means i did not connect with it which btw is on me entirely .  
   
  It takes all kinds of people , please try and be kind even if they are not exactly on the same page as you are .  
 For those incapable i really do feel sorry for you and hope one day you may stretch yourself  . As it turns out sometimes when we stretch , we grow . I would love to see us grow as a community and become more closely knit as we seemed to be previously just a few short years ago . I wish you all Happiness and kindness of heart , love , and health , positive experiences and vibes in your lives .  
                                                                                                  All the best , Kendall Lynn
-- Modified on 1/28/2014 4:28:59 PM

inicky46 61 Reviews 650 reads
posted
13 / 48

but head out again on Saturday for a month in Cost Rica.  See you when I get back for sure.  I will have tales.

JakesChinatown 15 Reviews 984 reads
posted
14 / 48

The question is whether the invective vocabulary is necessary. As we found out through most of the recent comments about bait/switch, those that stuck to the issue, got it right. It was very effective, and very useful for everyone here. However, when that or any subject get personally abusive, it throws off the debate and often becomes a clusterfuck.

It is in our ability to stay on message, have fun, be informative, provide cogent and useful information to each other. When we get personally abuse, it can all get lost.

I enjoy many of your comments. Until you decide to go to the beyond level. For whatever reason. Then your original message gets lost. You expose a lot here. And when you're right, you're right.

All that being said, as you have encountered; no good deed goes unpunished. And sometimes it's difficult to take the high road when dealing with some others here.

Jake

-- Modified on 1/28/2014 9:04:01 AM

AnotherDonJohn 871 reads
posted
15 / 48

And blast someone for this post, newbie!

But there's just no way to overlook you.  
Just found time to look at your reviews...
Holy shill, batman.  
I think that's the highest % of 10's I've ever seen in 14 years on ter for someone with at least 4 reviews- 7/8 scores  
Do you write the reviews before you book the appointments?
And all 4 whitelists- also the highest success rate on a newbie.  
I'm surprised at Mimi's name. Not the others.  
What a surprise that you took issue with my post.  

Waterclone/ mislaid, you're both laid off.
Here is the heir apparent Shillmeister.
You truly are having a "once in a lifetime" experience- enough for multiple life sentences.  
If you're not a fake person- agency/booker. Lol.

I'm guessing you'll disappear soon.

And yes, we will talk about this behind the wall.  

 
Posted By: JakesChinatown

Boy: Now I've had the time of my life
No I never felt like this before
Yes I swear it's the truth
and I owe it all to you

Girl: 'Cause I've had the time of my life
and I owe it all to you


-- Modified on 1/28/2014 7:51:32 PM

rimbaud913 70 Reviews 705 reads
posted
16 / 48

My thoughts exactly (well, the non-dirty ones at least).

nycad 20 Reviews 1018 reads
posted
17 / 48

When people bring out the negative, it's just so lame. this site is supposed to be about having fun and having smart dialog with fellow hobbyist and providers. Hopefully, you raising your voice in this thread will quash some of the negativity and we'll move towards the light.  

nycad

JakesChinatown 15 Reviews 849 reads
posted
18 / 48

So you searched me out. Aren't you the noble troll. This exactly what I am talking about. And of course, you took the bait from Kendall's salient points.

I don't believe that I am a newbie, as I have been around here for a few years and have been fortunate enough to see some fantastic ladies. Some of them have not been reviewed. Some of them have been reviewed under a previous name. But as far as I am concerned they are MY experiences. Not yours. And now that you have exposed yourself to be a self appointed TER Gestapo, maybe that's why people don't like you. Does anyone really care about your desire to respond to my reviews? That is why many people here shy away. Because they don't want to give you the chance to make ridiculous comments.

If you are trying to push out some guys who enjoy the company of women, have respect for them, and have a great time and are willing to say so, then you probably have succeeded. As far as the word tool goes, I usually apply that to people who are well used by the institutions that they follow. My friends in this environment don't seem to see me that way.

I may suggest that you have become a tool to the hate mongerers that exist here. THE POINT OF YOUR EXERCISE IS WHAT MAY I ASK? Do you think that you are keeping this institution alive and healthy with your hateful nature. You and your boys must be having a hell of a lot of fun behind that wall that is so precious to you. Pretty fascinating place, alias people, talking about other alias people who comment and gossip about sexual proclivities and what people say on this website. Your analyst would say that you are a megalomaniac. But you probably haven't told your analyst about your hidden life. No, not the hobbying part. The part behind the wall talking to your desperate friends about others who may be having a slightly more fun view of the proceedings here.

Since you didn't seem to see the part of my comment about how I agreed with you some of the time, you mean the slightest criticism set you off to find out all about me?

You need a new life.

And I will add those famous lines from the McCarthey trials, "HAVE YOU NO DIGNITY SIR?"

I will also point out that I am not hiding behind an alias. That's very cowardly.

Can we try to stay on Kendall's message here.

Jake

AnotherDonJohn 915 reads
posted
19 / 48

Own it man, make it your calling card.  

Like a serial killer in the NRA. Just makes sense.  

Sure the number #1 poster on ter could be a troll- or a lot of people could agree with calling out shit.

Don't worry. Sure Dolly noticed.  

Btw I linked Cosette's post on a bp ad looking to pay someone for reviews- in case you need work. Lol.



-- Modified on 1/28/2014 8:42:17 PM

469tna 819 reads
posted
20 / 48

Perhaps the most easily recognizable Serial Bully traits are:

    Jekyll and Hyde nature - Dr Jekyll is "charming" and "charismatic"; "Hyde" is "evil";
    Exploits the trust and needs of organizations and individuals, for personal gain;
    Convincing liar - Makes up anything to fit their needs at that moment;
    Damages the health and reputations of organizations and individuals;
    Reacts to criticism with Denial, Retaliation, Feigned Victimhood;
    Blames victims;
    Apparently immune from disciplinary action
    Moves to a new target when the present one burns out

AnotherDonJohn 906 reads
posted
21 / 48

Thx- i found your net traits on the flaming warrior website.

Did you find yours? Lol

Haven't seen Bbfs trolls under your name - must have another name?  

What are ya wearing? Lol

Love the handle though- always have thought it's clever

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469tna 718 reads
posted
22 / 48

a bully who will move from one target to another, and whose depravity is only constrained by the realization that they have to appear normal to fit in among civilized people. One consequence is that they rarely use physical violence on their targets, resorting instead to activities that are harder for onlookers to notice, such as emotional blackmail and underhand tactics to get their way.

A serial bully could be anyone. They are attracted to positions of authority, but not everyone in authority is a serial bully, and not every serial bully is in a position of authority. They cannot be identified by their status, but by their actions.

(This example is a male, but a bully can also be female.) He gives the impression that he must have cheated his way into his role with over-embellished or false information on his application, smooth-talking his way through the interview, because he seems to lack relevant competence for his role, substituted by an over-developed ego and sense of entitlement. Just like the old saying that you can fool all of the people some of the time, and some of the people all of the time, some regard this character as smooth and accomplished, and yet, to others he seems to be grossly incompetent and gets irritated when he doesn't get what he wants. His behavior is is often insensitive and unintelligent, but he appears to have no idea and is equally unaware of the effect of his behavior on others.

To some, he appears to be fueled by anger and aggression, but he can control the outward signs much of the time and especially in front of the people he thinks he needs to impress. He vents his anger on those who do not matter to him, or on people he is actively trying to undermine. Consequently, these people are the first to see behind his facade of charisma.

At first, he gains and maintains respect by exaggerating his achievements, favoring cronies and by mimicking the behavior of respectable people. With time, even those who regard him as smooth and accomplished respect him mainly because they are frightened of not doing, believing he could turn nasty with anyone who disagrees with him.

He does turn nasty. Feeling threatened by colleagues with competence, integrity and popularity, he picks one out and projects onto them his own inadequacy and incompetence. Using unwarranted criticism and threats, he controls them and subjugates them, without a thought for the contribution they make to the organization, or their reputation or self confidence. Sooner or later this person - the bully's "target" - realizes that they are not being "managed" but "bullied", and they start to show signs of intolerance. The bully now fears exposure of his own incompetence, and takes steps to disable the the target, typically by isolating them and/or destroying their credibility and reputation among peers and decision-makers, putting them out of the picture through dismissal, forced resignation or even early retirement. Once the target has gone, within about two weeks, the bully's focus turns to someone else and the cycle starts again.

AnotherDonJohn 819 reads
posted
24 / 48

He won't let me post about Bbfs and cream pies.

Waaah!  

Lol.  

TDDR= too dumb; didn't read. In case you reddit.

JakesChinatown 15 Reviews 769 reads
posted
25 / 48

This is great!

What attracts me even more about this is that our subject of interest is taking Kendall's comments and taking them as personal attack against himself. Classic Paranoic Megalomania.  

Megalomania is a psychopathological disorder characterized by delusional fantasies of power, relevance, or omnipotence. Megalomania is characterized by an inflated sense of self-esteem and overestimation by persons of their powers and beliefs. Otherwise known as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD): a personality disorder in which a person is excessively preoccupied with personal adequacy, power, prestige and vanity.

Jake

JakesChinatown 15 Reviews 835 reads
posted
26 / 48

This is going to take at least a year to straighten out. Especially since you've been at this for at least 14 years. Or maybe since you were beaten up in 5th grade.

Kind of wondering if you actually read Kendall's post without taking it personally. Ahhh, probably not. You're a megalomaniac. Everything you read or listen to you take personally since you think everyone is talking about you

AnotherDonJohn 663 reads
posted
27 / 48

Couldn't make sense of the last post...

Anyway, your story is up.  

Good luck with all that.

My_New_Alias 815 reads
posted
28 / 48

Did I miss my ballot in the mail or was this by acclamation?

AnotherDonJohn 646 reads
posted
29 / 48

Problem is you lack credibility, insofar as a f-ckboard.  

I said I will be an asshole. Which drew out a flaming WK/ Mangina.  

Your credibility (f-board-wise)  is shot.  

Check out what happened when your kind tried to go after me with only ad hominem on the GD board.

 

Btw, didnt read the last post. Although I caught the attempt to be a psychiatrist.  

I just went to mine. I'm narcissistic but he cleared me for Axis 2 disorders.

Don't know what that is? Look it up. You were just talking about it. Lmao.  

You write fairly articulately but your story doesn't ring true anymore.

-- Modified on 1/29/2014 12:26:03 AM

AnotherDonJohn 838 reads
posted
30 / 48

Dull tool-meet shed. Lol.

We know who you are, wink wink.  



-- Modified on 1/28/2014 10:21:47 PM

AnotherDonJohn 763 reads
posted
32 / 48

Garden leave is the greatest thing in the world.

Not gonna explain.  

And not what you meant, but thanks for playing! Lol.

-- Modified on 1/28/2014 11:42:33 PM

AldoRaine 900 reads
posted
33 / 48

When so many, so easily, rip for the red meat.

Happy New Year ... I guess ... Ha!

JakesChinatown 15 Reviews 732 reads
posted
34 / 48

And you admit that you are a narcissist. We are making progress. Frankly from reading your activities here, I would say that your analyst missed some stuff. Probably because you didn't tell him the entirety of your story.

A classic narcissist tells their analyst a concoction of truths and lies to 1. Embolden themselves and 2. See if they can outwit the analyst. They often think of themselves as smarter than the doctor and feel they can manipulate him. The fact that you even said that your analyst "cleared" you of Axis 2 disorder is almost amusing. As if you were cured. Axis disorders are a lifelong battle. And that's if you were totally honest. Which I doubt. It is possible that he kicked you out and told you you were cured because he couldn't get you to get beyond your narcissistic behavior. Analysts do do that. If you're there for more than 5 years he has some explaining to do with his analyst.

Some questions for expansion purposes. Did you tell him that you are playing on TER? That you live behind the security of this wall that you have built for yourself and some secret society of members to secure yourself from "the others" that exist here? Do you actually see providers? Or are you not willing to allow members to see your reviews for fear of similar reprisal such as your own because you use an alias?

A few other items stand out:

1. You like to use the White Knight. Do you think of yourself as Galahad. Classic transference and egomaniacal manipulation of vision of self importance.

2. Your alias is AnotherDonJuan. That's very amusing because Don Juanism is a classic psychiatric term for Amorous Megalomania.

3. The fact that you are the only one that spoke out negatively about Kendall's post tells me that you are a moth that is drawn to the flame. You couldn't resist. You are burning yourself. But you enjoy emotional pain including preying on others.

You addressed my credibility here. I'm not worried about that. I've been open and honest in the process. If others don't want to read what I have to say, that's there choice. It's not my business to know what they think. I'm having a great time. Meet great ladies. Have fun. That's why I'm here.

And you were somewhat accurate. PsyD of Clinical Psychology, Columbia University.

Just another question. Why are you here AnotherDumbJohn?

Jake

-- Modified on 1/28/2014 4:58:20 PM

469tna 922 reads
posted
35 / 48

Megalomania drove Adolf Hilter to destroy anything and anyone that was not in his control and is
one of the most well known examples of megalomania in modern history.
His megalomania drove him to aspire to conquer the entire world.  Being born into a "superior race" also wasn't enough for the mentally ill Hitler. Instead, he wanted to wipe out all other races. This need to destroy everything outside of what he perceived as an extension of himself is a classic though horrifically illustrated example of megalomania. Paradoxically, a person who exhibits such tremendous ego and self-confidence in reality has such low self-esteem and such a fragile ego that he cannot abide any expression other than his own, for fear of annihilation of the self. Therefore everything that is not under his control is perceived as a threat.

While genocide is an extreme example, serial killers may also suffer from megalomania. They objectify, then sacrifice their victims to exercise total control with a complete lack of empathy for the suffering of others

AnotherDonJohn 650 reads
posted
37 / 48

Both you and shilltard over there kinda following the textbook for losers who get their asses handed to them in debate, aren't ya? LOL.

Again, didn't bother to read your drivel. Just saw the Hitler part.
Does the loser textbook say to call you Mussolini or Attila the Hun now? Let me know..
Good propaganda move if your Goebbels- bad debating move.  

Next time, use some reasoned arguments in addition to ad hominem.
Otherwise, I'll just see your Hitler name-calling with the fact that you're a BBFS obsessed f-cktard (I linked your threads last time to warn the ladies before you cried ninny to the admins.)

Lol.
Posted By: 469tna
Megalomania drove Adolf Hilter to destroy anything and anyone that was not in his control and is  
 one of the most well known examples of megalomania in modern history.  
 His megalomania drove him to aspire to conquer the entire world.  Being born into a "superior race" also wasn't enough for the mentally ill Hitler. Instead, he wanted to wipe out all other races. This need to destroy everything outside of what he perceived as an extension of himself is a classic though horrifically illustrated example of megalomania. Paradoxically, a person who exhibits such tremendous ego and self-confidence in reality has such low self-esteem and such a fragile ego that he cannot abide any expression other than his own, for fear of annihilation of the self. Therefore everything that is not under his control is perceived as a threat.  
   
 While genocide is an extreme example, serial killers may also suffer from megalomania. They objectify, then sacrifice their victims to exercise total control with a complete lack of empathy for the suffering of others.  
 


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Guessing that's what you keep calling an analyst? Or your psychiatrist does anal? Not sure. Lol

Good thing you only have a PsyD and that someone with sense kept you away from a prescribing license.

You should stop stealing your patient's pills. It's making ya unstable. Lol.

And get back to me when you've passed the citizen's test.  

 
Rest I didn't read, so I'll get the report tomorrow.  

Btw, fun comments so far on your, ahem, reviews.  

Just wondering: do you know the scores go below 9?  
Maybe they don't have 1-8 where you're from. Lol.



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and this post of Kendall is prove to that :)  
 Amazing post ,amazing woman  
 I wish have high pilotage of  writing on English )
 But I am assure I feel every her word with every inch of my skin  
 AMAZING  
LOVE  to you and  millions red roses .

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... I find it best to ignore him when ho goes into hate mode, after all, he enjoys this. Your stoking the fire turns him on. IF he couldn't start a fight he would go home. Anyway, it's is truly hilarious how this guy has hung his psyche out to dry...

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Is this all you can say in your first public appearance since the outing?

Yes, I confirmed that Sonya started offering discounts to you to WK her.  

Would you like to continue this?

You got your ass handed to you here and behind the wall.

So, pls use a diversionary tactic.

But it's like the gathering in Ten little Indians.

Yes all of them were guilty and bit it too.  

What do I care if Bernie Madoff goes at me? Lol

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I'm a couple of thousand miles away, but the sentiment is the same all over the country with the "Silent Majority".  
Too bad the majority of our little community will never see this, due to the actions of a vociferous, sychophantic minority of troll-boys pushing them away from what should be an open, accepting community of like-minded individuals.  
I keep telling myself to just walk away, but I have found some some fantastic pearls among the swine.

"When bad men combine, the good must associate; else they will fall one by one, an unpitied sacrifice in a contemptible struggle."  E. Burke  1770

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you are, instead of just pretending & acting out a persona that the others want, only speaking the words they want to hear, feeding into their negativity, letting them think they are superior. Again thanks for standing strong & staying true to yourself....

 
 
Posted By: kendalllynn
It has been bothering me of late how some of the threads and comments on many of the boards , not just NY  , are very negative in nature.  
   
 At times the posts have become down right rude and insulting not only to the person they are intended but clearly to me and us as a community .  
   
 The mode is extremely inelegant in general and typically it appears to me to be very manipulative in nature.  
   
 Imagine that someone or some number of people are trying to sway our/ your opinion of others or of things , acts , fetishes etc. to suit their own egos , needs  , and fill their own dance cards .  
   
 Quite frankly I feel it insults our intelligence as a community .  
   
 I had hoped that we as a race might evolve in a way that was less angry , mean and insulting to something more diversified , kind , warm and thoughtful.  
   
 I don't know how many of you browse all the boards and who stays here at home but i do and i can tell you this is not exclusive to NY at this time .  
 I find it disheartening and concerning .  
   
  We here in NY have a community of bright , educated people who are very fortunate to have the experiences and opportunities that are available to us .  
   
 In terms of providers , education , culture and any other thing we might decide we have interest in an abundance of choices are available.  
   
 In ny there are zero boundaries or limitations on what you can do .  
   
 I say we are fortunate because all of the many things we have at the tips of our fingers are not available in other locations around the states or the world.  
 Yet somehow we seem to be stuck in a mode of mean spirited abuse of others.  
 Maybe it emotionally uplifts the less fortunate .  
 Maybe even it does something for them that i am unfamiliar with personally .  
   
 I do wish we would all ,including myself , take the time to think before we speak , to cool off when angry , and speak after we are able to think clearly .  
 To consider that there is another person on the receiving end of what we say and do .  
   
 Reception IS perception based but it is hard to argue with what becomes obvious to all and their is power in numbers .  
   
 I have become disinterested in the angry mode and attacks on others age , race , fetishes , personality , shape , size  , and background . It is a HUGE turn off .  
   
 If i turn off the lights you all look the same . All of you as well as me , the same .  
 If i do not connect with something someone says it doesn't mean it is not of importance to them it means i did not connect with it which btw is on me entirely .  
   
  It takes all kinds of people , please try and be kind even if they are not exactly on the same page as you are .  
 For those incapable i really do feel sorry for you and hope one day you may stretch yourself  . As it turns out sometimes when we stretch , we grow . I would love to see us grow as a community and become more closely knit as we seemed to be previously just a few short years ago . I wish you all Happiness and kindness of heart , love , and health , positive experiences and vibes in your lives .  
                                                                                                  All the best , Kendall Lynn

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