Maybe you should start a charitable trust for the "underpaid providers"?
Posted By: blue6314
Just because I am having sex with a provider--and we are both strangers to one another--does not make the relationship equivocal. I get to choose the provider, she doesn't get to choose me. Yeah, she screens me, but she doesn't know what I look like or what I'll be like when I go meet her. I know these things from reviews and internet pages. And if I walked in and didn't like what I saw, I could turn around and flee the scene. Providers often don't have that luxury--(except one did tell me that she'd lie, if she found the guy disgusting, and say she just had her period. So there's that caveat....).
My point is this: providers are, in a way, despite the foibles and flaws many have, and despite the stigma both real and imaginary that can be pegged on all participants in this hobby, wonderful people in that they provide love--physical and spiritual--to those men out there who feel cold, lonely, sexless and have nowhere else to turn. These are the men who may not be able to get a woman, or who have never been loved, or are in stale, passion-less marriages, or just want someone to hug and hold onto. They accept us when we walk through their doors--or when they walk through our doors--depending on whether it is an incall or outcall, of course--and make us feel special and give us their time, passion, and intimacy. In short, they have a loving and giving quality that many people lack. Not everyone could do their job. Period.
Yeah, there's all sorts of angles from which you can look at providers--and hobbyists as well--and some angles are not so flattering. There's always the money-grubbing provider and the drug-addicted provider, the provider who would stick a knife in you to steal a hundred dollar bill. And, likewise, there are the hobbyists who want to degrade and debase providers and view them like chattle, the hobbyists who are real a-holes. Several of them, in fact, have responded to my thread. There is always the dark side to things including the hobby. The yin and yang is part and parcel of things in life that are complex.
But, with a good provider in a good session, she provides a wonderful thing to us men. Truth be told, they deserve many more Benjamins than they receive from us. It's ironic that they are underpaid, yet are heavily critiqued in reviews on this site. Anyway, what is written above is the difference, stripclubaddict, between me and a provider when we get together. Sure, the common denominator is that we are both strangers, but what she gives me in the form of intimacy is not the equivalent of the greenbacks that I hand over--it's worth more in the final analysis.
And as far as the two of us strangers meeting, I get to do the choosing. In real life, when a man and woman get together and starting dating, it's always the woman who ultimately does the choosing. Don't forget that, it's the god's honest truth.
Okay, enough rambling. Peace to all my brothers and sisters out there!
