I started hobbing only late last year.  Out of the dozen or so providers I've been with, no less than 4 providers have asked me to stop (or non-verbally made it very clear that they wanted to stop) in the middle.  Those who actually spoke up said that it hurt or was uncomfortable.

I am pretty average in size, probably even a little below average.  No strange shape, bends, or twists to my unit.  While I tend to take a little longer when covered, it is by no means a marathon.  While I work at a brisk and energetic pace, I'm not into "pounding" or "jack-hammering" as so many reviewers describe it.

The providers I've seen are reputable, and known for their great, non-rushed, service.

Is my technique or style actually causing all these providers discomfort?  I seriously doubt it's a size issue.  What else could it be?

For all with jokes: I checked, my ass was not crusty, BO was checked, breath mints, etc.

Thanks, would like to stay in the game, but its getting frustrating.

and hitting against the pelvic bone. Why didn't you ask them what exactly it was you were doing that hurt them? It has to be a technic problem since you say you are not large.

Sincerely,
Anneke

Anneke:

Yes, did ask and try various positions.  In most instances, provider would only seem relieved when I was only about in/out 3/4 of the way.  not exactly pleasurable for the client.

thanks for the suggestion, though

It depends, I myself take awhile to pop and had many tell me to stop or slow down, others have to stop and relube. I've had providers tell me to slow up so that they won't be raw for the rest of their schedule (usually morning session), and for the evening session many providers need more lube and depending on what happen prior to you can be a bit raw especially if they're tight to begin with. I do agree w/ you it is a bit distracting when you have to stop, as I pointed in my last review, but it comes w/ the territory. The good ones know which position benefits them and they would switch to them when there seems to be discomfort w/o missing a beat. Hell I've even had one offer greek because she was getting too raw-go figure. I try to have a 2-way street in which both the provider and I enjoy our session, so if done right I don't mind the stoppage and/or adjustment. Don't give up, hobby on.

you might not be long, but probably you are thicker than the average guy, reason you cannot go all the way inside.
My suggestion is to change the kind of condoms you're wearing. I bet the normal sized durex/trojans are tight on you.
You can buy, online,  condoms that can fit you properly. A proper fit also helps with ejaculating because seems like condoms take your sensitivity away, making you last way longer than normal.
My boyfriend has the thickest dick, he's not huge in lenght, so I have to buy custom made condoms for him as XXMagnums just get a bit down his head. If you need the website address mail to me.
When a guy last longer, even if the woman is very wet or you use lube, it tends to dry up and is truly uncomfortable.
Just stop once in a while, reach for the lube bottle and pour more over your cock.
I hope I helped a bit...

Why would you assume that?  The post said he was "average" or less than average.  Wouldn't that take "girth" into account?

I think this fella has been given a "raw" deal by the Provider's that did this to him, no excuses.

If you are laying all you weight on her, especially if you are heavy, that could be it.  Just a thought.

And lawyer you may be also but I tend to think that if it is taking a LONG time she certainly can get raw. That is NO fun folks and it's not an excuse if that is what is happening. So,I would try Betty's suggestion of thinner condoms and lots of lube. Why don't you have them get you closer with BBBJ then finish with intercourse. Just a suggestion.

So what you're saying is he may be a fat guy with a thick dick?.. lol....

Some great suggestions....but I got a kick out of the last commentary. I'd go with the suggestions that the ladies offered.

if it was only one provider.. Id say, Before or after a woman has her menstrual cycle.. some get a little sensitive.

is NOT fun when a guy put all his weight on us

I have a client, who I've been seeing regularly for the post 2 years. We do have FS but, most of the time,  he just want a deepthroated BBBJTCNQNS because he cannot cum like that with anyone else. He's a former football player, 6'2 and about 260 lbs of muscles. This past week, he wanted to fuck and, when we were doing doggie he had his big hands pressing me down the mattress with all his weight on me. He's the vigorous kind, fast/deep/hard and I was moaning loud, not from the pleasure alone but also from PAIN of his body weight on me. It was naughty sex, raw and somewhat violent and I enjoyed a lot....BUT the next day (and few after) I was unable to move, my back was killing me.
I'm not a small girl, I'm full sized and I can take big guys...I can only imagine if I was smaller he would break me in half lol.
Putting the weight on a girl is definitely a NONO.

The smartest person on this board....yeah ask the lady/ladies
who did experience the discomfort, if any one knows they will know.
True there are some good guesses here and offered in good faith but they are just guesses.

Thank You

1.  bellaco:  I all instances, at least a second run at the lube tube, sometimes two or three trips.  Also, typically try several positions and angles in a session.

2.  betty: I'm not really sure what constitutes average girdth, but I don't think I'm much above average in that respect, either.  Also, I usually pack custom-thin japanese condoms with me.

3.  lawyer: my own suspicions of a "raw" deal partly lead me to post.  Would providers fake discomfort/pain to end a session?

4.  suitribe: I'm about 175lb, and not really into "pounding," "hammering," or otherwise exerting all my weight/force.

5.  CiaraHasFun:  I wish I could just ask.  But I mostly visit providers that do not speak english very well (asian, russian, polish, czech).

Thank you all for your insights.  I really appreciate your time and thoughts.  I guess I'll just keep up the search for MY ATF.

Thanks again

who frequent this board. They will teach you everything you need to know.
Then go exploring!!!

I might be somewhat of a newbie as it is said. However it is true. I usually do not require lube as I love doing it and get very wet. But in the couple days before and after my "time" it is different. I do not have a list of people "to do" for the day. I just know know that what she said is very on target.
Some how though I think if there are many women stating this problem there is something else going on, besides getting the shaft, no pun intended...well maybe...
PM me, I would like to ask you a couple of things, then f..u...lol..later...JK....

AngieRenee
XOXOXOXOXO

you didn't understand what they were saying when you were fucking....so they probably were asking for you to go deep & harder and you thought they wanted you to take out because it was hurting ~~~~~ I guess "fuck it hurts" and "oh baby fuck me harder" sounds the same in asian, russian, polish or czech....right?

just kidding...

-- Modified on 3/8/2005 9:52:37 PM

Follow me.. You are very sweet.. my body is just a bit more sensitive going on  38.. Sometimes if the wind blows it may hurt..

Hahahahahah

Take this with you to next appt

Su gato lastima? -Spanish
Votre chat blesse-t-il ?- french
Verletzt Ihre Katze? -german
Seu gato fere?- -portugese
¬£¬Ñ¬ê ¬Ü¬à¬ä ¬å¬ê¬Ú¬Ò¬Ñ¬Ö¬ä? -russian
Kwetst uw kat?  -dutch


-- Modified on 3/9/2005 7:43:02 AM

lastimo su cona??? = spanish

estou machucando sua bucetinha??? = portuguese

~~~~

Hope you don't mind, Ciara...is just for fun.

I aints be knowin the slang

eye am weawwy knot that smert

Like eye sez above u am reel smert.

jest won ting shood it knot be foniks in buphphalo ???

Tank yuz.....have phun

Yes Yes

I fergetted tht pert. ewe r vry smert two ewe no!

Sinfully Yours©
C-Lo in B-LO!

Part of your problem may be the providers that you see. Women at the AMPs usually complain after the first two minutes... most are all about the hustle for money. Can't speak for the rest and this doesn't apply to all asians, just the ones who want you in and out.

JJ

... Turkamamsikian provder, dude"
"oh yea"
"yea, mannn ... really went at her; had her screaming 'chirki amo, CHHHIIRRRKKIII AMOO' all the time. felt like a STUD mannn"
"hmmmm"
"oh hey, YOU know turkamamsikian a bit. what IS 'chirki amo'?"
"poor lady was telling you that her umbilicus was hurting"