Hi Fellow Advocates & Enthusiasts!

Let me say, I love my job and have for some time.  - I've met amazing people.....some of which have fallen in love with me.....and some that I thought I loved, could have loved or wanted to know more about at least.

Is it unprofessional, real or just plain ridiculous for a girl to think she might get actually meet someone this way?


Note...I’m not TRYING to meet someone this way....just curious to know if a guy out there would ever seriously date someone with "mileage"?.


.....or is it just a way for a guy to get more for less?

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kitty

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I don't think theres anything wrong  in dating a girl with mileage..don't forget...some of us have mileage too!!
Besides the fact that you are a knockout..if the personality matches the looks...thats great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I for one, got in to this "hobby" hoping to find a person who could be a real friend as well as providing the passion and intimacy and FUN that's always been missing from my life. In almost 2 years active in this scene, I've only met one person who I really think I could connect with in this way, but alas she's only an occasional visitor to the area. The "mileage" would not matter one bit to me with the right person. There is now some serious mileage on me!  Could I fall in love and leave my current life?  I don't think so, but the fact that she's a provider is not the reason. There's not much in this life that's worth more than passion, fun and friendship, so why pass on it just because of the way someone makes a living.
Just one guy's thoughts on the question.

Most of the guys who see providers are probably developing some serious mileage themselves.

My personal feeling, people involved in this hobby, on either side, are probably extremely sexual people, so they would make good matches for eachother.

Experience has never been a downer for me.

I've seen this before, you've got "HOOKER SYNDROME". Every guy you meet pays you to have sex with them so you think that any guy that is going out with you and not paying you is getting as you put it, "more for less!". He actually is the sucker in this case and not you because all he has to do is give you some $$$ and get down to buisness instead of whispering sweet nothings in your ear. The cure for "HOOKER SYNDROME" is simple, just be GRATEFUL somebody out there wants to be with you cause your not exactly a girl scout.

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Thanks for your replies

You've helped bring some clarity to my thoughts. Although I am challenged by the disappointment I sometimes realize in certain individuals I continue to be hopeful that a likeminded partner might be out there for me and that it is possible to fall in to "it" with someone that I "work" with.

Sometimes, one of the people I build a mutual friendship with pulls the rug out from underneath me and it sort of knocks the wind out. Yesterday was one of those days so I came to TER for a little understanding. The few replies posted provided me with that. Thank You!

They just shouldn't confuse a few hours of passion with a lifetime of commitment.

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As an Army veteran I can tell you that 30 years ago, it was not uncommon for soldiers--even officers--to marry "professional" providers from South Korea, Germany, the Philippines, or Vietnam, so I assume that it was true for US providers as well.  The rumor mill was that the woman would love you for the rest of your life because you had taken her out of being a "professional" providers, plus, she also knew how to keep you warm on a winter night.

I have met several providers that, if I were not married, I would see on a social setting--Alexia of the Village being one.

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Sorry the rug got pulled from under you, Kitty...

Back to reality, and I know this sounds harsh, but even though no one will admit it, you will find the MAJORITY of your answers to lye within...

choice B
"or is it just a way for a guy to get more for less?"

The answer for the most part is YES IT IS!!!  You have to remember that in this business we run into A LOT of mind-manipulators and game-players. This group treats us just as they treat women in their "normal lives". Nothing changes just because one decides to book an appt...

Just be careful. This business can be a cruel CRUEL world we live in sometimes... SOMETIMES, not all; I also love my job!

PS: To clarify, NO, I am not referring to ALL MEN...

Are you sure that "love" is the right word?
In most cases we are the "fantasy" part of their life.Their real lives are somewhere else. Which is o.k. Isn't it like that for us sometimes too? Thats why we are all here. However, I think that if we fill our lives with as much constructive personal activity/people as possible we will not project the "lack" of closeness that comes from personal relationships. Most of the time these guys do care about us at least as friends.I think they pick up on this "need" and try to come to our rescue, or maybe they are experiencing some degree of this in their own lives at the time.I am not sure but it seems that this is usually how this situation comes about. I am sure there is probably exeptions. I am also sure that they are rare.Very rare.