Honestly, you just come off as extremely whiny and immature. Not to mention it's a bit insulting to ask for a recommendation that's 'good safe and affordable' as if the rest of us aren't doing the same.
I'm new to this, too, and the first place I contacted flat out rejected me for being new. A bit disappointed but no skin off my back, moved on to the next option. Politeness goes a long way. Hopefully, assuming you've actually done your own research, you've realized that a lot of providers and agencies tend to avoid younger clients and for valid reasons. Those are just the rules you'll have to play by. Asking for tips and pointers is one thing, asking everyone to do the work for you when the research is very clearly available to you is just lazy. Just keep trying, and if that doesn't work, just keep seeing the indie providers that will see you.Hey I have never been to an agency before in nyc, so If any of you know of any good, safe and affordable ones lemme know or send me a DM about a suggestion about a specific one, and how it usually goes down when you go to an agency rather than with an indy.
Thanks!
You just asked this days ago and got some replies. How about you do your own research, or grow a pair and contact an agency yourself.
Hey so wanted to start off by telling you thanks for the motivation I guess, it help me “grow a pair” and go out on my own to find some. The result? Three places turned me down because apparently they only see over a certain age group, even though I’m an adult and had some references from other Indy providers. So I guess that’s why I was asking for suggestions for very early 20s guy. But anyways thanks for the help I guess.
Honestly, you just come off as extremely whiny and immature. Not to mention it's a bit insulting to ask for a recommendation that's 'good safe and affordable' as if the rest of us aren't doing the same.
I'm new to this, too, and the first place I contacted flat out rejected me for being new. A bit disappointed but no skin off my back, moved on to the next option. Politeness goes a long way.
Hopefully, assuming you've actually done your own research, you've realized that a lot of providers and agencies tend to avoid younger clients and for valid reasons. Those are just the rules you'll have to play by.
Asking for tips and pointers is one thing, asking everyone to do the work for you when the research is very clearly available to you is just lazy. Just keep trying, and if that doesn't work, just keep seeing the indie providers that will see you.
Hey yea sorry if I came out that way but yea just have no luck when it comes to amps or others that are not indy. I actually came back from seeing an indy today so reading this made me think that maybe you are right and that I should just stick with seeing those, even though they are more pricey for me. I had also done some research and recelty even had gone in person to some amps but was turned down due to age so that was really the reason of my initial post, to try and find if there were other young guys that had also encountered this and if they had had some luck. Anyways thanks for the feedback!!
It's perfectly legitimate to ask the board for help. I help people all the time here, as people have helped me and I never once considered it "work." I would ask you to be more patient with newbies as you are one as well.
You clearly read none of what I wrote after the initial sentence.
The first sentence just happened to be you acting like a smug know it all to someone new here. Not a good look. Everything else was just condescension. Since you are new yourself, I would suggest treating others with more respect, especially those that have tons more experience than you. Your advice to a fellow newbie was arrogant and flat out wrong.
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My advice? Sit back, relax and learn this place before you go giving faulty and rude advice or ANY advice. We are all just here to get laid, have fun and stay off LEs radar.
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Asking for help is perfectly fine. We don't need you making newer guys less likely to ask questions. Try and stay in your lane until you have that much needed experience you are so severely lacking right now.
I gave 0 indication that asking for help is taboo or something.
The reaction was warranted due to him spamming the same exact post over and over despite people trying to help answer his question. If you can't understand that, not sure what else to say.
Experience does not merit automatic respect.
That clearly seems like an attempt to discourage him from asking for help. There are many ways for newbies to get assistance, so there’s no need to push back on his approach.
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You also referred to him as “whiny” and “immature,” which isn't accurate, as he’s simply new. There’s no need to resort to those types of ad hominem attacks. That reflects poorly on you, not him.
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Posting the question in multiple places is understandable, again, because he’s new. Let TER handle any "spamming."
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As a good example of helping each other out here, take a look at StillYoung’s response to him. He didn’t make it personal or tell him to “do his own research.” He responded respectfully, showed patience, and even provided a potential helpful link.
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Is it too much to ask you to treat people with respect here? I suppose time will tell. In the meantime, if you need help, I will gladly do so if I can. Maybe just use this thread as a learning experience is all I am asking. Take care.
He didn't post this in multiple places, he posted the same topic in the same NYC board. People replied to him in the prior thread and he says they aren't helpful. I literally pointed this out in my first reply in this thread. He even asked the same question in his other thread, so now it's 3 posts.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/new-york-2/good-agency-providers-268959
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/new-york-2/good-and-affordable-providers-for-early-20s-guy-268941
TER doesn't police number of posts unless multiple people report it. The forums are self policed to discourage spamming the boards with the same request or attitudes. Is it too much to ask you to recognize when it's time to stop coddling a newbie who isn't willing to do something with the answers he has already been given?
Are you the self appointed board cop? lol. If it bothers you that much, feel free to ignore him or place him on ignore. Seems like the guy has been here about a month so I say give him so slack. The big question is why do you care more about this than TER?????
When in doubt, this is a great list:
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/topProviders.asp?gcity=5125771
Search for someone who has a good amount of reviews 40 to 50 or more and a good recent history. You can mostly rely on them being safe if they have been doing it for a while and the Asian places tend to be reasonable. If you've never been, don't worry they know what they're doing, follow her lead. And tip!
Hey just wanted to thank everyone that tried to help me out really appreciate you all. At the end however all of these amps and agencies are all really strict with 21 +. Hover recently I was very fortunate to be able to find ONE place that after some talking and conversation was able to convince them to see me and everything worked out great.
Thanks again to everyone!!
But also if anyone knows of other places that take 18-20 old send me a DM. 👍
I’ve been with PKR for a while now, and although I get many offers to join other agencies, I always find myself coming back. I truly enjoy working with them.
They provide a safe, professional, and upscale environment—everything I value. Plus, the selection of ladies is exceptional, far from a typical agency.
** Aiza is back this Thursday 😉
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