Just want to get an opinion from the Providers as to how they feel pressured by Hobbyists and / or Moderators about giving FREE TIME for good reviews and / or to make false claims disappear.
1. Providers are not allowed to barter services for reviews or good reviews. They can be banned from TER.
2. When a CLIENT applies pressure or threats, that's something different and TER Admin can investigate and delete a fake review, if need be. 3. Moderators? What moderators? 4. I think that this thread belongs on General (or Newbie).
Posted By: lex915
Just want to get an opinion from the Providers as to how they feel pressured by Hobbyists and / or Moderators about giving FREE TIME for good reviews and / or to make false claims disappear.
So far none have spoken up. That's about all you need to know.
Posted By: lex915
Just want to get an opinion from the Providers as to how they feel pressured by Hobbyists and / or Moderators about giving FREE TIME for good reviews and / or to make false claims disappear.
I have had multiple Hobbyists ask if I can lower my rate, provide an incall free of charge, or the worst... do BBFS in exchange for a first review... Keep in mind they never even said a "good review".
I would never do BBFS and definitely not for a first review. I think i'm stellar enough to get my own first positive review. I do not ask my clients to write them, but would love to see one if they feel compelled. I would never put my health or reputation at risk for such an offer. As providers we get these offers all the time and most of the men offering them would never even see us even if we obliged them. They are just pushing boundaries as its own form of a hobby. Most seasoned women just glance at the email and never even respond.
Over the years, a few Newbie providers have posted to the Newbie board about being pressured to provide BBFS early on and BEFORE they even learned about TER. They succumbed to the "Oh, yeah, everybody does it." kind of pressure. Upon finding TER, they received encouragement to establish and respect their personal boundaries and that BBFS is far from the norm and "No, everybody does NOT do it."
Some of those Newbies went on to great success (based on reviews) and have already retired.
Posted By: AudraHarper
I have had multiple Hobbyists ask if I can lower my rate, provide an incall free of charge, or the worst... do BBFS in exchange for a first review... Keep in mind they never even said a "good review".
I would never do BBFS and definitely not for a first review. I think i'm stellar enough to get my own first positive review. I do not ask my clients to write them, but would love to see one if they feel compelled. I would never put my health or reputation at risk for such an offer.
As providers we get these offers all the time and most of the men offering them would never even see us even if we obliged them. They are just pushing boundaries as its own form of a hobby. Most seasoned women just glance at the email and never even respond.
I also received his pm but i didn't bother to respond nor do anything about it. I assumed he was a troll because sending me something like through Ter precisely isn't smart at all. And I'm not in any rush to accumulate reviews either
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