Okay, I had several appointments here in NYC and I figures it will be a decent trip with my girlfriend 69Goldfinger.
Well, hers and mine cancel all of them from TER.
What show we do if they are flakes?
NO INTEGRITY!  
Now we are just enjoying the city, but it really sucks because we had others trying to see us and because we give TER members priority we lost $.

But I wouldn't blame TER guys per se.  Sometimes it's just bad luck.

.....gentlemen might not like it, but I cannot not afford to sit in a $500. plus room, and have no shows and cancellations.  It sounds like deposits might be required.

That's something I've been thinking about doing, that way I don't have my time (or money) wasted if the guy is a no-show.

People are stretching out the holiday from Thursday to Monday for a long get away before the summer heat sets in. Next break isn't til July 4th.  

I can not understand why you would give anyone priority who has not supplied a deposit.

I want to know too, about deposit, you can help me too if thats what you mean...

Thank you Kelly, very helpful.
I definitely do this from now on!
Chica

but deposits are not necessarily the answer.  Most guys won't consider leaving a deposit.....just my experience....and i'd be interested in the number of reviews the guys who no-showed you had....perhaps a better way to go would be to just see guys with a minimum of actual reviews on TER....just like we do our research on the ladies, you should be doing your research on guys who want to book with you...its a two way street...

I for one would never pay a deposit.