reporting bad behavior of providers. Nothing worse then getting time wasted and going home with blue balls.

She was in Philly and didn't contact him until 1/2 hour before his appointment.
Some of you are really dumb. Try reading it again.

Do not book lady jae. I prebooked in Manhattan for 12/17 five days ahead of time. We were even in touch by email two days before. It was 20 minutes before the session when I get a text message saying, "I'm in Philly."

I was very exited and went above what I normally do for a session. I got her a gift and told her I was bringing one. I had lots of tip money. I went to a salon and got an eye brow wax and a manicure. I wore a suit and tie. This is in addition to my normal effort and prep of multiple showers and mowing around the tree and travel time. She lets me know after I do all this and I'm in Manhattan that she wasn't there. Fuck Lady Jae! I hope her reproductive systems falls out the hole! Do not book or she will leave you all dressed up and no where to go! This is the second time she has cancelled in NY. NY says fuck you and your pussy! Keep your ass in latte town!

You also got a manicure at a salon?  WTF?   No wonder she no showed you twice.  She smelled a Bi-Guy and got nervous about you.

And canceled to save herself the headache. I get that you are upset but you sound like a jerk for wishing her ill. As for your routine and the eyebrow wax, lmfao.

I know guys prepare for providers, I do to.  

But gifts and tips, suit and tie?  Multiple showers ... wtf, you're not getting married.

You're entering the Twilight Zone my friend.  Lighten up a little.  We're all just greenbacks to these girls.

I feel soooo sorry   that most  gentleman think that they are just greenbacks for women.. So typical American point of view. what is funny - it is not just in this hobby !!! What make sooooo surprised!!! I find out that American males truly believe that there nothing in him to love him if not his $$$ ~~~ who done that for you? American man? And you still pay for that?? For such. Treat?
? OMG..

Dear .. as soon you feel that you are just a back for a woman - you should not gave her a back .
you follow that in real life .. why you let it happened in area where you come to be yourself ?
 most of us ..women here .. we love you .. we getting  ready for you .. we await you and we already aroused and wet by time you knock in door I I knock in your door ..
it takes 2 to tango ..
I asked always - if I do perform as I do every night -
I not only perform - I do feel it as once a life time - it is why I am gettign those -One life time " rates
but again - I can not act with no audience - and you re my audience you are one who took a  ticket to show and you are on the show too ..
we -  you and I ( you and her)are both now out of the world to the passion and
sensual peaks of our  subconscious…
you coming to us  to be yourself .
to do what you other wise not allowed even to dream or was called bad boy even to ask your wife or your GF
what  actually also surprised me I am Russian  I do not belive that wives not doing many things … do not know how to belive in what men told me about family ..
do not go there if it just greenback from you all what she wants .. while  escorting is my passion   I do love talk to men  too .. and what striked me- the fact that my clients some of them  told me that they gave not hd multiorgasm in YEARS .. years … I adk  them – have  you seem escort before ?? yes he does .. he gone to escorts he gone to parlors he has GF he has wife .. yet his needs still  not met …  do not know  what to say ..or it is his fault or it is how it happening  in states – and wives and GF and escorts -  care juts about greens ??? or about you ?? other way – I can not blame American women too harsh – I met very nice women .. and I do know they  will do a lot for you ..  why not then ?? why still even here we talk about green back while we need talk passion, sex, sexuality .. and all others aspects just not subject t duscussion ??
ok I need stop talk now .. feel free write me   to talk if you ave a  need ..of any kind :☺

You are not going out on a real date with a potential life partner bro.  A little too much effort IMO.

phil - have to agree with a few of the other posts here.  can't take life or this shit that serious.  i've been stiffed by people i know.  it bothered me at one time, now i just say what the fuck.  i don't even have a  plan b.  go with the flow.....and don't take so many fuckin showers.

He spends more on his manicures and eyebrow waxing.  Gay, Gay, Gay is all I can say, say, say.  Look at the girls he sees and his reviews.  The "guy" hates women.

Sometime you have to raise hell.  I try and be a nice guy and it always comes up short. This has nothing to do with providing but I was on a flight to the west coast and it got stalled in Arizona, the airlines told everyone to wait and catch the next flight at around 3am in the morning.  Well  I pitched a bitch and yellled like I was a billionaire and got my way, everyone lese slept in the airport.....  Every time I settle what ends up happening is that I just, well settle.  We need to be a bit more proactive.  The ladies I see are very profeesional and if I cancell without warning I am sure they would not see me again..well the same should apply, stop doing that and it wil stop on the other end as well.  Every time (it has only been a few) when I women has cancelled for BS reasons, i email every guy I know and tell them not to see her.  If you take everything lying down then you will get stepped on....I am not saying go and do a "Rambo" but at least tell your experiences on this board, that it what it is here for.

... at least for me.  I've previously posted "Gifts Gone Bad."

I've had too many NCNS and very late cancellations, even from those I've seen before and who know me.

As a consequence, I've stopped bringing pricey, potentially embarrassing gifts: lingerie, toys, women's clothing, feminine things, etc.. It takes time and effort (and maybe some humiliation!) for a guy (this guy, anyway) to shop for some of that stuff and then to be left "holding the bag" when I have to be someplace else two or three hours later.  I've given stuff away to homeless people or "lost" some items on the subway just so I don't have to explain myself when I show up at a meeting with friends or for business later that day or night.

I know that many ladies say that it takes time to prepare for a meeting, whether it's a 1-hour or multi-hour date. SAME FOR US GUYS. We have to fiddle schedules, sometimes travel long distances to an incall, shop!, etc.. A last minute cancellation or NCNS by either party costs more than one hour of inconvenience.

Maybe I should be using an alias, but I can't take a couple of hours to get to a "safe" Victoria's Secret, department store (Macy's, Saks, ...) or an adult "toy store" where I can buy something SAFELY (no one to recognize me) and then have to toss it away because of an NCNS or even a late call no show. I often have to be someplace else (friends or business) after a meeting and I can't show up with stuff that is very out of the ordinary for me to be lugging around.  

To the ladies I would like to gift with things to make them smile and appreciative, I'm sorry.  But now you know why. (I still sometimes bring more innocuous, funny things.)

She posted under her Philly ad on 12/16 (where she initially visited on 12/13 and 12/14) that she had skipped NYC, and had re-arrived back in Philly that day. Apparently, she's doing well enough there to not only to have blown off NYC, but has extended her visit there into this week.  Maybe you should have posted this on the Philly board as well...

Thanks for letting us your experience with her, though.  Sucks when that happens!   FWIW, I've always found that confirming with the lady the day before, or at least several hours prior to your scheduled rendezvous, is your best approach.    

Do you also drive a scooter?

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