So, I've been reading more and more about "more than massage" part. I've danced, dated my sugardaddy , and now I love being on top, touching and caressing and making guys purr and occasionally go wild with someone I already loved meeting... I've always kept my backdoor cherry intact. yes I've had few guys played with it, but never with their "big gun".  And I get tempted, very temped to go further but a little scared. I believe those things needs to be started with someone you love playing with and know what they are doing. So my question is, does anyone like to share how you realized you liked your backdoor? and gents, how is playing with their backdoor any different than the front and what's all the fascination? I feel like I'm asking a very virgin question lol  but it seems such a taboo yet popular options these days, I'm curious.

I've been in plenty of front doors and plenty of back doors and pussy just feels better.  It's made to be fucked.  You can lube up the backdoor all you like, but it just doesn't have that same smooth feeling.

But still, people love to go there.  I think for some, it's about the taboo.  For others it's about pleasing the person they are with.  That's what it is for me.  I don't care about taboo or not.  But if a girl likes her ass played with, then I am happy to go there.  Quite frankly, I like mine played with, so I know what it feels like and I like to provide those feelings to the girl that I am with.  (If she's into it)

Nice to see her interest in "back door".

Ease into the backdoor.....

I believe I've mentioned this elsewhere, but backdoor fun is something you need to ease into....

Practice and start out modestly....
Maybe start out with small anal beads, a small starter buttplug - then work your way up from there with your comfort level, moving to larger anal toys, then you might feel ready for the real thing. To enjoy anal you're going to need to learn to relax your ass enough to allow for entry. Practice with toys, as mentioned above, during your own private time of masturbation - or toy time with your partner. Little by little, you should loosen up, but no matter what - if your mind isn't open enough to open up ur ass, ur never going to enjoy it and you won't be able to open up enough physically to accept anal action.

And as to your question about how playing with their backdoor any different than the front and what's all the fascination.... Well I think it's all about breaking taboos. It's one of the last naughty (you're not supposed to do that) kind of things and that's the enticing thing about it. And when us guys that are into it, get together with gals that are TOTALLY open to anal, well we feel like we've found something that's not so common - so that makes it that much more enjoyable.

nycad

Hey, that make me a "virgin" too??? LOL!

I agree that the fascination for most guys with anal is the forbidden/taboo aspect.

However, for me it is somewhat different.  My pleasure is strongly driven by a feedback loop.  I love doing things that give pleasure to my partner and I love receiving things she enjoys.  I love being rimmed and played with -- not having anything bigger than a finger tip inside me -- just stimulate me there.  It is a tremendous turn-on and produces my strongest orgasms when coupled with a creative bbbj and fingers.   And that is what I like to do -- lick and play and touch.  I love the response of a partner who gets aroused when her rosette is touched with a finger or a tongue.  One of my old ATFs would lay on her stomach and play with her clit while I rimmed her.  Orgasm in minutes!

As to full anal, I agree with the comment above that pussy just feels better.  This is, after all, what it was designed for!  If a lady wants me in her ass I don't argue -- anything to turn her on -- but my preference is to play not penetrate.

I didn't lose my virginity until i was 3 weeks shy of my 18th Birthday and 3 days later my booty cheery got popped. At first I was not sure what to think, took me by surprise. It was with a person who I cared for deeply, Guess that made it better. I enjoy it at times (if the other person knows how to work it, Cant go to rough like you can a pussy) other times I want it out as soon as the fun begins.  Lately I have been enjoying it more & more, there are times its so good that I squirt ALL over the place. WHAT A FEELING! more so then normal sex.

Start out with toy playing butt plugs & work your way up see how it feels with something bigger then a finger you will be surprised at how good it really feels (when done right). You have so many nerve endings there so you feel it all. mmmmm Now I'm wanting to play with my toys....

Thanks for all the naughty comments and suggestions. I blushed, giggled and got turned on a little lol
As for VIP services, I prefer a massage encounter first, at least for the first hour. The more comfortable I am with a person, the more playful and creative I become. Unfortunately my ex lover was never into playing with backdoor of any kind so my experience is limited.
xoxo

U don't need a partner to investigate the Greek islands.

nycad

You better know what you are doing there!

Serena Vincente x

Thank you ladies! Just what I needed to know. Now all I need is a right sailor to get me there lol

Erudite AND sexy! A fatal combination for me...

Of course.....

Of course if a man and a woman partake in anal - the guy better know what he's doing (same thing would also apply to a woman doing strap on anal to a guy or a gal)

I'd never just jam it in there, unless I was instructed to just jam it in there. And in that case, I'm guessing my partner is either already warmed up and ready to bang or she's totally used to it and just wants to bang hard and fast back there.

As per anal masturbation / exploration, as I mentioned above, you can take as much time as you want to with that. Ease into it, make it a sensual solo experience. Work from small toys and work your way up.

nycad

It's a different sensation and something fun to explore, but that's really about it.