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justluvit 233 reads

posted 14 years ago

After you have made a date, mention your desire. That way it's not a surprise.

CharmingJay14 years ago598 reads

Condoms

I am curious how some of the providers might feel about this. I have a favorite brand of condon, (no not Magnum) and I usually bring some with me to an appointment. Recently I was told I couldn't use the condoms I brougt, and had to use the providrs brand. Is it bad form to bring my own condoms? What would be the harm of using my brand?

Any ideas?

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buddym14 years ago335 reads

That's easy. That's the only way the provider can be assured the condom is intact! Eom

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maturebridgette14 years ago337 reads

It is the only way to know it is in perfect condition,

But if you mention it to your "date", I am sure it would be no problem for her to pick up them at the local drug store. I know I wouldn't mind. (as long as they are a reputable brand).

This precauction is for your safety as much as hers..
I am sure you would agree

Its not personal...just good business sense!

-- Modified on 10/18/2012 4:34:39 PM

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SiliconeMister14 years ago261 reads

I have a brand I like & bring. Never had a girl say "No you can't use those".

I had one or 2 girls inspect the package, but never had any girls deny me bringing my own brand to a session and using them.

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labradamour14 years ago199 reads

Re: I have a brand I like & bring. Never had a girl say "No you can't use those".

No, I've sometimes had the provider insist, and I fully understand it - as mentioned, they are entitled to feel confident that no tampering has occurred.
I suppose if one wants to try it would be smart to bring them in the unopened box.

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MackenzieMorgan14 years ago355 reads

Because we know we've taken good care of our "items"

Some providers (not myself) may also have issues such as a latex allergy, or a sensitivity to some kind of lubricant, flavored condoms etc. A provider friend of mine is allergic to latex and for that reason she insists on always bringing her own.

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crazyshit14 years ago273 reads

Providers like to use their own condoms, simply because they know where they have been.

It's not too paranoid to think that a client might have tampered with a condom. I have heard horror stories of guys poking pinholes in them, so that they break and end up doing BBFS with providers.

It's rare, but it does happen.