I recently saw a post on the NYC ad forums and was intrigued. It was a post that basically invited someone to "hang out" with a provider even after the session is over. That got me to thinking. In the 4+ years that I have been hobbying I have only encountered 2 providers that allowed me to stay well over my time even from the first visit. I of course know that these situations are mostly YMMV but it would be great to know if there are any local providers that actually allow someone to "hang out" with them, either with or without any services offered after the session was over. I understand that this may not be something to plaster all over the forums so if you'd like you can pm me and we can take it from there.

It's all about the match. You are making a fair and agreed upon transaction when you book a date. You expect certain things, and so does she. She will expect you do not take advantage of her. And you will expect that you get what you pay for and walk away a very happy man. Both should feel very happy with the results of your date in the end. But don't forget about chemistry; about being human; about star sign compatibility, cultural compatibility, ect. You never know who exactly is the girl behind the photos until you are in her arms, embracing. And she has no idea who you are either, until you are there. So every now and then, you find that you have matched someone so extremely well, that it feels like you've met someone so special and it becomes more then just a clock ticking away. You don't cross any boundaries that either of you have. It is a mutual feeling. There needs to be balance in this industry. It is not cold and indifferent. We don't have to become jaded. We can still go with the flow and be natural. As long as we respect the agreed upon boundaries. If you are looking to take advantage, a women will know this. If you are a genuinely lovely person to her and she likes you, then you will maybe find yourself potentially in a nice long date, dinner, drinks, fun. But don't go looking for it. Things that are NATURAL will happen NATURALLY. Anything pushed, is well.. not natural

I am free from main civil work ( if some still do not know  
- finally become employed in the field of my dream  
As I was trained for in states up to graduate. So I now take appointments for day time in manhattan for monday and thursday  
And for rest week it is long island morning  
Evenings and hanging out and travels to near by cities it is for two hours min then we be hanging out as I will organise that I love to put to do list for us then  
All depends from donation and who you are and how you want spend time together - walking in central go to dizzy jazz to the box to russian tea room to opera to cabaret the box and such and such. It is over weekends given you took two three hours ! Kiss flirt drink wine talk just be lovers not free woman that all but charge 500 six hours as 3000 I would not do so to someone who takes my time often and want just go to broadway show what I am not a woman !? Woman just not free one as well as not a provider who cares just ab dollar for such man need provide first time. And then real life info PSE and Real GFE but just E !

A spot on, elequent response Cameo.

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I definitely understand that CAN be a YMMV thing, but now that I am very low volume, seeing only a very few Gentlemen each week, I do not even keep a clock in my incall EVER! As you can read from my reviews, Im known for "going over" often. Again, totally understandable every girl doesn't have time for that, but I guess I'd suggest looking for low volume girls. (Like me?)

I would  be highly surprised to see a provider advertise OTC time (meaning she's an extremely poor businessperson). More likely, you misinterpreted her or are just making up a situation to ask this question.  

Never expect any provider to exceed the terms of your appointment.  You are being unfair to her if you do so...

Hanging out implies no time limit. How can one live without planning? Certainly not in NY. I've been known to not care about timing, in terms of being up for eating or drinking. But that can only happen if I'm not doing anything else. During the day that's impossible. I always have to work afterwards. At night time it's easier but even then I sometimes have plans at 10 or later with friends or a happy hour before.

LOL. I can assure you that I am not making anything up just to ask a question. The providers that I saw didn't advertise this either it actually came as a huge surprise. I was just wondering if we had any ladies that do that around the NYC area.

Don't be that guy or you will end up on lots of DNS lists.  I suppose there are a few women who will, without knowing you, do some kind of deal for extended "hang out time" in advance.  But why would you want to do that with someone you don't even know?
My advice is, get to know a few girls, pay them for their time and see if you click.  Then suggest you'd like to take them out to eat after your session, assuming they don't have another date.  I make it clear that, while I'm happy to pay for their meal, the rest is OTC.  In virtually every case the answer has been "yes."  It works the same way for several other guys I know.  If you have decent social skills it might work for you.  It helps if you can make her laugh.  Gals enjoy a guy who's got a decent sense of humor and is respectful, presentable and fun.  But don't even bother trying this until you've seen her a few times and she knows you're a decent guy.

buy it....where's the link to the Post ??? It would be fine to share if it was already posted, so no harm there. I would be hard pressed to believe it till I saw the wording of the post. That being said, most providers wouldn't. Remember it's a BUSINESS, no matter what you may have going through your head after the deed  ( which usually isn't common sense ) . Yes it is possible to have something happen out of the ordinary, but keep yourself grounded and try and think rationally. It's not Match.com. if you saw her and paid her she is doing this for a reason, PERIOD. Not passing judgement just stating the obvious. Everyone has needs Hobbyist and Provider. Not trying to be too deep with this if she did her job, she had you believe you were the most important person in the world, attThat moment. Enjoy it and let it go. Otherwise you may be setting yourself up for dejection for no reason, since she probably was just a great provider and made you feel great. As for someone posting that HANGING OUT is available , I agree with the comments above about it not being too believable and if it was posted, it would be by someone not too good at the business end of this. JMHO......

I wouldn't ever want to be "that guy", nor would I take advantage if this either. I just like seeing providers that don't see her clients as just a dollar sign. But I know what you mean. Thanks for the feedback.

I'm not going to link to it but the post is in the NYC ad boards. The stipulation was that she had to have already seen you. Yes this is a business but everyone goes out with their co workers from time to time. It was very refreshing setting this post since it showed that she doesn't see her clients as a dollar sign but actual people. Idk it might just be me.

We are all JUST dollar signs.
They would rather not be having sex with our likes.
They would rather not be spending extra time with us except to cement a business relationship with more valued clients (how if works in other service businesses).
Ladies, please don't bother marketing to say the opposite here. But I'll rely on the general common sense here to know what rings true.  

Just like any business, there will occasional promotions to drum up business or reinforce the brand, especially in a competitive market.  
You're exactly the sucka they're looking for.  
As long as you leave when they ask you too.
Don't stalk them on phone, email, or IRL.
And repeat often with paying sessions.

I totally get what you are saying but I said "just" a dollar sign. I know that we are all dollar signs but I have seen both extremes one that sees clients as "just" dollars signs and those that see us as a new experience every time and that is what I love about certain providers.

Thanks for your feedback.

Been there, his sh*it is endless.

He's up for a pulitzer and philosophy prizes this year.  

Dude not to beat this into the ground ...but....your missing the point and the heads ups.....your logic of going out with co-workers ??!! Really ?!!!! Your PAYING HER !!!! not working with her....and ADJ makes a good point.....ever hear of Loss Leaders ??!!! Put somethin out there cheap that someone wants, so they can move the more pricy stuff !!!...Just Think About It.....

There is only one way to know if she likes you well enough to just spend time with you.  When she stops charging you for it.  It's rare, but it does happen.