I recently saw a client who had canceled on me previously, but, I always give second chances. I was willing to host at a hotel that I had rented and not charge him any extra for the room. During the session, he seemed very pleased and prevented himself from popping off too soon during oral play. After this he had a hard time keeping it stiff with a cover on. I offered a female condom as it can help with these issues. He still could not get it stiff enough for the deed. I gave him a very slow and patient bbbj even though his time was up I stayed with the task and got him to CIM.  

Not at all! I don't want clients to lie to me about how great it was if it was indeed the opposite. I even received a very lovely email thanking me for a great time he had and inviting me to join him at the upcoming meet and greet. I'm searching for answers of the distinct hot and cold behavior. If he was not happy during the session I wish he did not lead me to believe so. If I did not feel we had an amazing time with an honest great connection I would not be upset.

and work things out before you post on a public board. A breach of etiquette is not remedied by another breach; it simply makes things escalate.

The scoring can be ignored as it is so out of whack compred to all of your other reviews by established and respected hobbyist.

I did in fact talk to him in private and he did not respond to my request about what did not please him. I don't think it is fair that he can openly review things about me for everyone to see and I cannot openly discuss the review. I think the chance to openly defend myself about a poor review is what makes TER so special. Keep in mind he is capable of responding to this thread as well.

You have disparaged his reputation multiple times in a single thread. First furious of his alleged duplicity (how dare he flatter me yet give an unflattering review) and then triumphant in back channelling terrible things from unnamed escorts.

He gave you a 7/7, which is actually a decent (though not stellar) score.  Literally, a 7/7 means he found you "attractive" and had a "hot time."  Nothing so terrible about that.
But these days giving anyone a score below a 9 is taken as an insult.  Some reviewers insist on being more rigorous in their scoring.  I do not but certainly won't slam those who do.  And, as others have pointed out, most of us will take a low score and throw it out or at least take it with a grain of salt if other credible reviewers have given higher scores.

I think your replies have stressed that your major q is not about the review itself but:

fellow NYer who now lives in Las Vegas.........too many NY men will try to denigrate you for your post.  Don't pay any attention to them.

joking........but just in case........how in the world could she BULLY anyone into doing anything?

Ha Ha Ha I have never been called a bully or terrorist but TER hobbyists certainly have given me some new titles to work with.

It is a tough business to be in  and we have to have really tough skin - I wish you could review the guys ..lol  

A provider had 8/8 reviews on an average, I visited her and because of the Dingy sorroundings in her house i did not enjoy the session and so I have her 7/7  and mentioned about the Trash in the Review, she made my life miserable by texting me , then emailing me and also calling up TER , I did not want to spoil her reputation but this was a worst expereince for me. Finally I learned from TER that she has been delisted on TER  ofcourse not because of my reviewing but i dont know the other facts.

Hobby..He has given a 7/7 before and perhaps it was just not a good chemistry match between the two of you. It happens and I have had 7/7 scores in the past but I do not let it bother me. I had a HOT time with your last reviewer but it may be that we had a lot in common and sparks were flying between us. Do not take it to heart and get upset over the review.  Also in my opinion...calling a "low scorer" out is not going to help you and may even hinder you. Chin up, look inward and move on....
If you are sincere and really show how much you enjoy your dates company - it will reward you with a really great time and memories!  

One rating is not a trend, and it may show that ratings are real.  I would look closely at what people are saying and decide if I fit into the chemistry camp of the stellar ratings or those of less than stellar. Especially important at those price points.

What goes around, comes around.  It is called karma and she probably deserved what she received.

First off, you should never have expected a 10/10 from the dude in question, as his history shows he does not give out 10/10's to anyone.  His review seemed to be honest from his perspective, and given the number of white listings he has, he is fairly well regarded by some well-know ladies in the hobby.  But, I think his overall disappointment with the session has clouded his vision on the looks rating, presuming your pics are accurate, which I have no doubt they are.  

You do know a 7 is a great time, right? He gives pretty fair reviews and said it was his fault for certain things. I very much took it as an honest review.

so many actors I know beause of you. Xo

I stopped writing reviews years ago.  And you know what?  I find it makes for a better session.  I don’t have to worry about taking mental notes.  Did we turn to the left or the right?  Providers have told me they are happy they don’t have to be concerned about a review so they relax.  She doesn’t have to worry that if she queefs it will be written about.  I find that the absence of reviews works for me because it creates a more intimate session, where it is just the two (or three) of us and not just the two (or three of us) with a potential worldwide audience reading about every detail.  Plus numbers are funny.  Like this poor girl getting caught up with the very subjective 7 or 10.  I have had guys with dozens or hundreds of reviews on this board confront me as if the number of their reviews is a sign of their prowess versus my puny total of 6.  They make me laugh. A lot. Relax and have fun people.  Life is too short.

If I were the board moderator, I would move your post to be directly under hers.

I was agreeing with you and then added stuff for the OP. Wasn't trying to be mean to her either. It just gets old when either guys don't review fairly or the gal demands 10's. I do not know the case and can only go off what I read on his review. If she did put up with BS from him, I'd be upset at that review too. She would have been understanding and nice and got a slap in the face, so to speak.  

I guess you don't check out a ladies review history [ provided by others who do not share your view on info sharing] before booking ?

TER seems to be doing just fine in the years since I stopped writing reviews. Besides, I contribute my monthly fee.  Why do you care so much about what I do or don't do?  To each his own.  Life is too short to worry.

TER isn't a "community." It's a business. The owners run it because they want to turn a profit. They may or may not believe in some higher cause of making this subculture a safer place (don't we all dream of making a living from what we also believe in or enjoy?), but that's only an aside; if the money wasn't there, they wouldn't be either. And, like any online business structure, they provide certain features for free for anyone to use, without obligation to buy. A portion of those who do buy (such as the poster you're attacking, Garvin_Fred101) are the very target audience TER has hoped to capture and convert into a paying customer.

But many of the participants have formed a sense of a cyber community. Some of us have exchanged courtesies , banter and valuable information for years. Most of us will never meet in person but we do develop a level of respect and trust.  

"... choose to in some way employ flippant language or ridicule  toward the contributors."

Master, you wisdom is a breath of fresh air, well said

Who gave a provider higher marks then she deserved cause he WAS AFRAID she BL him and then he went to the other forum to whine about it..