what sites do you guys find most useful?  

I've only lived here about 3 months and finding it hard to advertise with the boroughs I wish I could just advertise "New York" but a lot of sites have Manhattan and New York City as different boroughs any help?

Many of them have multiple check options to choose different boroughs.  You’ve actually taken the first step in advertising.  Saying something here, anything, is a first step.  

adult search & cityxguide are both REALLY popular in nyc where i am and i have to pay to advertise in manhattan, new york city (which is literally the same technically) but the providers in both are different and i have incalls super close to Bronx so I end up paying for them all but its just a pain in the ass but most clients dont realize these sites work either for example if u just click new york city because its so easily available on AS theres like 80 providers in NYC but if you put in Manhattan theres 100;s if it was free I really wouldn't care but honestly it makes a huge difference I hate these "list crawlings" sites that steal our ads and put them places because now it almost pays off to find whee they are taking our ads because i get a lot of clients from them too lol

sucks cuz its something that just goes with the biz lol pay a lot to be verified on legit sites only to still have to deal with the "lots of fake girls" blah blah blah but the only sites they trust are the ones full of spam lol  

true though lol thanks i think i just talked myself through the answer I was looking for  

ive even been getting clients on redit  

They seem a bit ‘Backpageish’.  Not a bad thing.  I found a few gems on that site.  I just need to look on AS and CityX more often and sort it out.  Tryst is another site, and Eros.  I’ve never been a fan of Eros, and it has its complaints from the ladies.  However, it is a long standing escort ad site.

Good luck to you.  Mongers are trying to find you as well.  Bit of trial and error.  You’ll eventually find the right mix of sites to advertise on.  

I'm really liking slixa and tryst in NYC