don't know how one becomes a stalker if he don't call or show up?

Minutes prior and then no show. Later start the BS through emails. Understand now?

It is normal for girls to watch out for other girls and share info , usually in the form of verification when we reference check someone interested in seeing us .
In this case Sindee wanted to be sure all of the ladies had the info she had available to her .
She had first hand experience with a certain gent , that experience was not a positive one and one she Would have wished to have had this type of information available to her before deciding to commit to seeing him .
Sindee took a chance and posted publicly so she might reach a larger number of girls . Kindly she offered the opportunity for any of us to find out what was up when she invited us to contact her .  
It is nice to be forewarned and forearmed rather than experience the same thing possibly seeing the same guy or in this case never actually seeing him. but did he see her  ? Do we know for sure his motivation ? Or even that he was not in the area ?
As a rule the ladies try to watch out for one another rather than question publicly the validity of a girl and something she has experienced .
I realize you are new as I did take the liberty of looking at your reviews , and welcome to TER . Maybe next time you might consider finding out what is going on before deciding to remark .In some cases it may even be info about safety . I don't know if you meant to be off putting? Pulling her down to hoist yourself up is ... well not necessary .It is hard to imagine me ever having to comee to Sindee's defense
Even if this is not something you might personally choose to do , she took a risk at someone making a sly remark to inform the other girls and you sort of slapped her hand .
Please see the newbie area as well as there are a lot of helpful hints and tips for newer providers and hobby guys alike it is a wonderful resource . You might consider joining the providers only board as well and so you might get an inside look and feel for the camaraderie we do enjoy in general as provider members  .I wish you luck , health , wealth and happiness . All the best and Welcome to TER,  Kendall Lynn