Looking for a mature, under the radar, provider in South Jersey.  Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated...  By mature I mean 40's to early 50's.  Under the radar I mean a provider that has a very limited client list, and may be looking to add a regular gentleman to the mix.

Thank you for any suggestions..

I don't mean to be rude but guys who hide behind alias's do not get true UTR info. You're a big boy and can research the fine mature ladies in SNJ as well as anyone but who would give YOU info about someone who wants to be ultra discreet? That would be violating trust, don't you think?

I apologize if I misconstrued your intentions but it seems you ask too much.  

Oh, and I don't know anyone who meets your criteria, but most of the mature non-UTR ladies are low volume and super discreet

She is not UTR but Summer is the one is probable the best in the area
my atf  all her sklls are great but oral is second to none
smsrt lady too and has not been doing this for long

Jerzey jamie is just rebounding from breast cancer and making a great cum bac

No need with your condesending attitude, he is just looking for some help.

And btw, he is not "hiding behind an alias" as he is not using his alias. He is using his handle. You have been mongering for  close to 10 years here and you didn't know that?  

If you don't know anyone who meets his criteria then why even bother responding to him?

Lastly, you have NO Klew who is low volume or high volume. You do not know what they do in p4p or in their civie lives so no basis to make that absurd assertion.

OP, you have a pm. I can help you.

Good grief...

Like you, the OP's name appears in blue above a yellow envelope, which means he's a handle with full VIP privileges.  An alias's name appears in black.  If there's an envelope beneath it, that means it's an alias with PM privileges, meaning he has VIP as well.  A name appearing in black with no envelope under it is not an alias, only a basic member with no PM rights.
So only in the second example is it a true alias.  The only difference between you and the OP is he has no reviews.  And even that doesn't mean he's never written one, because he may review under his alias for lots of good reasons.  I won't list the many good reasons to keep your main handle separate from your reviews.
In any case, since the OP is a full-fledged, paying member of this site he certainly deserves the courtesy of getting the help of other members.
And he also deserves an apology from you.

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Asshole..

Once again you prove to be one of the more disagreeable people on this board.

First, I don't know the OP from Adam, and since there is no review icon under his handle, I assume (a) he has no history or (b) he is using an alias. I also assume that a seasoned guy wouldn't be making this sort of inquiry.  

Second, I apologized if I misconstrued his intent, but you chose to ignore that, just so you could write a boorish post.  

Third, "UTR" has a distinct meaning and it includes not sharing information without the permission of the lady, and not sharing it with people you don't know and trust.  Am I wrong about this?  The way the OP was written it was unclear if he was using the standard  meaning, or if he just wanted information about low volume providers.  If it was the first meaning, he asked for information he should not get. If it was the second meaning, then he can do the research that any one could do.  

Fourth, how do I know if ladies are low volume? Easy, I read their websites, ads, posts and reviews, and if these sources say a provider is low volume, and she only advertises a few days a week, then I assume she is low volume. Is that an illogical conclusion?

Finally, you have misconstrued another definition.  "Low volume" only refers to the number of clients an escort sees in a given time period.  You may be the first person in history to suggest that a provider's personal sex life has any bearing on whether she is a low or high volume provider.  I don't know what a provider does in her private life (and I don't want to know) but if you think that it matters, then any description of volume is meaningless.

I see that you sent the OP a PM.  You didn't send him a list of "low volume" providers, did you?

Peace to you in 2016

And it is amazing your lack of knowledge in this world and apparently the civie world.  

If something is unclear to you from a post written here, either pm the guy or nicely ask him to clarify. Your condescending attitude was clearly felt by me, the OP and another poster but you stand in defiance of all.  

As for low volume, you clearly have no clue how many guys that a girl see in a day, week or month. Not all guys review. In fact few guys review so again, your "ability" to distinguish low from high volume is a fallacious argument.

Guys ask about low volume for they think higher volume girls are tired, slutty or more likely to have a disease. That is many many peeps view here but I think that is absurd as there is zero way we can ever know how many guys a girl beds in any time frame you want to note.

The IRL comment about sex goes to this and many people ask about this. Would you consider a girl low volume if she fked 50 civie dudes a week and one John? See the absurdity of determining low vs high volume? Your conclusion is completely illogical because her ads, posts, reviews would give you zero insight into how she carries her p4p or civie affairs bcd.

Why don't you listen to the several people in this thread that disagree with your tone and unwillingness to answer basic questions. I will continue to be "boorish" if that will make you attempt to be helpful here but all too often all you care to do is lecture people on how you CANT help them.

Don't be that guy.

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Only a VIP member can use an alias, so ALL alias posters are VIP.

Aside from that, you are both correct that an envelope, gold, yellow or brown, depending on your degree of color blindness, shows that the poster is using his/her "real" fake name.

Jack being the asshole of course. (for the record, assholes are much superior to douche bags"

First you call out the OP for being an alias poster when it's plain as day he's using his real handle, then you call out the guy actually trying to help the OP for being "boorish" when that description is a lot better fit for your post instead.

Now I suppose you will call me an alias since I too have no reviews next to my handle as well, The only thing worse than a douchebag is a stupid douche bag.

Before just assuming shit, you could try doing a message search. If you had done so you would have found the OP had been here at least since last July.

and you are delusional if you think you can determine if a lady is high or low volume by simply checking out her web presence, you seem to "assume" a lot, but you don't seem to actually know a GD thing. I am sure the OP is very appreciative for your help.

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Jack is the asshole, Klew is the douchebag.

and while Jack is an asshole, Jack is a helpful asshole, while Klew is just a miserable douchebag with no apparent redeeming qualities.

I hope Jack was able to help you in your search.

I look forward to the possibility of connecting like we discussed.  

Until then, stay warm this winter handsome

Yours,  
Gia xo

Silly boy, that's what I said.
Please read my post again.

I absolutely HATE being wrong, but silly me, "I was wrong and you are right"  I just went back and reread your post and that's exactly what you said. My bad.

but fuck you anyhow. lol

They say it takes a big man to admit he is wrong, I disagree. The only real prerequisite to admitting you were wrong is to be wrong in the first place. In my feeble defense, I was posting sober yesterday afternoon. I make a lot less mistakes after I have had a few.

Well, it wasn't really gracious but WTF.  In my short time here I've seen you refer to yourself rather proudly as an asshole.  This is exactly the kind of apology I'd expect from a self-admitted asshole.  By the way, that is not a criticism. LOL
PS: I'm not a "mister."  Just as you are proud to call yourself an asshole, I am proud to call myself a black Ho.

and let me add that not only are some of my best friends assholes, many of them are hos as well, a  few of them black hos.  

Who knows, this could be the start of a beautiful friendship? lol

I will try to be more gracious in the future. Well actually we both know that's a lie. I am what I am with no immediate plans to change, but I will admit to it on those rare occasions that I fuck up.

And some of my best friends are assholes.  I'm actually a bigger asshole than my posts here show.  I'm just trying really hard to play nice. LOL!

Actually I am nice most of the time, but I have a low threshold for stupidity and everyone remembers my "assholey" posts longer than my "nice" posts, which is fine with me, after all no one respects or gives two fucks about someone who constantly "sucks up" and has no backbone.

Just like with you, I prefer a "ho" with a mind of her own, not afraid to speak it. OTOH, I realize that would be professional suicide for most women here to do so under their stage name. It's funny how guys are always posting questions about how hookers "really feel" or "really live" like you women are from another planet, but then make it painfully clear they don't want to know how you really feel, they just want their preconceived ideas on the subject validated.

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and would love to meet you..I am definitely fitting your description and well reviewed too.

If you can come up my way (Secaucus) love to meet you...

Makenzie