I've had better luck with hostess clubs lately than with escorts. I like to see what I'm getting. I like to have a choice of a few different ladies. A lot of times with the "privacy level" of pics on ads, you don't get that. I don't like to do outcall. You can always be sure that she has a location. I feel safer saying I'm there for drinks and see some ladies rather than pass off meeting an escort as "two consenting adults meeting up". I don't need to be paranoid about Leo monitoring my computer activities. There is no computer involved. I have hostess clubs relatively close by and don't need to drive all the way to the air port or the convention center. The latest event that is keeping me in the hostess clubs is the death of Shannan Gilbert. No one is going to ask me "where were you on the night of..." by going to a hostess club. It just feels safer all around to me. It wasn't that hard to me to find my first one either. I just went to a strip club in a city. Remember, "There is no s#x in the champagne room."

Anyone else like hostess clubs?

Sorry for this question - but what do you mean "hostess club", as opposed to MP, or strip club?
More importantly, are there any in NNJ (this is posted on the NJ board.....).
Also, what are the costs involved (entrance, services, drinks...)?

Sounds awesome, but how does one go about discovering one of these and what kind of donations are expected.

I think this a random post, I have never seen a hostess club in NJ ever.

Open your eyes

Sorry - open our eyes to what?
That message was just too cryptic.

I replied to a poster who satate ...he has never SEEN a hostes club in NJ.

I replied  open your eyes.

What is cryptic about thet.

I have been to these in europe but nt in the states.  Not sure if the are same tho...

lovin this post....everyone just mouthing off about the special hostess clubs with no links, no history no proof....It all is starting to look like a Casey Anthony trial to me. Did I ever tell you guys about my 65 dollar slim blonde MILF in Franklin Lakes? She is out all the time there looking around for dick. i MUST BE WEARING THE WRONG GLASSES.

Allow me to direct your attention to Definitions, Acros, Abreviations, and Terms under Self Help. I discovered there was a name for what I was into. The DAAT defines it as follows.

Hostess Club -- A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises.

I already said, a hostess club wasn't hard for me to find. I went to a city and walked into the first strip club I saw. That said, when I got tired of that club, finding a second one was not as easy. I hit several other clubs in that city and surrounding and did not find that conditions were suitable for extras or that there were no extras offered. (As always, YMMV) I've been to some dinky, dirty bars and thought there MUST be sex going on here. I was wrong. I've also been to well advertised, upscale-ish clubs to find that there were extras going on. (I also have my suspicions about a very high profile "mob" club but have been unable to confirm) Generally speaking, as with incall locations, stay away from the  suburbs. Also, high profile clubs tend to get enough business without having hanky panky and would not want to jeopardize that with illegal activity.

So, now that we have an understanding, anyone like/dislike hostess clubs, for any of the above reasons and more? Folks replied in my providers/strippers thread. More said they have met strippers off premises for a session than actually having it take place there. Please share your thoughts.

Phil, after reading some of your reviews, does not look like you have  met a lot of girls that set your world on fire.

Yeah, that's basically all I've been saying in my posts.

I'm starting a blog to review strip clubs. You will need to do some reading in between the lines. I will also post some non-hostess club reviews but I will try to keep those for later. My next reply will have the blog link, which the mods can keep/delete.