two ladies have rejected me because i'm 22. is this hobby not possible for under age 30?

A lot of girls dont want to see guys that are 20-something because of how guys that age they ACT. Most that age are immature. It feels almost like they have something to prove in the bed.(i hope that even  makes sense,lol) it isnt how LONG you last....and it isn't how HARD u can pump...and it Sure as he'll isn't how awesomely  BIG your penis is...VERY Young guys seem to think those 3 things are what is most important...and it mAkes for an awkward time.,haba
Ooooooh-AND I forgot to say this at the beginning(because it's important),about younger guys being unreliable. Which really kinda sucks.LoL.
Now please don't take all that personally....if YOU aren't that type younger guy than u are the exception,and that's great.#☺I recently saw a 23 yr old and had a great appt. I only let it slide because only AFTER  after a bunch of emaîla did I find ouÍt his age...and he was very mature. Worked full time,had his ownside business,bought himself a Mercedes.(meaning mom n dad didn't buy it) lol

But most providers (including myself) will be hesitant to see someone under 30 yo. The reasons can vary but; in my experience, these are some of the reasons why bells go off when the guy says he's under 30 years old:

1) they flake out way too often
2) haggle a lot
3) will try to use they youth or good looks to pay less/free sessions
4) will harass you after the first encounter

I'm not saying people over 30 don't do these things, but in my experience, younger guys are more likely to do these things. And I have met various providers who have had similar situations and prefer to see older guys. Having said that, I still give people the benefit of the doubt. But if you're 23 and sound 23... My guess is, girls won't see you. If you're 23 but sound like a 45 yo gentleman. Girls won't have a problem overlooking your age. The guys in their 20s I've met, I never could have guessed their age when on the phone with them, and that's a great sign they are mature.  

Cheer up. I'm sure that if you're serious about it and mature. You won't have problems meeting a nice provider soon

reasons.

They are very financially independent.
They are very experienced and take their time in the sack.
They tend to like longer sessions which means more money in her pocket.
They are almost always one and done in ten minutes,  
and finally, providers that see multiple dates a day don't want some young stud pounding their pussy for 40 minutes straight, LOL

That stuff about maturity is nonsense, it's about all of the above

i would hate to think they're not having fun...

That stuff about maturity is spot on....

Abbey

But, to clarify some points...

1. The major reason I prefer seeing older men is that they tend to be more mature, respectful human beings.  

2. Younger men sometimes book longer dates (some have grandiose fantasies), and can definitely be inclined to throw around a lot of cash. Many older men book 1-hour dates, or shorter. Yes, I have more requests for longer dates from men 45+ years old, but then again, most of my clientele is over the age of 45.  

For instance: in the past year, I've had two dates w/men 35 or younger. One was exactly 35 and booked 2 hours. The other was 22 and booked 3 hours. Throughout my career, I've done overnights mostly w/men 50+, but there was also one 25 y/o guy.  

3. I take issue with the following statement: "They are almost always one and done in ten minutes." Many men who are far from their physical prime take a looooooonnnnnnggggg time to come...this is particularly true of overweight or unhealthy men, those with ED issues, those taking Viagra for any reason, and those who take meds for heart issues...just to name a few. And even among healthy men, those who are 60+ generally take longer to come, in my experience. It's the younger ones that are one and done in 10 minutes...or sometimes, even shorter...although, they usually can do that 2-3 times (to continue in the spirit of not generalizing, I had a client 50+ who was in great shape and could do the same thing. He'd come 3 times in 1 hour).

I am also a young guy (24), I have had good luck with agencies.

Being so knew to the planet you are not listed as a home owner, bill payer within public records

social networker only works if your linking has over 300 connection and established....you could be a rookie cope or a mugger

Impossible to verify who you are at 22

are you serious.  are you really serious?

If your heart is broken for being rejected in P4P then maybe you do need to grow up some and come back when you have a better understanding of the ways of the world.

 
2015 = 2

Yes!.good point I forgot about the endless text messages AFTER seeing someone that is young. they sometimes will harass all day long( for weeks) and ask to hang out (like free hang out,lol...not business)

idk what your problem is but when someone can't do what they want to do because of something out of their control its the opposite of understandable. its not even about p4p

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Not me.  

Guess what Jr. It is about P4P. Let me help you figure it out. When you come on a P4P site and CRY that your heart is broken, about not being able to get a P4P date it is about P4P.

The ladies have their own rules/policies as to who they will and will not see. For some ladies it is an age limit. It is up to them.

When you post, CRYING,  that it Breaks Your Heart that you cannot get a P4P gal because you do not meet their age limit shows your immaturity.

If that breaks your heart then when a civie girl says no to a date you really must be devastated.

Now Jr. run along, wipe the tears from your cheek , perhaps find a good shrink, and come back when you have emotionally matured.

You're Welcome
2015 = 28  
 

END OF MESSAGE

However Jr. did not indicate either directly or indirectly, in his OP or reply to me, that , that is the case.  
In fact Jr. seemed to make an attempt to defend his heart break.

But I could be wrong.

 
Thank you  
2015 = 28

 
BTW Again Congrats MS. TER

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U COULD NOT HAVE SAID THAT ANY MORE PERFECTLY ❤ (and more funny)
Most younger guys seem like they have something to prove in bed  I feel. I'm not sure if I said that properly but yes,there ARE a few older guys that do some of that stuff too-  but def described it in a humorous fashion where Most of it was spot on.

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its ok guys found someone

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visit with an agency, and after a time or two (and you have the lady's private number), you can use her to whitelist you.  

Times have changed, few ladies back when ... have had an age requirement, they cared about one thing.  the size of your wallet.  I am generalizing, sorry if I offended any ladies.  With advent of internet and this site evolving to encompass more diverse group of individuals, people began to choose who they wanted to see or not.  Some ladies may ask you to send a picture / 'selfie' to them, and if they like it or made sure you are not someone they know, they will agree to see you.   Some ladies choose to NOT see a certain race.  that is their prerogative, they may have some issues with them in the past so to cut out all potential safety issues for herself, she choose that.  

The same thing could be said with age.  Some ladies will refuse to see men above a certain age.  Some men will also refuse too see a lady if she looked a certain way ....  The important thing to learn is there is always the next lady/ gentleman just waiting for a response.  

Be patient and enjoy!