Allow me to direct your attention to Definitions, Acros, Abreviations, and Terms under Self Help. I discovered there was a name for what I was into. The DAAT defines it as follows.

Hostess Club -- A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises.

I already said, a hostess club wasn't hard for me to find. I went to a city and walked into the first strip club I saw. That said, when I got tired of that club, finding a second one was not as easy. I hit several other clubs in that city and surrounding and did not find that conditions were suitable for extras or that there were no extras offered. (As always, YMMV) I've been to some dinky, dirty bars and thought there MUST be sex going on here. I was wrong. I've also been to well advertised, upscale-ish clubs to find that there were extras going on. (I also have my suspicions about a very high profile "mob" club but have been unable to confirm) Generally speaking, as with incall locations, stay away from the  suburbs. Also, high profile clubs tend to get enough business without having hanky panky and would not want to jeopardize that with illegal activity.

So, now that we have an understanding, anyone like/dislike hostess clubs, for any of the above reasons and more? Folks replied in my providers/strippers thread. More said they have met strippers off premises for a session than actually having it take place there. Please share your thoughts.