I recently gave a review of someone I saw about a month ago. After rereading what i wrote a few times, I began to think to myself WTF was I thinking??? While some or most of the review was written accurately and on target there were some very hurtful things I wrote that were totally unwarranted and just plain mean spirited! I really am not that type of guy and after reading my own review of this woman I felt terrible.

I always wait a day before submitting a review.  Write it and sit on it.  There is one I'd like to take back.  I too was tough on the looks scale.  While she isn't a beauty she didn't deserve the rating I gave her.  Beauty is mostly subjective after all.

I to have been sitting on a review. She has pretty decent reviews but she really added a lot of weight which no other reviewer mentioned. I had an ok time but could tell we just didn't click. As it sits I will probably not post it and chalk it up to ymmv!

If you write another review  on the person, it will replace the previous one...

I tried to do that and ADMIN would not allow a change to be made or a new review within three months....So looks like it stays....

I have in the past explained the situation and been allowed to revise a review.  Not because a review I wrote was too mean, but because the provider thought I revealed too much.  However, I read your review and think it should stand.  If someone has a similar standard of beauty as you, they will value your honest and frank opinion.

Posted By: muffythediver

I tried to do that and ADMIN would not allow a change to be made or a new review within three months....So looks like it stays....

.... in the future of course write the review while the details are fresh but at the same time never be in a hurry to write one so you can do it right the first time .

Made my previous reply too soon. But .... well oops you can try to "fix it" in 3 months from now or again use it as a lesson to sit on the details for a bit and and write it right the first time keeping in mind that you would have to wait 3 months to do any changes or updates.

Wow, it seems a few guys hear have given UNFAIR reviews, even though they know this effects a providers livelihood.  Its one thing to RATE a provider as UNATTRACTIVE, but to post that she was down right UGLY is just mean spirited.  I also think it is sad that they refuse to allow you to revise a review even after you ADMITTED it was UNWARRANTED.

I'm sure many here have gotten reviews they just did not deserve, or that were completely false or hurtful. It's ashamed that the author of such reviews can not at least make it right if need be....I don't give a shit if it hurts my rep as a "Monger" Hobbyist" "Client" or whatever we are called!! I do give a shit though that I have hurt someone else's reputation here and if I could figure out a way to make this all go away I certainly would.  

Kuddos on trying to make it right. The fact that it bothers you means that your moral compass is alive and well so…there's that. As far as reviews that weren't deserved:

Well my story ends well, I was able to convince ADMIN to allow me to change my review....So all is well again!