Thanks for the input. I can appreciate the concern in regards to forming bonds with providers. I assure you that this is not of concern in this case as this was my first encounter with this individual. My concern is purely of a public health issue and the potential of spreading infectious disease.
Recently had an encounter with a provider... I did not realize it until I was too far involved but, apparently she was under the influence and she has a problem. Multiple bruises, etc... What is the protocol to get this person some help?
unless you know a lot already about this person, which I suspect you don't. It would be best to do nothing as often actions taken without substantial background and knowledge can lead to disasterous results.
If you are close to any people she knows, you could ask them about her and see if they have any ideas, but other than that, don't try to rescue her. You'd be like the guy who runs out to save someone who's fallen through thin ice and ends up in the drink themselves.
You can continue to see her if you are comfortable doing so, but otherwise I would probably not if seeing her made me either fearful or squeamish.
This hobby is supposed to be for our enjoyment and not for forming bonds, the type of which would be appropriate for assisting someone in need.
Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh, but I've been where you are a number of times and found out the hard way that good intentions are no guaarantee of success.
Thanks for the input. I can appreciate the concern in regards to forming bonds with providers. I assure you that this is not of concern in this case as this was my first encounter with this individual. My concern is purely of a public health issue and the potential of spreading infectious disease.
I have seen this type is problem with two providers that I have seen regularly in the past. I spent far too much time trying to help them with no positive results.
Thus, I would agree with Mr. Fisher. While your desire to help is commendable, you should not get involved.
My perception is that there is a tendency (with many but not all providers) to be in abusive relationships. I am not a Psychologist and cannot explain this clearly. Your best intentions could be misconstrued as crossing the line and getting involved in a Provider's personal life.
There is a reason for this industry and its customers. You pay for a service, teat the provider with respect, and both go back to your own lives.
......Many providers specify on their websites that they will terminate the session immediately should they deem the gent is under the influence of ANY intoxicating substance.
I think that's a prudent policy for either party in the transaction.
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