I have a sexual fantasy but have not acted on it. I am wondering if I should act on it or just leave it in the realm of fantasy. My fantasy is to meet a beautiful, confident woman. Someone who is mature and comfortable in their own skin but not cold and aloof. This fantasy woman would be dressed in business attire (e.g., skirt, blouse, fitted jacket) with some sexy black hosiery and just a peek of cleavage. Her look should be conservative but give a person the sense that there is a volcano of heat and passion just below the surface. Basically, I desire a strong and confident business woman or luscious secretary that everyone in the office is lusting after but no one can have. All in all that is a pretty common fantasy - the sexy boss, sexy secretary, sexy teacher. That is just the part that gets me interested. The fantasy part of this is that this vixen would take charge of me and our encounter. The sight of this fantasy woman on her knees, blouse open, lipstick glistening, eyes smoldering should be enough for any man. What I want is for that same woman to pull out a "surprise" from her bag of tricks...a strap-on that she wants to use on me. The idea, the fantasy, of this encounter is what is lurking in my thoughts these days.  

The issue becomes that I have never done this. I love the fantasy of it but will I like the reality? Does anyone have any insight about their own experience to share? Any recommendations of the right woman to make contact with?

Thanks in advance for any information and not being judgmental if this particular fantasy "kink" is not your thing. Honestly, I still do not know if it is mine yet either. I am open-minded and want to push against the conventional boundaries a bit. Being in a LTR with someone is is very conventional and not at all interested in exploring new things has left me to dwell in my own imagination far to long.

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