Greetings to the NE board! I live in Tampa but work for a company that is headquartered in mid town Manhattan. It looks like we will be relocating our office to downtown Stamford this summer. I have been following this board for the last few months and wanted to confirm with the regulars my impressions of the hobby in Stamford. From what I have seen it appears that there are few providers based in Stamford with the bulk of activity being ladies who are visiting the area for one or two nights. Seems like most of the action is up in Hartford. My question is are there any UTR providers that you could recommend or possibility of agencies that service the Stamford area? Any information that you guys could share would be greatly appreciated. If you prefer not to post a reply please PM me. Thanks in advance.

Though there are a few "locals," most of the high quality gals are ones who tour through there.  The hotels and amenities are good.  Bear in mind, too, that White Plains, NY, is only about 15 minutes away and is comparable.  Also, New Haven is only 1/2 hour up 95.  And, of course, Stamford is only an hour from mid-town Manhattan.  All in all, a target-rich environment.

Good luck in your relocation coming up this year.

I'm a Nutmegger (i.e. from Connecticut) and live up in the middle of the state near our capital, Hartford.

My impressions for you:

- I regularly see on my date-check list of providers from Connecticut that there are at least four providers listing Stamford as their home base. Perhaps there are a lot more. Date-check is a bit of a Bible to me. I have not contacted or dated any from "down there" (I live up in Hartford). The distance is not worth the drive owing to Hartford having a good blend of home based providers and tourers.

- I regularly see by reading date-check "touring" providers who choose Stamford as as stop. I don't request appointments for those choosing to only go to Stamford and not closer to where I am.

- To me, Stamford is a suburb of NYC. As such, it does, or can, command NYC provider rates.
The 80% of Connecticut outside the NYC "suburb" area we call "Fairfield County" (i.e. including Stamford) does not have the same financial socio-economic base. I can't pay NYC rates, and look for touring gals who smartly recognize Hartford, New Haven, etc. as nice towns to visit, yet need to be toured priced as most states in the good ol' US of A. I don't mean any offense to fellow Nutmeggers who are providers and consider Stamford their home. Again, I don't analize locals and their rates who are based from there (since Stamford to us up in Hartford is almost as long as getting down into NYC). I just look at touring providers's ads who stop in Stamford only (often, NYC based providers), who oftentimes seem to keep their same wealthy city based rates in place from where they are coming from even throughout every tour city they go to.

- Over and above the industry, Connecticut is a great place to live. Fairfield County is wonderful. Because of its proximity to NYC, real estate costs are nearly the highest in the nation because of the demand of NYC execs to live within a close commute outside The Big Apple.

If you choose Stamford and/or Fairfield County as the place to live in your RELO, you'll find plenty of providers to choose from owing to its location, nearness to NYC, and popularity as a touring stop.

Best wishes for much success in your upcoming move.

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I agree, my ATF is in the Hartford area, and shes local all the time.   I dont consider traveling girls who show up in CT and see 10 men a day for 5 days "high quality".
I have seen ads for more than a few girls as you stated , there are plenty, as I have done my homework.   My bible is preferred411, never fails.

And I can say with certainty that the touring girls I've seen in Stamford are not high volume and are all high quality.  I'm talking about gals from Independent Latinas as well as indies like Ashley Taylor, Natalia Milano, Ashley Dior and many others.  I'm not sure why your experience has been so different.

P411 has very careful screnning, indeed. traveling girls I have seen have told me themselves they need to see NUMEROUS men a day , like 5 or more , to cover expenses, and personally, I dont want to be that fifth guy . I will not bash any provider here, yet, but it has happened to me.

Each lady is different. Now perhaps the five ladies you saw may have stated that to you. I'm not sure why any lady would disclose this to a client it is poor practice. However, many ladies do not operate their business that way at all. I do not lump all clients in one boat because of the musings of a few. It would be unfair to judge an entire group of people based on the actions of only a small sample group.

There are many ways ladies work. Some travel only by request, some see 1-3 a day while visiting an area, some see men on the hour, some have multiple hour minimums, and there are those who may only see a few gents in an entire month. Some ladies tour constantly, some rarely. Some advertise often, some almost never, some work by some word of mouth referral system which is almost mysterious.

Perhaps looking at different variables may yield the best results. Every gent has different likes and dislikes and these will change and evolve throughout his hobbying. Each lady is also constantly growing, but we are all very much individual beings on both sides of the fence.

Xo,
Grace

I am not lumping grace, I dont like the hit and run. I have never seen you

but many others who have done so who are traveling to ct are sketchy.

Who is your ATF in the Hartford Area?  Looking for a good GFE