I am in Stratford, CT.
Which board IS BEST for me right Now, Which one should I use?
New England? Boston? Newyork?
Please help.

I would try both New England and New York City on TER. You might also want to post a notice on CL for New Haven, and put a link to your TER reviews. I look at CL, but would never call anyone advertising there that didn't have TER reviews and their own Web site.

You would probably get the most activity from the NY boards -- I am the Stamford area and always check the NY boards but only occasionally NE.