Services.  Services. Services.  Yes, intimacy and fantasy are nice but I look for services.

Of course services and that seems to me to include some level of fantasy. But without intimacy, I feel distant and mechanical and do not enjoy the time together. I need to have her at least try to make a connection. It helps if she acts like a lover rather than simply a service provider, which can be cold and mechanical. My 2 cents.

For me its ALLLLL about intimacy...I want to feel like the woman I am with WANTS to send the time with me because she is enjoying her time with me fully! Even though I realize its "work" for the provider I need our time together to feel like its more then work to her, I want it to appear as though she "loves" being with me! If I find a provider who can provide that "illusion" looks and body type become somewhat secondary..sure I do want a pretty face and nice body but the intimacy far outweighs anything else.

Im looking for that provider who can take make our time feel as close to being my real GF as possible without actually being my GF!!! VERY few women are capable or even wish to provide that type service. The ones that do keep me coming back often!