I am quite frustrated because Ijust spent the entire morning getting screwed around by a well knowen top reviewed provider who can't seem to make-up her mind wether I am approved or not dispite submiting all the information her website requested on my first E-MAIL contact for which she approved a 1 hour meeting time she never sent directions & E-MAILED me less than 1 hr befor our schedualed meeting that she wanted the information all over again. Howwould you feel?

I chose not to identify the subject provider because nothing in any of her reviews showes that this is a pattern but she knows who she is & how this cost this "low volum " provider her day's wages.

huh you said you didnt know if you were approved or not ...  
and then said you were approved..  
Some providers have stricter screening guidelines than others,, and something you said in any of your responses to her could have spooked her..  
If you having that much difficulty maybe moving on to a different provider or one that you have already seen is the best course of action..  
At this point its probably best as she is going to see this post and probably put you on her DNS list anyways..  

you sound frustrated to a point I'd say pass, and tell her you'll try again another time. then start fresh with a new frame of mind and another lady. just my opinion.

Ok I'll take the bait and respond myself, I actually did tell you it won't work after I checked up with a small follow up question  
Regarding your screening at around 10am today we were tentatively on for 1pm!
            Your answer sufficed, yet I had the concern that you seemed to know my exact location without me ever telling you directions. I DID email back to your response around 10:20 telling you it won't work out.  
After a little while you responded about seeing me at 100, I assumed you may have not taken the time to read my email I sent you about canceling. Either way all this was happening as my sister, who I share a home with -has to go back into the hospital (she has severe kidney problems)  and I am yet again the only person she has to depend on, since her good for nothing lying husband left her last week with 3 kids all under the age of 4!!!      
        So before you go running at the mouth publicly and relentlessly emailing me. STOP and re-read our communication!!  
Then instead of calling me all those names in the emails you might stop and think....
"hmmmmmm  
MAYBE something came up"
-though I'm the first to admit I canceled due mostly to instinct, yet either way it wouldn't have worked out!  
But thanks for showing everyone your true colors!

Yes being low volume a crisis does screw me up financially, but SOME things are more important then money!!
      Like family and feeling safe!
Happy health to all,
~Mindy

*hugs* sorry you are having a bad day,, I hope everything works out for your sister and her kids  

Take a walk on the wild side man! If you throw that same coin down for some of the entry level girls on BP, you'll get anything you want without the bullshit factor! You might also get fucked over completely, or arrested or beat down and left for dead, but the odds are pretty low...    
I prefer to think of it as "being subdued by the Dark Side of the Force"... Just let go your conscious-self and live life...  

Myth #1:: We see everyone that waves money and sends screening info to us

Thank you Cat for your intrest in my post Iam sure if you read my post you will see that in fact I have not done any name calling only identified behavior that wasted my time & left me feeling very frustrated The other party in this matter chose to come out & wrongly accused me of name calling & not reading her E-MAIL. My original post was a product of my frustration with her poor comunication & every word I said is true.   thanks   mrhuck

I'm fairly certain that gents think we lay around in the lap of luxury atop piles of money whilst eating bonbons & cake with nothing else to do but wait for them...  
A little patience on his part would of helped!

Thank you D.J. But you just identified the reasons I would always choose to make an appointment with awell reviewed low volume provider'

Cat eats cake!!! e

Instead of NCNS or the barrage of BS they can put a guy through when "something comes up" or they just plain don't feel like it.

No name calling on your part via this public board, that much is true. Two people are having trouble communicating. Both are frustrated, one is dealing with a pretty serious family problem while all this is happening, yet she DID make time to communicate with you.  

Yes, and we wake up at the break of dawn, get ready to levels of flawless, and wait around for their emails and phonecalls to come pouring in ...  
And that we can hop up at a moments notices and say "how high" because they are asking us to jump..  

Its not a myth!!  
I made some heavenly molten lava chocolate cakes with raspberries and homemade whip cream just the other night and they were DEVINE!!  
nom nom nom nom nom nom nom  

Yeah ,  
*twirls hair and snaps gum*
Oh surrrrree just because you are saying you are telling the truth it must be the truth..  

do you stick your nose in here- Mindy handled it and you still have to rake this guy over the coals.

Thanks to an old friend for stepping up and scheduling because of  
this.  
Women can be choosy.  
Asshats have less fun.  
~

No emailing specifics here...I have a lot going on & I wouldn't do that anyway.
As far as being surprised I came out with it, yes it's not like me to post this kind of crap but if you care to look, the person who started this thread was/is? Very angry & it after a couple hours he felt the need to post a second time....I figured it was only a matter of time before he posted my name, so I just took that option away from him and came public.
     Trust me I feel kind of silly, yet there were several not very nice emails from him -that and this post to begin with is not cool.
Thank you to all the wonderful people out there who have spoken on my behalf.  
~Mindy

You're a champ Mindy. I thought you handled it well and am glad you know enough to go with your gut when dealing with this kind of stuff.

Dear Cat & other's by the tone of your posts you have chosen to accept Mindy's word as fact. there is no post from Mindy cancelling our 1:00PM appointment. It's understandable that you & some fellow providers may choose to villify me in order to support her & her busness. Mindy has presented two unfactual statments first that she cancelled our appointment & second that I knew where she lived, several of my E-MAIL's requested directions from my home to her incall. I have only one thing to appolagise for & that was my referance to money that was a mistake & I am sad that I said that. In conclusion (I hope) you might re-read my orignal post with clear eyes & realize that all I did was to describe my situation & ask how others would feel if they had that experiance. respectfully mrhuck

no no no ,, you have it all wrong , I hate boys,,  
I love men... and those are the kind of clients I see

You are most annoying, and you no longer amuse me. Go bake and STFU

You vented, you left a general post, you posed a question.   Come out here bashing or as an anonymous troll? Not as far as I could see.  The simple fact that you are a man is enough for Cat to bare her teeth and vilify you as she will any man because as was pointed out, it's obvious that she hates them.  She will use any excuse possible to berate them.  Cat that's V-I-L-I-F-Y, and B-E-R-A-T-E look them up, you might learn something.  May help if you are staring at a mirror when doing so....

I hope your sister is doing better.  
xoxo
Kimberly

SADLY I DONT SHOW-UP IN MIRRORS  mrhuck

I definitely know the feel when you're the only stable person that people can go to IRL, It's overwhelming at times .
 I'm busy even if I'm not busy .  
Even though I really didn't want to I've had to say no to people and that's the nature of the business and having a personal life with either gravely ill family members or a hectic second job.
  Nevertheless I know for sure Mindy is not one to brush someone off like they don't matter . One of the sweetest ladies around IMO .

Think you speak for a lot of us Press.. thanks.

Per her earlier post, do guys really wave money at her?   I just can't seem to wrap my mind around that.

News! It happens to EVERYONE. It sucks. I just blame a mercury retrograde for the communication failure and rearrange accordingly like most people do .  
I'd love to share how many people fail at corresponding with me here but nooooo we providers are frowned upon for letting people know that sometimes boys ruin the entire day for others, even called stupid etc..and when we call you out on it oh boy!  
Like i said a little patience would of saved you a lot of grief. Xo .

Unless he named names, which no one can claim WAS going to happen. You opened up a can of worms that could have been left behind the curtain.  In my mind it makes me wonder about your decision making.  
What good did it do to out yourself?  

Yes! How dare you!!  lol

I merely applauded Mindy's comment that family and safety were more important than money.
Something that I learned long ago .... not all money is good money.   I have no idea what  
transpired in the email exchange between you and her

Could care less if you're laughing, crying, venting, screaming.. You are a vicious lady who must have some deep seated issues.  As far as Pro.. I'm pro-common sense and justice. This is a clear cut he-said, she-said if ever there was one and I would never take a side.  Especially with heresay from both parties.

Good that makes two of us..  

Just as the OP did.. I made a general post... But, the all self important, eater of cake, decided to inject herself into it and decided it was solely about her.

and he said this: didn't you read it?

you nailed it  xoxo

Some "cats" (meaning dudes OR gals) just want to get the last word in and show their intelligence.or lack thereof lol. What a tiring post...I need a massage, some love, TLC...and I'm not getting it here.

in the original post. This could have - should have died quietly. Just sayin.

Sometimes a guy just needs to vent, and in doing so, not looking to cause any further damage.
So he choses to Not name, names. After all he still has a hard on to deal with, and did not want to totally burn the bridge. Well looks like 35W bridge just fell into the river again.

Thanks! Not trying to hurt the OP's feelings but panicking never has good results in my hobby experience.
 Which reminds me that recently I was temporarily unable to log into one of my Gmail accounts for two days .  
I finally get in and see a request for a P411 okay, thank goodness they know I have a crazy random schedule sometimes, wouldn't want someone sending me a bunch emails then posting here about how I won't answer them &  that somehow it instantly translates to me hating them sheesh!

Instead of moving on, you drew Mindy out to respond.  Now you may have a problem with more than just Mindy.

It's usually a good idea to wait until you are calmer before reacting to what happened.  As long as the communication is just between the two of you, it is a lot easier to deal with things but once it goes public, well we all see what happened.

I was in another city and I was going to see a provider one evening. We had traded emails a couple of days before and she was going to send me info on her location the day we met. I emailed a few times, called and couldn't get a response. I was getting frustrated and upset about a NCNS, but I tried to stay calm and just emailed her that I guessed that night wasn't going to work out and I hoped she was OK. The next day I emailed and just asked if she wanted to reschedule.