Had the chance myself, appt set up 2 days ahead of time (which is rare in my case) and on my way to the metro with my itinerary tight, but workable.  An hour ahead, I call just to make sure and gets location and she starts talking about not having a chance to check my refs and tells me I must now pay with a fucking green dot card.  Cash in my fucking hand and she wants me to go out of my way to find a walgreens so I can pay another 5% to convert cash to loadable credit card.  FUCK THAT!

I was able to reach her on her phone at least 3 times no problem prior to that but when that occurred, I washed my hands of this gal/agency.

She might be a great lay, but there's no piece of ass that is worth being dicked around for.

I see it all the time. Buddies with real handles, enemies under alias. One day it's " Hey, lets go grab a beer" The next day it's "Off with your head friggin alias"

No, you can't make this shit up, lol.

Saw Ella was coming to Bemidji on Backpage and thought what a great opertunity to see a lady with great reviews. HaHa  I have tried to contact this lady to set up an appointment for 3 days . Her phone mail box is full and has been for days  I tried texting  no response. I sent a PM . Finally got an answer by PM  at 2:00 am saying she only books appointments over the phone. What a waste of my time this was .Why would you advertise if your not available. Its a joke   I have no idea how she has 300 reviews with communication skills like this.  Save your time .

Makes you wonder how some providers  survive in the world. We as buyers of there services are led my a little head that has no common sense at all.

I have seen Ella close to ten times... she is definitely worth going out of your way to load the pre-paid card for. she is by far one of my ATF's.

if you think anyone is worth 3 days of bullshit to see, your badly mistaken   there are way to many providers out there that are every bit as good with-out having to kiss there ass to get an appointment

Im just posting my oppinion. Ella is a great lady and I would happily defend her any time. to bad your experience fell through.

I totally agree.  My time has value just as much as theirs does.  I provide an excellent service to my clients and if I acted like that, there's a line of people behind me that would be more than happy to help kick my ass to the curb and take my spot.  I'm mad all over again, lol!

Btw, Ella, if you read this, I didn't give your money to another provider, I went to Cabella's and bought a new Vexlar instead...it's portable, very dependable and provides me with as much pleasure as I require of it, just have to charge a battery occasionally.  Sound familiar??  (and I won't get funny looks from TSA agents if I chose to pack it in my suitcase)

white knights to the rescue.  i like the vexilar story  how true . funny you brought that up  i got a extra $250  think ill go get a aqua view camera. LOL

white knights to the rescue.  i like the vexilar story  how true . funny you brought that up  i got a extra $250  think ill go get a aqua view camera. LOL

My$0.02 is an alias and likes to attack others.....

It's not that uncommon to never post a review.  Plenty of lurkers who enjoy but don't post or contribute due to security concerns.

But for MY$.02 I agree.  It is terrible behavior to not answer the phone, or text, or email or anything and even worse to set an appointment then pull the rug out at the last minute for ANY reason.  Sorry for your experience!

XO
Wendy
P.S. for those of you who think everyone texts...some of us (like me) do not.  So just in case you ARE relying on that method to reach someone you should be aware of that!

I have Whitelisted gents who have not reviewed me. It may have been one of those situations where I decided I've had enough reviews for the time being & requested he not do so, or I find that most of my visitor don't do reviews. That is their choice. Getting Whitlisted does not require a review, & visa, versa. I have also offered to Whitelist & been turned down. Some gents like their privacy. I respect that. I don't think anyone should be required to contribute beyond their comfort zone to be a member of a board/forum that helps in assuring their safety.

I managed to hook up with her Up North. I booked the day before and reconfirmed with no trouble via texting.  I had tried calling but she never answered and her VM was full.  Despite that and even though I was on time and she answered when I called from the parking lot 5 minutes early she said she would call back in a few minutes with the room number.  Well, she was 30 minutes late calling me back with the room number and I had almost given up and left.  Claimed she fell asleep.  As for the reference checking and green dot crap, now she has Elf Waiver form that is taking the place of all pre-verification requirements.  You have to sign it, as does she, but at the end you are allowed to take it with you.  I didn't see any harm it it so I went along with it.  I didn't have to show an ID or anything so I used a phony name.  

I am not defending the bad behavior, but it was worth the trouble.

I've seen Ella 4 times, each as good as the last. Ella and I shared a very unforgetable 2011 Christmas Eve. Of the 4 sessions, she was late once and communicated as such. Her personality fits mine to the letter and we have a lot of fun. She's been good to me. I'm not white knighting, just sharing my experiences. I've communicated with several providers via text and had mixed success. If they don't answer the phone or reply to a text there may be a chance they are preoccupied. Many of us complain about phones buzzing, ringing, blinking, flashing, squaking, etc during sessions. I prefer the provider turn off their phone. If I book a two hour session the focus should be on our time, not someone trying to contact the provider. I'm not defending actions, only throwing out possible scenarios.

Think about it, an alias (UsingAliasesR4Cowards) is using his alias to attack another alias (My$0.02),  about attacking under an alias.  And doing so under an alias that self proclaims Using Aliases R 4 Cowards.

Is anyone else getting dizzy trying to make sense of this?

Really you really can't make this shit up!

Which, as Wendy and others have pointed out - is not uncommon at all.  Many experienced hobbiests on TER have NEVER written a review, and choose to pay for their membership.

They seem to concern the process of getting their foot in the door to obtain those services. & regarding text messages, some providers block text messaging to avoid the time wasters, & for other reasons. I know I do. You may want to check with the lady & find out what their preferred method of communication is. & BTW, sorry to those who have experienced difficulties in this case.

But this is about her scheduling abilities.  While I did not have those problems when I saw her, that you, I, and many other guys have enjoyed being with her doesn't mean she should be immune from criticism for other problems.

You get to see who the alias are and how the demeanor changes when they go under the cover of the alias'.  It would be fun and it has to help with all the BS you have to put up with.  Well that and the big 6 figure income you Mods pull in.

Thanks Apollo!

Well, I have posted a review of Franki, a former elf. In fact I have seen most of the elves that have been around for the last year and I have not written a review for any of them either. I liked Kaci and Rory a lot. I haven't posted a review, nor have I requested to be white listed by any provider I have seen. That includes Sweet Kristen, and Alissa who both of whom I had seen 10 to 15 times Elizabeth is another wonderful lady who I have seen 5 or 6 times yet never reviewed. besides Alissa, none of those girls ever knew who I was on TER. I am not deeply involved in TER but I do Lurk, so If i see something worth my .02 i give it my .02.... you got that .02.

If you post something in a public forum, some members of the public are going to express differing opinions. If you want to jump down my throat about it, that is your own shortcoming.

I post reviews when I want to post reviews. thats how it goes. deal with it.

Totally agree on the text messages, those seem to be hit or miss - but I have found that even providers that say "no texts" respond to them quite promptly.  Regarding her preferred method of communication, I think the OP covered that.  He said her Voicemail (telephone being her preferred method of communication) was full for days before he texted and PM'd her.  

First off   I have no issue with Ella's services at all I never got to experience them. I was only refering to her communication problems. As far as the texting thing goes .I was already approved to use text to contact her. I would only use texting if approved by the provider and i always ask if its ok to text. As far the b.s. about the use of alias's and all the other things that poped up on this thread,it was not my intention to raise these issues. I posted because of my communication problem with Ella and the time i wasted .Your results may vary, i just shared mine. Isnt that what this board is for? sharing experiences   good and bad.

Please don't take insult in my comment. It was NOT directed at you. You did all the right things. I was merely responding to another comment re: text messaging. Just a little FYI so to speak as the issue was raised. Again, I am sorry you had to go through this.