Little wary because a well known lady has a lot in common with someone I know. She'd remember my name and I didn't want that to get around.
I shouldn't sweat it. It might not even be the same person. OTOH, there aren't that many ladies in her age range who are THAT hot. and the way that she writes, dresses and talks about people, and things that she said about herself in different places made it seem just likely enough that I'm not sure. Would this be in-bounds: I don't need to know it if she is that person, and I'd rather find out that she isn't. She looks like fun. What about sending a brief email explaining that I had the concern, and asking if she would kindly answer a question that would probably rule it out, but still not be very identifying. I was thinkng of something like "Did you live in [a large TC suburb]?" If she said no, then I could even go ahead and schedule with her, and if she said yes, it would just mean that she *could* still be that person, but not do much to change the odds that she *is*. Would that be an OK way to rule it out and still protect her identity? PMs are OK.
Don't bring any of the "I think I might know you" crap up. Odds are it's not the same person. If it is so what? You can BOTH decide what you want to do from there. She's not going to say anything about you and you aren't going to say anything about her if she turns out to be someone you know, right? If you are more worried about what MIGHT happen, move on to someone else. There are plenty of great providers in the area.
and have all the risk for herself. If you are worried, ID yourself to her and then it's up to her to see you or not. If you don't want to do that, move on and don't concern yourself with her real identity.
Posted By: Whoistoknow
Little wary because a well known lady has a lot in common with someone I know. She'd remember my name and I didn't want that to get around.
I shouldn't sweat it. It might not even be the same person. OTOH, there aren't that many ladies in her age range who are THAT hot. and the way that she writes, dresses and talks about people, and things that she said about herself in different places made it seem just likely enough that I'm not sure.
Would this be in-bounds: I don't need to know it if she is that person, and I'd rather find out that she isn't. She looks like fun. What about sending a brief email explaining that I had the concern, and asking if she would kindly answer a question that would probably rule it out, but still not be very identifying. I was thinkng of something like "Did you live in [a large TC suburb]?" If she said no, then I could even go ahead and schedule with her, and if she said yes, it would just mean that she *could* still be that person, but not do much to change the odds that she *is*.
Would that be an OK way to rule it out and still protect her identity?
But I think it'd be awesome. I know a few ladies who I'd gladly pay to see discreetly from time to time, if only they did that. The best part is that you both know that the other will keep it completely private.
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