And I for one disagree with it. Why ,I'm here to find the best match for me.  And don't much care for deceptive  practices nor do I wish to have my time wasted either.  And chasing down empty rabbit holes does exactly that. Those who have been here and learned the hard way  can spot and navigate through alot of this. But  those who are new and starting out might not know the difference , and end up dropping cash with someone they had no intention of seeing or had seen before  and by choice would not repeat.  Clear example i contacted  one recently that has changed name  and phone# about three times in a  short period of time.  Got my answer the first time to decide that  it wasn't  a good match , so i had no reason  to consider the person again unless something changed  that made me reconsider.     My time is my time  yours is yours ,let the games begin  in fun time, not before.