did you see this "review" on CL?  It went like this:

"I am not into doing blow by blow. We did CBJ, Cowgirl, MISH, and Doggie. No kissing, DATY, and she did not have a Organism, so not a true GFE.

We talk for a few minutes after and she is a very nice girl personal, one that you hate to see doing this type of work, because it will eat her up sooner or later. Treat this girl good and maybe she will be a great girl, providing a great service for the future!"

Apparently in order to be a GFE you have to have ...... a what?

Of course, if at any time she does have an "organism" it may well eat her up.

-- Modified on 7/21/2006 9:43:45 PM

That may clear some things up for you.  

GFE = Gory Freaky Extraterrestrial

CL is for entertainment purposes only.  Ben Dover posted something there about being full of shit unless you have the balls (or ovaries?) to come here to TER.  I agree.

well... his issue for inability to properly woo the lass.... he probably thought GFE meant Go Fuck Everything, without regard to the lady herself.
Thank God he does not post on TER, but then if he did, I am sure he would be pounced upon by hundreds of organisms.

OK, well I will probably get flamed by sharing this opinion, so what the heck.
I consider it a great honor, to meet a provider who is open to expressing her sexuality, and as
well, who is open to enjoying the experience.
I really get turned off, by providers who fake it
or who look at our time together as just a job.
GFE, to me means not only performance, but
attitude, and personality.
Not every provider is going to click with me,
but the fact is, the more open that she is, then
the more likely, that the experience will be a
rock my world experience for the both of us!
I am old enough, and experienced enough to know when a provider is having an earth moving time
with me, and I really enjoy giving to her as well
as receiving. The more hot and steamy the date,
the more turned on she gets, then the more turned
on I get! LOL

The only exception might be the lady who is so fucking good that even if she did fake it you wouldn't have known.  Damned impossible to fake a DATY-O however.  

There is one visiting lady many of us have come to know and for whom we eagerly await her next visit - Saxon.  As many have attested in reviews she does not orgasm easily, if at all, yet she is in my book the essence of GFE.

why do you think you would be flamed for giving that opinion?

Well Suzy, there are those who take GFE and
interpet it to their own service, and still yet
I have read reviews, that really should be lower,
but the reviewer posts that it was GFE,
The term GFE is loosely applied across the hobby.
So I figured that by my idea of GFE, that someone
would probably get their shorts in a bundle and
disagree with me.

I guess I can see that happening, not that I agree with it.  After all, our opinions are just that, ours.  But then, it helps that I happen to completely agree with yours, LOL

Let them flame you... what the hell for?  Too many clients just think about themselves and not the twosome involved... yeah, I get selfish now and then, but there is nothing like a lady having a great time with you... check out this link below:

Personally, the physical part of the experience is really the smallest of the package, even though that is what sells it.  If you can't enjoy the person on other levels - as provider or as hobbyist - then what's the point in any of it?  We're looking for companionship after all, not automatons.