What do you all think about it I had to pay my regular provider to take her n buy her phone n tablet which had stolen by client that she says treated her better than I ever have sucks to be nice or
Yeah, I heard she got new phone. My friend told me the same thing before, but they robbed her of her XBOX. He didn't fall for it, because he can see that she just covered up the XBOX in the living room...lol
Do as you wish with your own $$, none of my business, you sir pay too much for pussy. I'm willing to bet they are probably lining up at the pawn shop today, pawning off your phone and tablet.
Posted By: Downanddirty
What do you all think about it I had to pay my regular provider to take her n buy her phone n tablet which had stolen by client that she says treated her better than I ever have sucks to be nice or
You asked, "What do you all think...." You did an idiotic thing thinking with your wrong head. (I did not call you an idiot.) What were you thinking? That she was going to forego all others and only see you? How much do you pay for a session with her vs. how much did you spend on the phone and tablet? You sure pay a lot for pussy (or whatever you get). You didn't "have to" buy her shit. Why do you feel an obligation to pay for anything other than services rendered? Do you think for a minute she'd do anything for you? Did she ever give you 50% off just because you're a good client? The minute she said the dirt bag who stole her shit treated her better than you ever did is the minute you should have said goodbye and left. She couldn't have hurled a much bigger insult at you. Obviously, not only does she not appreciate your loyalty and repeat business, but she just admitted she thinks more of the scumbag who ripped her off than she thinks of you. Ouch!!
I think you might have had other aspirations with this provider. I think you were hoping for a relationship and she was seeing dollar signs. One of the hardest concepts to understand in the hobby is that it is a business. Plain and simple. Nothing more. Nothing less. Providers are here to make money by selling services and clients are here to pay for those services. Some providers actually enjoy providing the service but many do it as many of us do our "real" jobs- because we have bills to pay and have no other skills and/or aren't multi-millionaires. Expensive lesson on the wallet and perhaps your brain and ego. But understand the roles providers and clients play.
Sorry that happened to you. Learn from this and don't be so nice (read "don't be such a pushover"). I'm a pretty nice guy and I could get into similar situations, but I know when to put a stop to it.
There's a word you should learn. That word is "NO."
Is he kind of in love with this particular provider? Yeah, perhaps. Taken advantage of? Most definitely. Assuming he's talking about 1 of his 3 reviews, he's obviously seen this girl a lot. So what! What else do we know? Only 3 reviews so maybe, just maybe he's new to TER, right? We've all been newbies. And not everyone knows about the "Newbie discussion board". Maybe someone better than I could point him out to that...
I am not piling on, but some things are better left unsaid. Kindness is best when the act is best kept private. This is a recurring theme, trying to elicit pity for a conscious or act of kindness defeats the purpose.
you can only learn from your past, and try and make better choices for the future. As for paying for that stuff, if it makes you fell better that's your call, not mine. Always try and use the big head, and yes you need to follow your gut too.
Reason: Your post is considered inappropriate due to being negative, trouble making, rude, and/or slanderous. Never happens to Dayglo Nago or plenty of others. Again, just saying. I don't care nor expect anything to change. Just bring it out into the open for "discussion"
Karma is a bitch. Learned this. that when give them something that can be returned to a certain red bullseye store without a receipt the next day for a gift card, it's a money making deal for them. It was a priceless moment and a lesson learned for me.
True. Still, might make me think twice about seeing that particular provider.
There is something to be said for the more mature, established providers. I seem to hear about this kind of behavior more with younger ladies - is that just my perception?
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