I know four providers in the last year who have had this issue.  These guys are regular clients and by the time they get obsessed, lose their perspective and think these women owe them a relationship. They have a lot of power.
They submit false derogatory reviews and otherwise attack their reputations.
They can stalk in the woman's non-hobby life.  The hobby makes it far easier for a man to learn a woman's identity than the other way around.
They create fear.
The providers have ways to deter a client from seeing a new provider but no way to deter this kind of abuse.  None of us in the community do.

Another form of shilling, indirectly. What's the point of this post as nothing is going to change from thos hobbyists. It probably makes it worse if they read this post. Move on with it and stop with the white knighting in a round about way. Do you think the providers will read this and say, wow TCHobbyist and ILikeWomen really went to bat for me and I owe them. And how does someone find out this information about hobbyists who are blacklisted from their favorites? You ask questions to make it sound like you'll defend them or do the providers talk about this? I don't think a provider should mention anything about any other client, even if identities weren't given out.

MOVE ON

Pot, meet kettle.

The fratboys, bubbas, boors, and asshats whose idea of a discussion board is a place for running down women (calling them 'rent a c----', cutting off women who call them out with troll handles like STFU, singling out provider for prolonged bullying on this board, acting as if the providers but not the clients are [sneer] prostitutes, etc ) are disappointed when the women will not post or appear on the discussion boards.  Think gamewatching: game hides if you do not move gently through the forest.  

The problem is not solvable.

But, for the educable out there, reminders about what stalking, netitquette are is the best we can do.  
The providers treat me pretty well, better than if I was a jerk. As we all know, some of the boors cannot even book with some women and from time to time they cluelessly whine about it.  

I stay. I like the providers and the hobby. My hat is off to them.

I've been here since '07 and I don't recall a golden age.

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Unfortunately the jack-ass pulled his reply to you.  "We at TER are superior" This board has ALWAYS been run by arrogant fucktards. Superior? Lets analyze that a bit.  

Week after week there are ISOs for rip offs that you TER members (the smarter & superior) post here.

There are six ladies listed in your top 100 that are guilty of bartering for reviews & high scores, authoring their own reviews, BSC behavior including blackmail & NONE of you "superior hobbyists" are the wiser to it.  

Two weeks in a row a gal has been shilled, has good reviews, yet there have been complaints of her shorting time.

You have active hobbyists who have shorted, outed & abused ladies yet because they have multiple reviews under their belt the all knowing TER members fall on their every word & consider them reputable & trustworthy. But you here on TER being the wiser & "superior" know it all better than anyone elsewhere?! I beg to differ!

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It's not like this is the sort of thing you can grip about in the break room at wok or around the dinner table.  Sometimes you just want to get something off your chest.

I understand you've been told that, but it is not true and can provide you with the text messages that prove it

I don't & WON'T pay for VIP nor allow reviews to get VIP so STOP with the PMs. If you have something to say in reply to me say it publicly or not at all.

I promised your sweetheart that I would not.  If she okays it, I will.

UTR,

Interesting that you won't say it publicly( the names you are accusing of not playing fair) yet you want us to "say it publicly"
Hard to rebut when you can hide but we can't.......
FYI, I am not a VIP either, so feel free to blast away

Let's see, you claim to be a UTR provider yet you seemingly know everything that goes on behind the scenes with other providers and hobbyists. You always seem to get yourself in the center of all the local drama yourself.

Doesn't your behavior run counter to the premise of what a UTR provider should be? One that is so busy with her life that she doesn't have time for local drama or to get involved with it and has such a steady base of clients, she wouldn't care about the business of other providers.

Now you come on the board and accuse one provider of getting shilled for two weeks straight and shorting her clients time. You also claim six of the top 10 providers barter for reviews and high scores; engage in BSC behavior, write their own reviews and blackmail clients.

It seems to me that you are a jealous provider just outside the Top 10, will call it the Top 15 and envious of those ahead of you. You are trying to cause shit for them, damage their reputations and hurt their business, perhaps even hurt their rankings and have them drop out of the Top 10 or even get banned so you can be a direct beneficiary from their problems both monetarily and otherwise.

I say go look at yourself in the mirror, you will see the problem and the person(s) you have been blabbering about with your posts in this thread.

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