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LRob65 11 Reviews 501 reads
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...we all know more than we did prior to every experience.  I've never not learned something from a great session.  Every top provider that I've seen has taught me something, and I am grateful for those times.  I guess I never really thought about it, but after not seeing my ATF for quite some time now, that was probably the reason I was so excited for each meeting.  There is always something new (and it isn't though I've not been around the block...).

PersonX1447 reads

Does any one  offer how to please a GF/women session?  I'm sick of fumbling and stumbling round.  PM welcome.

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cheyen856 reads

I think you are over thinking this.  to the lady this is ultimately a business transaction.  I'm not sure what exactly you mean by "please"  taken at face value my answer is:
1. be kind and respectful when setting up the appointment.
2.  never insult her by asking for a discount.
3.  when you first see her remind her that she is beautiful.  (a woman who will allow, is beautiful)
4.  set your donation in plain sight with out comment.  
5. ask about rules and do not violate them ever.
5. let her know what things you enjoy and follow her lead.
6.  being a respectful clean and kind customer is all she will ask of you.
7.  thank her for her kindness as you leave.

the women in this business have sex often enough that they do not need to reach a splashing orgasm with each man they see.  if you are clean, kind and respectful you will have "please her"  I am sure that the ladies do not rate us a studs.  a nice guy who is fin to be with is more important.  I hope some of the ladies will add their thoughts to this.

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PersonX746 reads

It's about learning skills in this life that can be used in civie life.  Some of us aren't gods gift in the bedroom and want to improve.  Don't take that last sentence as being an asshole or dirrected at you.  Just a figure of speech that's it.

Posted By: cheyen
I think you are over thinking this.  to the lady this is ultimately a business transaction.  I'm not sure what exactly you mean by "please"  taken at face value my answer is:  
 1. be kind and respectful when setting up the appointment.  
 2.  never insult her by asking for a discount.  
 3.  when you first see her remind her that she is beautiful.  (a woman who will allow, is beautiful)  
 4.  set your donation in plain sight with out comment.  
 5. ask about rules and do not violate them ever.  
 5. let her know what things you enjoy and follow her lead.  
 6.  being a respectful clean and kind customer is all she will ask of you.  
 7.  thank her for her kindness as you leave.  
   
 the women in this business have sex often enough that they do not need to reach a splashing orgasm with each man they see.  if you are clean, kind and respectful you will have "please her"  I am sure that the ladies do not rate us a studs.  a nice guy who is fin to be with is more important.  I hope some of the ladies will add their thoughts to this.  
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cheyen649 reads

what people call the 'hobby' is the perfect place to explore and learn.  That is true BECAUSE the ladies in the business do not need or demand a performance.  You can relax, put your guard down and just enjoy.  Your question was not rhetorical and my and answer was not rote.  My message is the answer, you do not need to be god's gift in the act.  Just be kind and enjoy the time with a wonderful lady.  I am going to drop out of this conversation and hope that the ladies will help explain that you are focused on the wrong goal.  I have read other post from you and my since is you are a nice guy, I will let the ladies explain it better but I assure you just being respectful and kind makes you a favorite client.  You are doing fine, just relax.  I'm out

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Joie de Vivre630 reads

If his OP was about how to please a provider, I would say that your answers have a lot of truth to them. But it wasn't, he was asking whether any local providers offer sexual education sessions.

To answer: I do! I love those kinds of sessions. I find them intellectually as well as physically stimulating, and genuinely enjoy them on several different levels.

Posted By: cheyen
what people call the 'hobby' is the perfect place to explore and learn.  That is true BECAUSE the ladies in the business do not need or demand a performance.  You can relax, put your guard down and just enjoy.  Your question was not rhetorical and my and answer was not rote.  My message is the answer, you do not need to be god's gift in the act.  Just be kind and enjoy the time with a wonderful lady.  I am going to drop out of this conversation and hope that the ladies will help explain that you are focused on the wrong goal.  I have read other post from you and my since is you are a nice guy, I will let the ladies explain it better but I assure you just being respectful and kind makes you a favorite client.  You are doing fine, just relax.  I'm out
Related Link: http://joiessance.net

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PersonX479 reads

xxxjoie your right on target.

Posted By: xxxjoie
If his OP was about how to please a provider, I would say that your answers have a lot of truth to them. But it wasn't, he was asking whether any local providers offer sexual education sessions.  
   
 To answer: I do! I love those kinds of sessions. I find them intellectually as well as physically stimulating, and genuinely enjoy them on several different levels.  
   
Posted By: cheyen
what people call the 'hobby' is the perfect place to explore and learn.  That is true BECAUSE the ladies in the business do not need or demand a performance.  You can relax, put your guard down and just enjoy.  Your question was not rhetorical and my and answer was not rote.  My message is the answer, you do not need to be god's gift in the act.  Just be kind and enjoy the time with a wonderful lady.  I am going to drop out of this conversation and hope that the ladies will help explain that you are focused on the wrong goal.  I have read other post from you and my since is you are a nice guy, I will let the ladies explain it better but I assure you just being respectful and kind makes you a favorite client.  You are doing fine, just relax.  I'm out

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cheyen593 reads

that is a very good point and I understood from the original post that a teaching session was what he is looking for.  in the first response to my message he said "some of us are not gods' gift in the bedroom"  

My response was not just to him but many men who feel the same apprehension.  What I endeavored to say is when you are with someone like you or Jackie blue who also responded, you do not need to prove anything.  The thing that I love about you and your peers is that you do not demand much.  we do not need to be a porn star to be welcome.  The ladies I know ask that you be kind and respectful.  Muscular and hung are not a high priority.  I believe that if you did see this man he would have a wonderful time and he should not be shy about asking you to help brush up his skills.  You would not be critical of anything that happened with a nice guy God's gift or not.  That is what makes you ladies so special, you bring happiness to a world that can judge people harshly.

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minn4evr513 reads

... there is still absolutely nothing wrong, and a great deal that is right, in wanting to learn how to give pleasure to the lady you are with. Simply trying forces a guy to pay more attention to her, and to the signals she is sending out, consciously and unconsciously, which makes the whole experience more intimate. Women are mysterious; they don't come with a user's manual; there is no trick or technique that will work the same on every woman. So having a few different ideas in hand that you can try as you watch and listen to her reaction, lets a guy start with a bit more confidence.  

It is certainly true that good providers will not mock, or judge, or express disdain just because a guy doesn't reduce them to warm putty. (Though he also mentioned girlfriends, who ain't gettin' paid and may feel more strongly about reciprocal pleasure.) But it's also true that there is great pleasure for the guy to be had from giving her a real good moment, whether signified by screaming and writhing, giggling, crying, or simply a happy sigh as she relaxes into the pillow.  

I would encourage every guy to first google "cunnilingus how-to" and "g spot", spend the time to review the results, then talk to every provider visited about what worked and what didn't and why. It won't make you god's gift in the bedroom, but it sure made me a happier hobbyist.

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brilove657 reads

Teaching sessions !!!

I would think that the majority off the top providers would be able to help you out with this. I, for one, truly enjoy these type the sessions as I am very vocal and to the point not shy at all about explaining in detail and I'm very understanding.  

I hope you find someone and remember all women are different but most of the basics are the same.

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TrinityLake431 reads

Absolutely!  The top providers around here are all great!  Just read reviews and find someone you feel that you'd be comfortable talking to about your concerns.

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belindabell485 reads

and you do the same.  Tell her what you like. Show her what you like.  Teach her what you like.
Our bodies and our responses are all different so communication is key.

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LRob65502 reads

...we all know more than we did prior to every experience.  I've never not learned something from a great session.  Every top provider that I've seen has taught me something, and I am grateful for those times.  I guess I never really thought about it, but after not seeing my ATF for quite some time now, that was probably the reason I was so excited for each meeting.  There is always something new (and it isn't though I've not been around the block...).

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KiaLove483 reads

...Help you out and give you pointers you can use during a session. The beauty of the "hobby", as was already pointed out in this thread, is that there is no judgement and no expectations of pleasure or performance....so you can feel 100% comfortable asking questions and advice from a provider.

That being said, it should be pointed out that every woman likes different techniques in bed and advice given to you from one woman on what feels good may not be as effective with a different woman. In my opinion you should never be ashamed to just ask. I think any woman would appreciate you asking because you want to please her rather than feeling like you are fumbling around unsure :)
 

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Does any one  offer how to please a GF/women session?  I'm sick of fumbling and stumbling round.  PM welcome.
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MsDynamite460 reads

Couldn't agree more

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