Was it Minnie? She did that same thing to me. Tried two more times. Burned three times. Major bummer as the incall address she provided me is pretty much across the street from me.
Just out of curiosity and provider's feel free to weigh in with your thoughts. I scheduled with a provider for an appointment the same day. A good 4+ hours from when the time was set for. She provided her address and was told to text when parked. Upon arriving at said spot I texted her confirming I was in the proper place to park via her instructions. Mind you it was a 30 minute drive to reach her with traffic for a 4pm appointment. I arrived 5 minutes early and texted her, 10 minutes later she responds saying she forgot about our appointment and didn't put it into her google calendar and was no longer there. Now as a customer I would have been potentially blacklisted for no show appointment. My question is how many times has this happened to other's. I was quite frustrated as it was a long weekend and was looking forward to a massage and fun. Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and reachule? Treat it as we as customers would potentially be treated for missing an appointment?
We’re all human and we all make mistakes. Definitely give it another go.
How do you forget a same day appointment. If the appointment was scheduled a few days earlier and she forgot maybe but it's a same day appointment and then she totally forgets about it.
If she was super contrite and offer you a discount for the next time, since you spent your time traveling there, then I would give her a second chance.. But if she just says oh I'm sorry and doesn't offer to make any amends, i would push on and find someone different. Just my 2 cents
With me also, it depends on how the provider handles it as to whether I’ll give her a second chance. Super contrite at the least; offer of a discount is nice, even though I usually decline.
But if this happened twice, that is, totally forgetting about an appointment even though I always confirm the day before (or whatever confirmation the provider requests), I’d put her on my mental DNS list and move on. If it were for a different (plausible) reason and there’s contrition and maybe an offer of “making it up” in some way, I may give her another chance—especially if it’s someone I’ve seen frequently and has been generally reliable.
It has for sure happened, both same day and in advance when a provider doesn't show. I have also been screwed by deposits with a no show. So as in most things in life. Both providers and us as consumers will sometimes F-up, be it by accident or on purpose. I try to avoid using words like, never and always, but try to be smarter and use common sense in this game of in impossible to be perfect or follow the unwritten rules. Hope this make some sense.
Or was it just that she forgot and wasn't there.
If an HONEST excuse and is really sorry should have in her reply offered to reschedule at a discount rate or extra time.
Then it is your choice if you want to take her up on that offer.
About 4-5 months ago I had a date planned with a girl I had seen before but it was a few years. I messaged her about 30-45 minutes before the date (like I always do) to confirm the date and get address. She messaged me back that she forgot about it and wasn't feeling well. I knew she was a half hour away and thats why I always confirm with the girl before I leave.
Yah it sucked I didn't get to see her but I never left my place either. She did offer me a free half hour next time I saw her though which was a plus.
Mid summer I made an appt with a lady like 25 minutes from me. We messaged until like 10 minutes from the date than total crickets. Was strange but whatever. She was only 100 for half hour so no harm no foul. I saw her about a month later and she apologized but wasn't as fun as the first 2 times I saw her so most likely won't be going back.
move on, there are a zillion providers out there and if things dont go as requested. it usually means problems.
It’s happened to me a few times and now I delete and move on. Too many other great reliable options in the market. Respect goes both ways. If she has good reviews by clients that have a history of leaving reviews for multiple providers then maybe give another chance. If it happens again bye bye.
Was it Minnie? She did that same thing to me. Tried two more times. Burned three times. Major bummer as the incall address she provided me is pretty much across the street from me.
I might try again if she seemed really sorry for the mixup. Still forgetting an appointment four hours in the future is pretty bad. Maybe she's on drugs.
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This happens from time to time and I tend to provide a little bit of grace to the provider. Stuff happens to all of us. I feel like in life that treating people how you would want to be treated usually ends up being a good play in the long run.
When this has happened in the past, I do typically tend to rebook rather soon and I might nicely remind them that they cancelled before, “I’m sorry it didn’t work out when I booked last week, but I’d like to give it another shot. Do you have time available on whatever day?”
Most of the time, providers appreciate you being a normal person and many times they will reduce the rate or extend the time or provide a different level of service. In some ways it is no different than a restaurant messing up providing a free dessert or comping a round of drinks.
Now if the second visit is a mess or gets cancelled or whatever, then I won’t be back.
Yes. We are human and we do make mistakes. I apologize profusely and it ate at me for days since client experience is a big thing for me as far as how I rate myself. I don't know but I have a lot of men that are late or jerk my chain for a while and I try to give the benefit of the doubt. There is no way to know if it was an intention disregard or a legit oversight so you need to decide if you can still get hard with her after you felt disrespected.
I had it on my calendar and everything. Luckily I was prepared and available so I was able to still see the client at the right time but I still felt so stupid.
I have also forgotten that a date was supposed to be 90min and ushered a client out after 60min only to realize later what I did. The client was such a dear, said he figured that I had something else come up. I offered to give him a freebie next time but he said it was not a problem.
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I wouldn’t be surprised if you had actually been talking to a scheduler and that’s who forgot to add the appointment to the providers calendar.. makes more sense than the provider forgetting a same-day appointment.
I always communicate ahead of time or offer a good discount to reschedule if it can't be done same day
I feel providers should offer what they expect if it were the other way around.
A client ncns , provider expects a fee to be paid before blacklist, well they should offer that same amount in discount
Both people wasted their time
If I'm running late I always offer extra time or a monetary discount. I don't appreciate it when someone holds me up but don't mind so much when they compensate. So I try to over compensate for good measure.
Did she apologize? Offer to make it up to you? Give you a discount on the next session? If she just blew it off like no big deal there is no way I would see her again.
Just happened to me. I had seen this young lady 3 times in the past 2 months, no issues ever, we both enjoyed our session’s. I always scheduled a week or 2 in advance. At the end of our 3rd date as I was leaving a asked if we could book our next date, she said sure and got her phone and typed in the date so I know she didn’t forget to put it in her calendar. The day of our 4th date she text at 10am saying she knew we booked a day but couldn’t remember when. I text her right back to confirm our appointment at 2pm and I had taken vacation time from work to come and see her…………… cricket’s.
At 12:30 she text me saying she was busy with a family thing,
said she forgot to put our date in her calendar, even though I watched her put it in. She said “Sorry hun, lmk if another day works.”
I didn’t reply. I just move on, There are too many beautiful, reliable ladies out there, like
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