Been seeing my ATF for few months now after we agreed on prepaid arrangement.  Lately there's been more feelings  then what's between my  legs.  When we do it now, its  more like bf/gf.  I would really like to hear from someone either provider or John if they've fallen and if it worked out or not

Joe, is that where you met Mrs. Friday?  

... still seeing other Johns for pay?

I didn't want to ask, but between me and college, I'm pretty sure she doesn't have any other times.  But you never know.

Dear Talon,  
It is complicated.

can but you keep telling us its all about the money

But if you are a betting man, and Talon I believe you are, the odds are she will never feel the same way.  Your relations with your ATF have and will be fun for a length of time and it will (again odds speaking here) eventually end.  Enjoy while you can and don't take it personally if/when it's all over one day.

I'm not trying to take Trinity's coaching away from her but if you don't honestly talk about the situation you will not last.  She will turn a trick in a heartbeat and it you can't deal with that walk away.

Is there a difference between a john and a "skanky" john?  Or between a provider and a...you fill in the blank Pimp.  Value judgements make me laugh on this discussion board.  Holier than thou = MN nice.  

Of course take precautions so you don't get your heart shattered.  Hope it works out for you

If you love, it doesn't matter. Porn stars have husbands. Some providers have SO's. Why not? If you view love as exclusive possession and control of her vagina, then you might have some issues.

Personally, I believe it is possible but rare.  But why you would take such a possibility seriously given your oft-stated rejection of any possibility of an escort viewing her clients as other than sources of money?

yes you can ,,   my  "daughter mother"   was the top girl  at an old school massage parlor  back in the day    its a mental thing ,   if your the 1 woman kind of man NO.  to her its a  job,      

I met two ladies who were "swept" off of their feet and gotten hitched, moved away, reviews, and sites were taken down.  Nope, they have NOT been back here, so I can only guess they are living happily ever after.  
(yes they met their husbands while on the job.

but not very often, I guess, and it has nothing to do with knowing she's a ho and you're an assho.
Prerequisites are two very secure egos and absolute loyalty, which doesn't necessarily have to do with monogamy.  Just being in love is not enough.

before it is considered successful?  

my  x  would tell me there are a 132 holes in the ceiling tile