Posted By: Jordan_Carter
I attempt to protect myself from hackers by not communicating from my public email account at all. I've gotten pretty firm on this and luckily most guys understand without me needing to explain that. Some guys think its me being difficult, but I really just don't want a public email with TER reviews attached to it having anything to do with my (or my companion's) "cyber dust" if I can avoid it. Its more or less a low hanging fruit thing, as I'm not concerned otherwise. Most guys understand and appreciate it.
Once I get an rsvp form (which is encrypted and requires a key that only I have to decrypt) I respond from my paid encrypted email account. The email provider is privacy conscious and deletes emails from their server as soon as I hit delete. Verses gmail that will hold the email for 6 months after its deleted. So not only does it make the email that a hacker is interested in hard(er) to find, but it also increases security. A wife has contacted me before. So at least with my private email....if it happens again she won't see that its 100% surely an escort when she searches for it online.
Nowadays, IP address is a joke. They are collecting device IDs and other unique identifiers that most aren't aware of...since everyone knows about VPNs now. I know this because I can change my IP 1,000,000 times and clean every cookie on my personal computer yet still log into my bank accounts with no issue. When I do it from another device I never used before, it asks me to verify that it is me. There are privacy bloggers that share this as well. I subscribe to them to keep learning more.
I really love that you guys are talking about this topic. Public awareness needs are at an all time high. Not just for our industry, but in general. It seems scary, but a little education and effort goes a long way. Its not as hard as it seems. Ladies, in my opinion, probably have more to do to protect all parties involved than men (because we are public, technically, and at higher risk), but men have to as well.
to find the best email provider, go with someone that is very privacy conscious. Read their terms and agreement and after researching 2 or 3 you quickly see who is truly about privacy and who are not. I personally like to search for Swiss Email service providers. I pay for them, just like I pay for my encrypted form that requires a key. Small price to pay for a little more sanity for me.
In the digital age, storage cost are 1/100 what they were 10 years ago, if the terms said, 6 months before they delete your e-mail some form of trust must be mutually agreed upon beyond a check box stating you understood the End User Licensing Agreement, (EULA). All it takes is one employee to muck everything up by downloading an email / opening a webpage / or sticking an USB Drive from home.
(IF anybody works for a financial institution here, DO NOT send emails from work. Those are stored for 7 years, even if you delete them from your sent box, a copy of it is automatically backed up offsite.)
My point in this reply is that you have to trust an email provider to some extent your messages will be kept confidentially and available to be viewed by you and the recipient, to some extent we all sacrifice a bit of liberty when we click, "I Agree".