With money getting tight I have been looking a lot closer at the providers I see. One consistent line runs through a certain kind of provider," A few extra pounds". This has turned from Rubinisk to " Mama Cass". What do you do when you encounter a plot to deceive?

this is where a photo really helps.  if the picture looks recent, I can sometimes determine the body type. I don't mind lots of extra pounds if there is still a waist line or the pounds are in the right places.

in the past, when I dated through the personals, "a few extra pounds" generally did not mean rubenesque.  it meant sloppy and sometimes highly overweight.  for the most part, i now interpret it to mean: I am not within the weight norms of american television and/or health charts. If I can't see a full-body picture, I generally assume the worst. no pic no play.

RUN!

I have seen several local and other ladies and noticed some of the same things as you.  I can say that I was surprised the other way as well.  Tuzdae looks even better than her pics .  So sometimes it goes the other way.  I love it when I have high expectations that are exceeded.