Minnesota

Tipping protocol my pov
gentleben28 105 Reviews 2753 reads
posted
1 / 14

Money (especially cash) is hard to come by. As someone who has to save up, but also recognizes that providing is not always an easy way to make a living, I am wondering: would you rather see someone more frequently, but with a smaller (or no) tip, or is it better to visit less frequently and tip more generously?

vorlon 119 Reviews 23 reads
posted
2 / 14

People whose wages are quite low.  When I see a provider, I'll happily pay her rate but I don't see why a tip should be part of it.

IMhornbody2 45 Reviews 36 reads
posted
3 / 14

15 years ago when the session rates were not as they are today, and FS/GFE could be negotiated at $$,  and at that time I was more willing to tip based on service and nothing else. If the provider feels so entitled to expect a tip on todays already inflated rates (not all of you) then the gent can usually feel that in the service. I try to provide MY part in the session to be asked back and I always bring treats, body lotions and warm hands and spend as much time (if the lady allows) pampering her as they do me. Plus being old it takes some time to get reved up so a 30 minute session does not usually work TMI................and paying full price for an hour where you wanted to bolt after 36 minutes is always hard to stomach in your hobbying budget.
A genuine connection is shared and I feel that the fact that the guy is paying with the hopes that the lady also enjoys, then a tip might be nice but personally, I usually do not offer and hope that it does not turn the lady off in respect to being asked to return.....and for me multiple visits is always in the cards as I look for that special connection.
 I feel the rates should be posted and obvious, (or discussed up front),  as we enter into the session rather than being surprised by the menu of upgrades which is hopefully and equally to the pleasure of the lady as we work towards FS of the VIP page on that menu. Tipping might feel good but at rates of $400 to now even $600, it seems unfair for the guy to be expected to once again fork out a tip. The lady that might share beyond the purchased session as they enjoy each other might be the exception to that rule, but again it is the tipping based on service. With inflated food prices I have no problem tipping a gracious over the top even flirtatious waitress but then again in rates (wages) we are not comparing apple to apples but service still applies.
 Lastly I realize that the ladies in a group are at the mercy of the house fees but that is not the guys fault and as long as the rates expected are discussed up front and even before we are standing in front of them thinking only with our little head.  
  I guess as you saw my name on the post,  you knew "my two cents" would probably ramble on but i had time so thanks for reading.

AStone77 See my TER Reviews 44 reads
posted
4 / 14

In my professional opinion, since I offer FBSM & GFE, I only Receive gratuity when doing FBSM.. due the nature as me being the performer that is doing the “labor”- I give a lot energy to my sessions  (as you know , since you’ve seen me.) Therefore, never expected, but always appreciated. GFE, I never expect it, but some clients just round up (if it’s 750, give 800 etc.) or if you did a same day or rush appt, they give a little extra for the efforts. Case by case.  

I’ll just say it’s always appreciated when receiving tips. As you know some of us have extra costs: an assistant, drive time to studio, supplies (oil, lubricants, lingerie, condoms etc etc.)  

Hope this helps:)  

If someone goes above and beyond, a little extra sugar goes along way, furthermore makes the provider feel very appreciated for the TLC,  they give to the client in return:)  

Xo  
Andrea

karllokia 9 Reviews 24 reads
posted
5 / 14

It's already too high as is... why would you need to tip?? Please don't,  you're making it harder for everyone. If she invites you back, she's happy with the standard rates without the tips. That's just common sense

paigesavage See my TER Reviews 37 reads
posted
6 / 14

Personally, I think that a balance of both works well. For example, the majority of my clientele in Minnesota that I see regularly do not tip - and there's no hard feelings about it from me - my rate is higher.  However, around special occasions like my birthday, Christmas and sometimes Valentine's Day they tip quite nicely OR book longer dates. Whereas, my clientele that I see when I tour will often tip well because they see me 1 to 4x/year depending on how often I tour their city.  

It’s all about what works for both parties, and I’d say it's a good idea to communicate openly about what you can offer while still feeling good about the time spent together. No matter what, I always appreciate someone who respects my rate and the sincerity of a connection, and that, in itself, goes a long way.

love_lucy 55 reads
posted
7 / 14

I’d rather see a client more often for my stated rates than less often because he feels obligated to tip.

LenaDuvall See my TER Reviews 36 reads
posted
8 / 14

..it's not something I expect. Furthermore, I have never judged any client who did not tip me. Someone following my protocols, honoring my communication boundaries before an encounter, and being mindful and respecting me during a date are what I care most about.

GingerTaylor1234 See my TER Reviews 41 reads
posted
9 / 14

but I'd rather see you more often. Speaking as a lady who has MANY girlfriends who do this, tipping is VERY RARE. For example, Valentine's week I received 2 small tips (like $20). What is more common are small gifts like a scented candle or a Starbuck's gift card. But again, never expected.

MUAH, GT

LadyAnna See my TER Reviews 39 reads
posted
10 / 14

I love my regulars and they love me. It's a rare one that tips and I don't mind, I just know that I'll see them again soon and we will enjoy each other!

Sweetstrokes See my TER Reviews 45 reads
posted
11 / 14

Tips are always appreciated, but I would definitely rather see you more often.

Mysweetbetty See my TER Reviews 24 reads
posted
12 / 14

Like the other ladies have posted.  I, too,  would rather see you more frequently than get a tip. In fact,  I give my regular regulars a 10% discount on their base session rate, I don't discount any upgrades though.  

Betty♡♡
612-477-3351  
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QueenBia See my TER Reviews 14 reads
posted
13 / 14

If your lifestyle can accommodate seeing someone more frequently.  Some people have very busy lives. Tbh I don’t get tipped often, but when I do it’s mind blowing. 🤯 I tip 20% in my everyday life. Last year, I received a $1k tip from my dinner date it was totally unexpected & very much appreciated. It’s nice to be nice. A small token of appreciation can go a long way.

MsDynamite See my TER Reviews 15 reads
posted
14 / 14

Id rather have a regular client, establish a good friendship of sorts  
Those are the best things IMO

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