I feel the need to say a thing or two or perhaps five, first i really appreciate the amazing gentlemen whom have "accepted" that i have decided not to upgrade my menu, you gentlemen seriously are why i love what i do and i do love it . But for the nasty inconsiderate PMs and emails, who the hell do you think you are to have the audacity to get angered over me not offering certain services? To TRY to belittle me? Good luck with that i stand my ground and stand up for myself. You are the ones who are underneath my feet you are (this - little)  
 
I have received 9 rude disgusting emails from some of you, that's pretty sad, i pick and choose what i do with my body. Not you! I pick how i run my business not you! Maybe its because I'm new some of you feel the need to say just anything as if I'm stupid. I'm going to let you know one thing, i may be sweet but i REFUSE to put up with ANY disrespect. I am a lady at all times, and you will treat me like one! Being new isn't some type of dammed disease, i researched this hobby for a year and a half before i decided to just jump into it. I have the most amazing mentors and i do know a thing or two rather you like to believe a "new" girl could dare know anything! Yes i have played with my rates, yes i have changed my menu around, just like any business you have to find what exactly works best for you. And this works fabulously for me, my inbox was fuller when i didn't upgrade my menu believe it or not, not the main focus here. My main focus in this business is to provide like nobody's business, small bbw with a restricted menu and all. To me its about a connection a amazing girlfriend experience not just the menu.  
 
I really am considering not using this site, but i won't let bullys asshats try to stop what i adore, their are still some great men and it wouldn't be fare to them now would it? Rather my "menu" be restricted to a couple items, boo fricken whoo go sit in a chair and pout about it. I offer an amazing GFE in which some gentlemen will appreciate. I needed to get that off of my mind, have a wonderful Monday!  
 
*Drops mic*

I can't even comprehend why somebody would feel the need to send another person rude emails or PMs on this site our outside of it.  I would think that if a provider isn't offering what they want, then one would simply move on.  

As with all message boards, there are trolls, bullies and the like.  The anonymity of being able to hide behind a user ID on a message board motivates some to be ass-hats for whatever reason.  But if those same ass-hats had to face you and say the same rude things it would be a whole different story.

For every internet ass-hat, there are 20 decent people (that's the ratio my extensive ass-hat research has revealed).  Furthermore, the decent folks probably don't post as much, or at all and this can leave you with the impression that maybe there aren't that many decent folks around; not the case.

I haven't been on this site all that long, but it doesn't really appear that much different than any other message board.  However, I'm not a provider and I'm not subject to the emails and PMs you guys get.  I'm sorry you are having a bad experience right now... I'd just recommend ignoring/blocking  disrespectful hobbyists and focus on the decent folks.  You are not doing anything wrong with how you approach this line of work.... just hang in there and stick to your guns.

People should not be rude.
my menu is not all that open either but I provide a great session
and have clients that love to see me, over and over again...

do what you need to do sweety.

Best of luck....

Karley....

why not just deal with the PMs? it's the experienced, mature thing to do.  

Do you  think that the remaining 99% of TER guys care about your PM's?

...how many stupid, rude idiots there are out there who think they need to share their genius with the world. Do what you want, charge what you want, and adjust when and what you want. If you're busy, great. If not, only adjust to what you're comfortable with.

And you always have the satisfaction of knowing you're the one who can sell it and they're the ones who can't give it away.

I think anyone that deals with the general public on a daily basis in any profession will agree you can't make everyone happy all the time.  It's unfortunate that some people get off on making others miserable.  Just need to focus on the ones who appreciate it which will usually be more in numbers then those who don't.

The one noticeable thing is a very personal choice,not that everything else is not

Is amazing, thank you all for your kind words and understanding, also taking your time to comment all smiles and dfk!!

Thumper, god bless you happy Monday.

Sorry you had some gruff ... Ignore them and focus on the rest of us!!

You can't make everyone happy but you can make yourself happy.

And learn something from the people that disagree with you. This hobby allows us to be a selfish dick that only exaggerates our sense of power and importance. Problem is that we exist in your civilian life as well. So, I say open a discussion with the few that disagree with you and learn something that might help you navigate the hobby and the real world more efficiently.  I am not saying change your menu because of someone that demands it.  I am saying understand those people that lack respect and are dismissive of your rights. The real world is littered with people that think that it revolves around them.  

The nice thing about the hobby is that you are not going to be sued because you do not want to offer something. Unlike businesses that are required to meet industry standards or the demands of the government, you can do as you please. So, learn from these people because they are not going to go away because you vented on the board. There are always going to be those who are going to ask you in the session and those who send PMs. So I say embrace to opportunity to understand them in order to better function along with them, not for them

I, for one, would like to know if someone is being a jerk.  She should have to hide if she's being harassed.

*picks up mic*
a verbal form of humping your leg to show some feigned sense of dominance...  
typically lacking in testicular fortitude and penile impressiveness that they have to attempt to swing around their pinky sized man muscle like its a claymoore in Brave Heart..  

*claps hands* Bravo it takes a real ballsy brave soul to send an asshole email.,,  
I bet they patted themselves on the back,, lets talk about how impressive these guys look now..  
"oh look I whined like a little bitchboy because, boohoo, a provider isnt letting me get my way and boohoo she doesnt offer the services I want, boohoo,,, waaaa waaa waaa
and instead of researching to find a provider who does offer the menu I want ,, boo hoo, im going to act like an entitled jackass and let her know what I really think... booo hooo waaaa waaaa waaaaa"

Now Mariah I know it felt good to verbalize your frustration,, but if you look at the real big picture,,  
are those really the kind of clients you want in the first place ? :P  
Im going to stab in the dark that you prefer men not boys ,,

 
And for those of you who dont think it's "proper" to come on to a forum of which she is a member and vent her frustrations about asinine members of the community, let me direct you to your posts about bad providers.. or when things didnt click, or blah blah blah blah...  

Just because she is a provider doesnt give her less rights to post on this forum, and it allows her to get input from more experienced gents and ladies on how she can handle that situation..  
Personally I like that she put a lil attitude in it because it reminds all of us that we are not fuck bot drones who lack depth and emotions..  
Plus it also makes the community aware that there are problem children in the sandbox who cant play well with others and have to resort to bullying and intimidation to beat their proverbial chests like some Neanderthal..

Golly and wasnt it recently that we heard from some Maxi pad douche about how Providers should be mindful and "police" eachother about our behavior,,   maybe after hearing some of the complaints that providers have about conduct unbecoming with clients you should go to your backchannels and teach a class about manners ... Just a thought..  

MAriah you are welcome here just like everyone else , to vent your frustrations about this industry, there's alot that goes into it and this is a great place to get feedback,,  
*big booby hugs*

~Cat-titude  
xox

On a more serious note, as always you are on the mark! And Mariah, I am beyond finding words to express my respect for you for coming forward & refusing to cower the these mindless putzers. You go girl! Eminem would be proud!

Lmbo Cat I'm almost speechless, the love I've received is crazy, good crazy but crazy indeed. I couldn't agree more with what you wrote thank you.

I've gotten triple the amount of love then negativity sense i first opened my messages this am. Providers and true gentlemen, yup nothing but smiles this way. I feel welcomed and have let go of the bs from miserable people.  

Sometimes you just gotta put your foot into it, hopefully it doesn't get stuck.  

[qutote]*picks up mic*  
 a verbal form of humping your leg to show some feigned sense of dominance...  
 typically lacking in testicular fortitude and penile impressiveness that they have to attempt to swing around their pinky sized man muscle like its a claymoore in Brave Heart..  
   
 *claps hands* Bravo it takes a real ballsy brave soul to send an asshole email.,,  
 I bet they patted themselves on the back,, lets talk about how impressive these guys look now..  
 "oh look I whined like a little bitchboy because, boohoo, a provider isnt letting me get my way and boohoo she doesnt offer the services I want, boohoo,,, waaaa waaa waaa  
 and instead of researching to find a provider who does offer the menu I want ,, boo hoo, im going to act like an entitled jackass and let her know what I really think... booo hooo waaaa waaaa waaaaa"  
   
 Now Mariah I know it felt good to verbalize your frustration,, but if you look at the real big picture,,  
 are those really the kind of clients you want in the first place ? :P  
 Im going to stab in the dark that you prefer men not boys ,,  
   
   
 And for those of you who dont think it's "proper" to come on to a forum of which she is a member and vent her frustrations about asinine members of the community, let me direct you to your posts about bad providers.. or when things didnt click, or blah blah blah blah...  
   
 Just because she is a provider doesnt give her less rights to post on this forum, and it allows her to get input from more experienced gents and ladies on how she can handle that situation..  
 Personally I like that she put a lil attitude in it because it reminds all of us that we are not fuck bot drones who lack depth and emotions..  
 Plus it also makes the community aware that there are problem children in the sandbox who cant play well with others and have to resort to bullying and intimidation to beat their proverbial chests like some Neanderthal..  
   
 Golly and wasnt it recently that we heard from some Maxi pad douche about how Providers should be mindful and "police" eachother about our behavior,,   maybe after hearing some of the complaints that providers have about conduct unbecoming with clients you should go to your backchannels and teach a class about manners ... Just a thought..  
   
 MAriah you are welcome here just like everyone else , to vent your frustrations about this industry, there's alot that goes into it and this is a great place to get feedback,,  
 *big booby hugs*  
   
 ~Cat-titude  
 xoxo