I asked a similar question (see below) and got some great advice  Despite the advice given I have chosen to simply not see her anymore...it would be too difficult for me to continue

Don't do it.

Check out this thread below.  It should answer your questions.   It is not an unusual thing.

"I pay her in cash to have sex with me...I pay her in cash to have sex with me..."

...probably made a good decision.  Continuing is easy, stopping is the hard part.

I think a majority of posters here ignore this advice - or at least forget it.

it will only lead to disappointment and drama. There are to few story's that say anything else. In most cases you will only have a gal laughing to the bank and you with a lot less in the wallet.

Until proven otherwise (i.e., she will see you for no payment), you are her client, no matter how wonderful she makes you feel.

If you can control your feelings then maybe you can keep seeing her if it's not too hard on you when you get over the high of seeing her.  On the other hand, if it's too tough then don't see her any longer.

If you can't control your feelings then you are in trouble because she probably won't keep seeing you.  In that case, hopefully she will stop seeing you before she takes you for as much cash as she can get out of you.

Depends on the circumstances and the provider and you.  While the general message from the posts above is generally true, there are always exceptions.

PM me if you want to discuss details.

Other than that, my advice is to be kind and interested in her, observe boundaries, let her know that you like her but don't let on that you're really sweet on her, and, most important, let her come to you.  If you and she are going to cross the line, it's going to be because she decides to.  

And remember, respect is more important than love.

Believe it or not-providers don't want you to fall in love or get attached to them-
They have families, significant others, friends outside of the hobby, civie dates, real lives!
It is a business relationship!
Client/provider-

"Take as much cash as she can get out of you?"
It is a mutually beneficial business transaction that is taking place.  Sex for money.
No strings attached.......EOM

I'm sure that's true for most of them.  However, there are some who will take advantage of a man's feelings to deceive him into giving her money for all sorts of things beyond what her session fee is.

You can only get taken advantage of to the extent you allow yourself to get taken advantage of.
I have never understood why it is sometimes difficult for people to tell the difference between a girl they're paying vs a girl in a real relationship.

A woman who's primary focus is on the business end cannot possibly behave exactly the same as one who is genuinely interested in you.

Both leave tons of clues as to their intentions. If you don't recognize the clues it's not because she is such a fantastic provider or actress. It's because you consciously choose to ignore them.

So long as you continue to hand her the white envelope, I think you should refrain from using the word care in regards to her.

Enjoy your few hours of bliss with a beautiful woman, be thankful that you are able to satisfy your indulgence and go about your merry way.

I agree with you 100%, have seen it happen. Then the lady not evan know him after he stops the so called help.

Advice from someone who's been there is the most sage advice you will get.  I could write volumes about me and others whom I know personally and have fallen into the same predicament.  Only one story out of several that possibly may have a happy ending, but the jury is still out on it.  All the other stories are disasters.  Trust me, my friend, look for a girlfriend elsewhere.

I believe that everyone who is around this hobby for awhile has gone thru what you are experiencing.  Count me as part of that group.  I developed a simple cure for this - when you think you are something special and you might be the only - pull up the reviews and find out that you are one of many.  Usually the girls with this skill level have honed it over time and are the favorites of many.  From carefully reading the reviews, you will also find out that the words that happen in the heat of the moment that you think are for you- happen in almost every session.
My advice for what it is worth - find more ATFs and see them interchangably- they are out there.  It lessens the agony.  Best wishes.

As you read the reviews of some of the best ladies, you will notice that they make every guest feel special. So that would make me extra special right?  Well maybe not so much.

Unless you just want to spread misconceptions and encourage false hopes.

Yes, people win the lottery, but proceeding as if winning the lottery is a reasonably common event is idiotic.  

The only thing not clear in your post is if you are providing more disservice to hobbyists or escorts.

One thing to keep in mind for those of you who insist there MIGHT be something there with your provider;

Go for it and ask her if she'd like to go out with you for no fee sometime (or offer to buy her dinner or something; no sex involved) and let her know you don't want an answer that day, you just want her to think about it and let you know once she decides.  Then drop it.  Stop seeing her or whatever you need to do but drop it and never mention it again.

This way, she's doesn't feel the pressure, you don't get embarrassed and if the feelings are not there, you'll pretty much know your answer right away.  

If she feels the same way, I'm fairly confident she'll agree to go out with you sometime then and there.  If she's not comfortable with it (for whatever reason) she'll say something polite, I'd hope, like "I'll think about".  

No matter what it's always important for us to respect one another.  If she doesn't want to go out with you, she has her reasons for it which generally have NOTHING to do with you (e.i. she's got a boyfriend, she doesn't date clients or for the hopeful reason; she's a closet lesbian, heehee)

Either way, it doesn't hurt to put it out there but try not to put her on the spot.  Nobody wins in that situation.  

Thanks for reading my thoughts.  I hope this helps.

This is true.  He did not say they were common.