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The first time is always awkward
Feetlover 20 Reviews 1730 reads
posted
1 / 12

If you meet someone one for the first time, but doesn't go quite like you hoped?  Not putting blame on either person.. Just the idea of meeting for the first time can be ackward etc... ?      Do you think it is better the second visit?  More familiar with each other?  Hmmmm...... Thoughts?

souls_harbor 516 reads
posted
2 / 12

I'll let you know when I've run through all the girls I haven't seen yet.

vorlon 119 Reviews 300 reads
posted
3 / 12

It really depends on why you think it didn't go so well and if you can honestly look at it and come up with a good reason why you think the 2nd time will be better.  In other words it's yet another YMMV situation.

RickBMN 65 Reviews 272 reads
posted
4 / 12

Just a massage guy, but I've had a few times where the first meeting wasn't so great but I thought maybe it was me or her having a bad day (as we all do).  If the session was OK and she seemed like a nice person and there were no other warning flags telling me do not go back, I've given a second shot.  A couple of times I was really glad I did because we were able to talk about the last session like adults and have great times thereafter, and a few times where I kicked myself for going back.  As with any activity involving such closeness and contact, sometimes the first time starts out on the wrong foot.  Tough decision though since there are numerous providers and the fee to play is not exactly peanuts.

Sstrm01 13 Reviews 328 reads
posted
5 / 12

With hopes that it will be better than the first. I do however go to 2nd meetings knowing that it is likely to be just as good as the first time and very likely could be better!
I have had a first meeting that was so good that it was hard to imagine it getting any better! Grey Goose lemonades has become a favorite for me this summer!

SassyRed See my TER Reviews 433 reads
posted
6 / 12

It can improve with open communication about your desires.
And sometimes nerves get in the way when meeting someone new.
If you are nervous, say you are and that helps break the ice.

Spanks,
Red (the Sassy one

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 355 reads
posted
7 / 12

As a provider, 2nd time around is alway more intimate/naughtier... When you meet someone for the first time you two are just getting to know each other & there's always little hesitations that linger. 2nd or 3rd or more, you get the comfortability in place & things follow better, also you can be more expressive.  Being someone who adores her ATFs & regulars I'm all for repeat visits....  

I think my neighbor is having some amazing sex this morning at my hotel, heard some noises through the walls ..... I'm jealous!!!!  

Good morning Minnepolis!!!  
Have a fabulous day & stay dry!!  
Xo

vantheman666 11 Reviews 312 reads
posted
8 / 12

Especially on the provider's part, I think.  Screening only goes so far, and she's alone with a complete stranger.  Once you've gotten past the first date, and established that you're not a creep, women are going to be much more relaxed and comfortable with you.  Then the chemistry can start to build.

knotsaway 38 Reviews 198 reads
posted
11 / 12

... where the first meeting is like seeing an old friend... a "friend with benefits", I guess.  ;)  Just why that happens, it's hard to say.  Maybe because we've exchanged PMs, emails, texts, and sometimes even talked on the phone to get acquainted first. Maybe because the provider has received good reports from other providers and/or her assistant (when the assistant works with other providers I've seen) so she's comfortable from the get-go.  Maybe it's because of the provider's personality and her approach to the business.  

I usually know within the first ten seconds how the first date will go.  Nothing like a big smile, a hug, and maybe a welcoming kiss to set the stage for a great first date... and beyond!

TCButtman 238 reads
posted
12 / 12

And in mt case is all about personality. You can obviously tell when the provider is genuine or faking it or maybe I can read them well :)  
I wouldn't repeat if we don't click.

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