So i am a newbie and looking for advice on how to make sound decision when picking
a provider that isnt reviewed like say from BP. Looking for how to read the red flags so
I can get too those good ones.

Many of the women on back page have up to date reviews.  If you see someone you like, do a name search and a seperate phone number search.  If the girl doesn't have reviews...move on to your next choice.  I would bet the majority of reviews come from ads on backpage or cityvibe.  

And, your question is simple.  Why the alias?

For instance, I saw a client last night, who was completely pleased & happy with our session! I asked him politely if he'd do a review on me since he was pleased with our session bcuz I'm new! He said, "Are you kidding? I want to keep you to myself bcuz I've never met any1 who's pleased me more & made me more happy then you! I don't want to share you!" He was from a different state & only makes it here 4 times a YEAR!!!! Now, I have a family I have to support... So, I obviously NEED to have more clients then just him! I know he was happy because he ended up having me come back again a couple of hours later for some MORE FUN! So, how does a '2 month newbie' get clients that must see reviews BEFORE choosing a certain provider... If there are NO reviews on them? Btw I only found out the other day to start asking clients to write reviews from asking on here. Thank you for any & all advice everyone! Have an AWESOME Sunday Night!!!!!

Start out with some reviewed providers and learn the lay of the land before you trying to figure out if unreviewed girls are legit or not.

Your job is to convince them to take a chance on you.

Here is her BP ad

And who are you, lovesnow69?  If you are trying to become more popular, advertise yourself with a link in your posting.

Ditto what chiseler said.  There are quite a few of us out here who do reviews.  We can't help you out without seeing an ad or something.

How about a link to an ad or something that gives us a clue about what you are like?