Posted By: rb25
Not quite two years ago I was stuck in an unbelievable rut in the dating scene. Recounting my story to a co-worker he said, "dude, you need to go to BP and get yourself a prostitute. Get a blue pill and go have some fun. You need it."
That's not who I wanted to be. So I discounted his suggestion. About a month passed and I got curious but was still unwilling to take THAT plunge. As I saw "body to body massage" I got a little more intrigued so I clicked. By this time, it had been nearly seven years since I'd had even just a date let alone a single gf. Like I said, unbelievable and I don't care if you believe me or not. I'd be inclined to disbelieve this story myself if I haven't lived it. But seriously, how does one suffer rejection well over a dozen a times in a row these days (even if I'm fairly introverted - though not lacking confidence in who I am)? I asked out gals I knew, gals I worked with, struck up conversations with strangers, online dating, etc. I digress.
Anyway, the whole point of this post is to say THANK YOU to the women I've met in this hobby (as I still pursue the dating scene with a little more luck these days!). I'm finding that the women in the dating scene (generally speaking) aren't as open, engaging, caring and nice/sweet as the providers I've met.
I had my own biased opinions and perceptions going into this hobby but I'm finding that I was wrong. For that, I sincerely apologize. The power of human contact and the touch of a woman is a simple life pleasure. I value, on a personal level, beyond the sensuality, the connections I've made with these women. Society at large may frown on us. But this isn't much different than "normal" dating relationship exercises. I think we're probably more honest as a whole.
It's a new perception. Again. Thank you.
-- Modified on 1/23/2016 1:13:32 PM
